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No pleasure during sex, ejaculate early - Online Doctor Chats

Date : 21-Feb-2012
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Very Good Posted in: Sexual Problems
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Practicing since : 2005
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User :   Hello I am a 22 year old male and I cant feel pleasure during sex (traditional or oral) I feel a sensation but I can describe it mostly as an annoying ruoubing with some touches of very light pain in between...
I can the entire penis inside my girlfriend (its about 13CM in lenghth)
I want to make clear here that I am straight I feel the desire to penetrate women when they just talk to me I can ge4t arroused... and when I am with a woman I want to penetrate fast and hard (tried slow though as well) but nothing no pleasure at all..Only a little psychological pleasure... but I canont sense the "crazy pleasure" that my friends describe to me when they penetrate fast and hard their girlfriends...
Same goes about oral...
The most odd thing is that despite the fact that I dont feel pleasure I ejaculate within 1 minute.. (some times untill 4 minutes but thats it... I think I managed 10 minutes one time maximum)
Here I want to add that ejaculationduring sex isnt pleasureful aswell.. only some rare times. but then again nothing extraordinary.. some shallow sense of pleasure...
Same goes if I ejaculate during masturbation.... no really pleasure(I can remember the times I used to masturbate in my childhood 14-16 I wasnt masturbading that much.. but when I did the pleasure was extra terestrial... I feeled also the nervs of my feet to shacking by the pleasure.... I also used to ejaculate little more than nowadays.. now I ejaculate about a soup spoon..)or is there a way to get a sensation using any kind of dermatology therapy or cream or laser or whatever...
Doctor :   Hi,
User :   Hello Dr I need a sexologist or an ourologist
Doctor :   I am a General Physician, I believe I can help you within my expertise and If required I shall recommend a specialist
User :   ok
User :   would you like to read the above question? or you like me to describe you my problem from sratch?
Doctor :   we do provide services where you can consult a specialist ( sexologist or onco) via phone call or email
User :   and that is with extra charge?
Doctor :   yes, but i will get this chat charge refunded
User :   thank you :) could you also tell me how to use the telephone or email service?
Doctor :   Now you will be shown a green pop up in the right of the chat window which will guide you
User :   should I push the "End Chat" button first?
User :   ok it poped
User :   thnx
Doctor :   now we shal close the chat
Doctor :   bye
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