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No mood for sex due to bad past experience and mental block - Online Doctor Chats

Date : 21-Feb-2012
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User :   my husband wants to do sex with me but i am not able to come in mood of sexplz tell me some sex pills
Doctor :   hi
Doctor :   Dr. here
User :   HELLO
Doctor :   please describe your symptoms in detail
User :   WHEN HE COMES ON BED AND TRY TO KISS ME I AM NOT ABLE TO GIVE KISS
User :   SO PLEASE TEL ME THAT I AM ABLE TO HAVE SEX WITH HIM
Doctor :   what exactly comes in mind that stops you from responding?
User :   I GET ANGRY
Doctor :   what causes th anger?have you had any past bad experiences?
User :   THEN I STOP HIM BUT HE DOESNT LISTEN GIVE ADVICE
User :   YA
User :   WITH MY EX BOYFRIEND
Doctor :   ok, did you have any problems when having intercourse at that time?
User :   YA I WAS BLEEDING TOO MUCH
Doctor :   if you were able to enjoy it or had no problems or discomfort then it is probably a mental block to the results you saw after it
Doctor :   was it your first time intercourse which led to bleeding?
User :   BLEEDING WAS FOR 5 DAYS I CONSULT TO DOCTOR
User :   YA
User :   ITS FIRST TIME
Doctor :   if yes, then it would be due to breaking of hymen, it is normal, and does not happen with subsequent intercourse
Doctor :   try to get over your past, and look into present and future
Doctor :   let it not spoil anything
User :   I LIKE TO ADVICE TO U TEL ME TABLET NAME
Doctor :   there is no tablet to help you in this, it is only with counseling and your own efforts that you will overcome this
User :   MY FRIEND TOOK TABLET
User :   NAM,E VIGORE 50MG
Doctor :   Viagra is usually given to males who have erection problem and not able to have sex
Doctor :   it comes with complications too.
User :   MEAN?
Doctor :   since your is not a problem of having sex (you have had before) it is 90% chances that it is due to mental blocks that have benn formed due to bleeding after first intercourse
Doctor :   you will overcome it with counseling and couple therapy
Doctor :   couple therapy is done to help couples together to find what problems they are faced with and how to come out of it
Doctor :   so do not depend on medications when cure can be done naturally
User :   TABLET VIRYAGRO ?
Doctor :   it can cause sudden hypotension, heart attack and prolonged stimulation. It is used primarily for male sexual dysfunction, not for female sexual dysfunction
User :   OK
Doctor :   your problem is not a organic problem since you have had intercourse before, hence it means that you can have it again once blocks are removed
User :   I THOUGHT THAT U MAY GIVE ME FEMALE SEX CAPSULE SO WHAT I SUBCRIBED
Doctor :   it is a prescription medication and is given only when sexual dysfunction diagnosis is properly established. do not take any medication on your own
Doctor :   I strongly recommend you to take help of sexologist or a gynecologist to help you get over your past bad experience of bleeding
Doctor :   which wil help you to establish marital relations with good results
User :   OK THANX
Doctor :   is there anything else I can help you with?
User :   NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO
Doctor :   thanks for consulting me. bye for now.
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