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Date : 13-Jan-2012
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Doctor :   hi
User :   hello
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how r u , sir
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ow can i help you
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fine
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how about you
User :   fine, .sir. i m male 30 yrs , married and having two kids
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ok
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that's really fine
User :   since last few months, my wife started getting some problem...it is related to
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yes proceed
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that she never wants sex to be performed...just to make be happy, unwantely she does that
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ok
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and during sexual intercourse sometimes she feels severe pain and sometimes nt
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ok
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does that come in your way
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of pleasure very much
User :  
i consulted the dr(gyne)...she told ...about some infection....gave to me also.....we toook that....now a days that pain problem is nt there.....but her
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her problem related to not performing the sex wantedly is continued
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ok can i what did they prescribe
Doctor :   when was it diagnosed ?
User :  
ok. that prescription is nt currenltly with me.... i can mail that
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almost 6 month back
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And is she continuing the medication yet
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ok was it oral tabs or short of cream
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to apply in the genitals
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she very oftenly keep on facing the problem of (going to pass urine gaian and again , but urine excatly does nt come much, but that tendency....)
User :  
oral as well as some to apply also
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one pill
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ok
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and some ointment also
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does she complain of itching
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white dischsrge
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sometimes....nt on regular basis
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no. no white discharge
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any foul smelling discharge
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no
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ok
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was there any improvement after medication
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and how long did she have
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now the problem of pain, i could not find since last one month....but the second problem is stilll continued
Doctor :   that is passing urine often right
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or refusing sex
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no.....problem of nt getting redy for sex on her own...i mean she wants sex never to be performed with here
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ya
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her age
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28
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and the children age
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4, 2
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do you stay in joined family
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no
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ok
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other than this is she fine im other aspects of life
User :  
ya
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ok this is due to pain
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it is called dyspareunia
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that is painfull intercourse
User :  
if i made her to see some hot movie, then she oftenly get here mode done for sex....else.....
Doctor :   ok
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that is what we say visual arousal
User :  
how can this be treated
Doctor :   i will help you through this
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ok
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first and foremost whenever your desire for sex is on verge
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you must hold patients
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females like to be handled gently
User :  
ok
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especially in this condition
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where pain with holds them
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more of time is needed to be spent in the forplay
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foreplay is very important i the convincing part
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but even inspite of this if she is feeling pain
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should use some sterile lubricants
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wht is thsi sterlite lubricant, plz?
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normally liquid paraffin is the one
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ok.
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which is available in medical stores
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ok. is using this medically safe ...i mean no side effect
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but if the pain is more then lignocaine gel is used
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yes parffin is used safely if there is no infection
User :  
ok. actually, she is not currently with me....so i m not able to tell her problem in much detail, otherwise i would have received some more valuable suggestions frm your side. i shalll come online again on the same matter when she shalll be with me
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lignocaine is a local anesthetics used when there is no wound or infection
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ok
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please fill the feed back form
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ya, i have filled it up
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sir, i shall again get in touch with u on some time on some other day
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and you are always welcome . we are at your service to help you
User :  
thanks a lot for ur valuable suggestion.
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gud nite, sir.
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good night
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hello sir
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ok
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