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Nasal surgery, anxiety - Online Doctor Chats

Date : 13-Jan-2012
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Excellent Posted in: Ear, Nose and Throat Problems
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Practicing since : 2004
Answered : 40 Questions
User :   Hello, Doctor!
Doctor :   Hi
User :   it's me
User :   is it You , doctor?
User :   Doctor
Doctor :  
Yes, the same
User :   UAHUUUUU!!
User :   so good seeing You here again!
Doctor :  
Thank you
User :   thanks so much for our yesterday chat
User :   how are You? Hope everything's w ell
Doctor :  
Ok, it is a pleasure
Doctor :  
Yes, everything fine here
User :   I'm trying to go on with my " take"
User :   I'd like asking You something , Esteemed Doctor
Doctor :  
Ok
User :   about if it would be possible having a chat with webcam
Doctor :   Sorry, right now the feature is not available

User :   not even on MSN?
Doctor :  
There are plans to start it within the next quarter
User :   I'd really need a Doctor advice about my face expression, since from that event on I began suffering of " dysmorphism" too, that's to say I see myself ugly even if people say I'm absolutely normal
Doctor :   Yes, that is a built in inferiority complex
User :   I lost contact with myself, it's like I feel with no face expression, completly " amorph"
Doctor :  
Should be taken off gradually
User :   since that so much big suffering I didn't look myself in mirror for more than one year
User :   I didn't know more what kind of face I had
Doctor :   Ok
User :   the face muscles are just like fixed, static
User :   I didn't smile more
User :   You can see Doctor, what my ex-husband succeed in doing to me
Doctor :   Ok, but you should start

User :   yes, now it's more than two years that things began to change
Doctor :   Ok

User :   I had to start from the very beginning like a child
Doctor :  
like?
User :   Doctor, I found a picture of my nose as it was before the surgery
Doctor :   Ok

User :   i.e. I didn't touch my face
User :   I didn't look in the mirror, no make-up
User :   no gym
User :   no shots; so I began everything again
Doctor :  
Ok
Doctor :  
I understand
User :   II'd like sending You, Doctor, my nose picture as it was before surgery , more than ten years ago
Doctor :   Sure, I was about to tell that

User :   oh, please, tell me
Doctor :   the same, to send that picture

User :   have You s ee my pictures again?
Doctor :   Yes yesterday I saw it

Doctor :  
Since you are going to get your consultation this week
Doctor :  
with the cosmetic surgeon
User :   no, I'm going to phone him
User :   and I think I'll go in some weeks
Doctor :  
I thought we shall discuss it again after his appointment
Doctor :  
Why?
User :   he's very busy
User :   I have to take appoitment at least three weeks before
Doctor :   Ok

User :   Your esteemed opinion, Doctor , is really so much important and precious
Doctor :   Sure

User :   even before surgeon opinion
Doctor :  
Fine, I shall
User :   so good !
Doctor :   Do tell the old picture as well

Doctor :  
sorry send the old one
User :   that's right
User :   if I send it immediately, You can see it?
Doctor :   I will need to download it

Doctor :  
it would be better for me to see it in detail and compare the 2
User :   that's right,I'll send it immediately after chat
Doctor :  
Fine
User :   so I send the nose before the surgery; the nose after the surgery
Doctor :   Ok

Doctor :  
The ones you have sent is after the surgery right?
User :   so You can compare the two shots with which I sent, realted to nose after the banging
User :   yes, after surgery, but after the banging and with the surgeon retouch with finger tips
Doctor :   Yes

Doctor :  
got it
Doctor :  
come in order putting as 1,2 and 3
Doctor :  
do mention it in the mail
Doctor :  
that is enough
Doctor :  
need not tell it again
User :   I think that maybe the surgeon retouch was maybe almost solving since before surgery he asked me if I want a very indented nose
Doctor :   Ok

User :   hollow nose, a nd I said not too much indented so he made me s ee two kind of retouchs, one more hollow and one less
Doctor :   Ok

User :   than he chose a middle way
User :   so when I bang , and he made the pressure retouch maybe the nose became just less indented than before
User :   it's just an humble thought of mine, Doctor, since really I've thought everything
Doctor :   Ok

User :   before banging the nose was quite hollow, than banging and then the nose became with pressure little bit convex
Doctor :   Ok

User :   could it be plausible?
Doctor :   Meaning
User :   really?
Doctor :   What you mean by plausible, I asked

User :   likely, probable
User :   convincing
Doctor :   Yes it is

User :   oh, so good
User :   sometimes I feel myself like a..." plastic surgeon " lol
User :   sorry, Doctor, it's because my nose it's just like printed in my mind
Doctor :   Ok

User :   not to get fool, I had to think continuously
Doctor :   Yes, you have thought a lot about it
User :   yes, miliards of times
Doctor :  
so it is obvious to have an imprint in the brain
User :   I dream about the nose, I study about nasal bones
Doctor :   Ok
User :   Doctor, what is it " coaxial curve" ?
Doctor :  
Shall I tell you one thing
User :   please, tell me, Doctor
Doctor :  
Studying too much about the problems is really not a healthy habit
User :   You're so much right, Doctor
Doctor :  
You should know what to do and what not to
Doctor :  
that should end the patient education
Doctor :  
because if it continues more than that
Doctor :  
it shall trouble your mind and life
Doctor :  
you should tailor yourself in this regard
User :   its' so much true and right
Doctor :   So have more faith on the doctor

User :   I'll try to do this, Doctor, absolutely
Doctor :  
if you are not able to ask him in detail
Doctor :  
then we are there
Doctor :  
but you should not go on to trivial details, complications, outcomes, etc.
User :   so much right
Doctor :   Those are theoretical stuff

User :   You mean that I think to the past
User :   I quarrel about my ex-husband and I feel guilty about myself
Doctor :   Browsing the condition meaning googling it
Doctor :  
leads to many doubts
Doctor :  
Ok
Doctor :  
You should try out to relax
Doctor :  
Do a good physical exercise everyday
Doctor :  
like gym you said
User :   oh, so much right, Doctor, I don't know even what is relax more
User :   I'm just like a rock
Doctor :  
Why ?
Doctor :  
No you are not
User :   I don't have any more feelings
Doctor :  
You are a very good human being
Doctor :  
and you should continue on that
User :   You make me move , Doctor
User :   in my soul there's just suffering
Doctor :  
You pray, you thank, you take care of your mother, do you think rocks can do such things
Doctor :  
It is because of your good will, you do it
User :   oh , thanks so much , Doctor,
User :   it's just like a big rock came down on my poor shoulders
Doctor :  
Now just blast that rock
User :   marriage wrong, teeth problems with my mother, my nose bang
Doctor :   of these things, marital problem is the main
User :   my entire life exploded
Doctor :  
rest are trivial
User :   really?
Doctor :  
you should not take it to the very core
User :   You're right, Doctor
User :   You mean that teeth and nose problems can be anyway solved
Doctor :   Yes

Doctor :  
they are not the serious part of life
User :   and maybe the most deep problem is about marriage
Doctor :  
it is just that your perception should change
User :   yes, You're so much right, Doctor
User :   yes, my perception...
Doctor :  
even marriage, if it is not good
Doctor :  
what you should is to come out of it
Doctor :  
or solve it
Doctor :  
only 2 things
Doctor :  
opt for a way after evaluating the pros and cons, and go ahead
Doctor :   once that is made

Doctor :  
your worries should come down
Doctor :  
you should not be obsessed with it
User :   so much right, Doctor
Doctor :  
Engage yourself in your favorite pass time
User :   right, so good
Doctor :  
go for volunteering activities if you have sufficient time
User :   yes, I like so much volunteers
Doctor :  
read humorous books and tv programs which relax you
Doctor :  
have good sleep
Doctor :  
and a good exercise
Doctor :  
you shall really relax after this
Doctor :  
relaxation is not sitting still
Doctor :  
if your body is active, the mind slows down
Doctor :  
if you dont do anything, the thoughts come at the speed of light
Doctor :  
So, should not keep idle
User :   so much right, Doctor
Doctor :   Is there any thing else I can help you with?

User :   I'll begin following all Your so much precious teachments, Doctor
User :   I 'll begin with body activity
Doctor :   Sure

User :   and go on with mind realx
User :   relax
User :   I send You pictures too, Doctor
Doctor :   sure

User :   so , for now it's not still possible suing MSn with webcam?
User :   using MSN
Doctor :   No, we use our own chat application

User :   that's right
Doctor :  
which is not webcam integrated right now
User :   oh, maybe I can s end You an instant shooting with my webcam
User :   so that You can tell me Your precious opinion on my live face expression
User :   live and immediate
Doctor :   Ok, send it and will look into all the pictures today

User :   oh, that's right, Doctor, I really want beginning feeling live again
Doctor :   Ok

User :   I'll send You everything today
Doctor :  
Fine
User :   thanks again so much, Doctor, the very last thing, we're waiting for the partial for my mother
User :   we sent the impressions and the lab will send us the partial
Doctor :   Ok
User :   she thanks You, Doctor, from the deep of her heart and me too
Doctor :   Thank you

User :   You changed our lives and all our Blessings are towards You forever
Doctor :  
Your thanks are overflowing now
User :   may God Bless You always!!!
Doctor :   Thanks for consulting HealthcareMagic. Bye for now. Please refer your friends to our service.

User :   bye for now!
User :   :)))))
Doctor :   Bye

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