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Date : 13-Jan-2012
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User :   Dear Sir

I wish to have a consultation. I'm going through a unwanted stress by thinking more about my future. I wish to know how should i get control over my mind
Doctor :   Hi
User :   good evening sir
Doctor :  
good evening
Doctor :   how can i help you?
User :   let me introduce myself
Doctor :   ok
User :   I'm at 27, an engg BE graducate started own business last august 12
User :   i was working in dubai its my dream to do some business
Doctor :  
User :   that why i quite my job and started own business
Doctor :   ok
User :   i was going through a very tough financial situation
Doctor :  
User :   now i have got a few project
Doctor :  
thats good
User :   finanially am earning
Doctor :  
User :   but the stress was started from
User :   i fall in love with a girl
Doctor :  
User :   in last feb
User :   getting an year
Doctor :  
User :   we both love each other very much
User :   but
User :   last november i realised that she had
User :   an affair with a another boy
Doctor :  
User :   and i got a call from him
User :   he told me about he had a crush on her
Doctor :  
User :   both had a crush each other nothing more
User :   both of them are studying for BE final year
Doctor :  
User :   same class
Doctor :  
User :   am doing my busiess
User :   for the last one year we had met only twice
Doctor :  
User :   i know now she or he has any contact
User :   but in my subconcious mind
User :   am getting worried when
User :   she is not giving me calls in time
Doctor :  
User :   she gives me call daily three four times
Doctor :  
User :   we are talking through phone daily night after 11
User :   around 1 hour
Doctor :  
User :   am never wanna discuss anythning about her x
User :   but deep in my mind
User :   i got worried
User :   i trust her completely
User :   but still some where
Doctor :  
User :   and if
User :   she is late to give a call to me
User :   i got tensed
User :   and
User :   sir
Doctor :   ok
User :   you know
User :   i had a body wieght around 74 kg
User :   right now am at 61
Doctor :  
User :   am not feeling hungry
User :   one worry is about my business
Doctor :   ok
User :   and the other one is about my love
Doctor :  
User :   i think i made you too confused
Doctor :  
User :   this is my metal situation
User :   i know am going through a right path
User :   i have good business
User :   and a good girl friend
User :   both our families knows our relation
User :   and her parents give me time to september 2011
Doctor :   ok
User :   then why should i have to worry
User :   ?
Doctor :  
you say you have have a good girl friend, but internally you don't trust her
Doctor :   this is your problem
User :   yup, am trying
Doctor :  
in any relation it is the trust which is important
User :   i know she is good and loving me very sincere
Doctor :   ok
User :   but if she is late or if her mobile seems to be busy
User :   sir
User :   tell me what should i do
User :   to avoid this negative way of thinking
Doctor :   have you discussed this with her?
User :   very thing
User :   i told her
User :   i worried
Doctor :  
what did she say?
User :   she is telling me that , she is loving me more than anything
User :   will be with me upto her last breath
User :   and promised me that she just had a crush to him
User :   and nothing more
Doctor :   what does your subconscious say?

User :   no she is mine
User :   i can't think anything that she even had a crush to anybody
User :   i don't like to think so
User :   i love her
User :   that much
Doctor :   if she is cheating you, than why will she tell you about that guy?
Doctor :   she has so much faith in you she told everything to you
User :   yes sir
User :   that i know
Doctor :   now is it right for you to think in this negative way
User :   wish to love her
User :   completely purely
User :   but in deep in my mind , i'm afraid
User :   if i fail in my business
User :   or will she leaving me alone
Doctor :   did she love you for your business?
User :   no sir
User :   before starting my business
Doctor :  
than why do you think like this
User :   we falling in love
User :   when i was in rest
User :   after met with an accident
Doctor :   love is by chance
Doctor :  
it has happened
Doctor :  
crush will stay for some time only and it will go off
Doctor :  
but love remains for ever
User :   yes sir
User :   i need to get some positive energy
Doctor :  
now don't spoil the good relation by these negative thoughts
User :   wanna think everything in a positive way

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