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Measures to improve sexual life - Online Doctor Chats

Date : 21-Feb-2012
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User :   hi
Doctor :   Hi
User :   I have doubt...
Doctor :   Iam Dr.XXX
Doctor :   Pease post your query
User :   I not interested to give my name
User :   sry
User :   I am a natural Man
Doctor :   ok
User :   is it a problem after married life related to sex activities?
Doctor :   Ok
Doctor :   What is your age ?
User :   i am 24
Doctor :   Ok
Doctor :   What exactly is your problem?
User :   When I watch any Hot scenes my part will erect....
User :   and i feel uncomfortable in front of others
Doctor :   Ok,That is natural.
Doctor :   Considering your age
Doctor :   Ok
User :   ohk
User :   I suppose I dont have any problem
User :   I am just a natural man
Doctor :   I think you need to develop mental strenght to cope with it
User :   How can i do it?
User :   being a natural man will have any impact on sex life?
Doctor :   No you dont have any problem
Doctor :   First understand that it is a natural response
Doctor :   It becomes a problem once you have no control over it
Doctor :   i MEAN
Doctor :   When your routines are affected or you are excessively obsessed to that
Doctor :   Ok
User :   is it bad to have sex with some other b4 marriage?
User :   or tell me how to have a safe sex
Doctor :   Try to understand that erection is a normal physiological phenomenon
User :   I am out of it now
User :   these are my other questions
User :   is it bad to have sex with some other b4 marriage? or tell me how to have a safe sex
Doctor :   Having unsafe sex will let you get all sexually transmitted diseases
Doctor :   So it comesnow how to decide a sex safe or not
User :   just usin condom can stop any sexually transmited dieseas even if i m not sure abt the person with whom i haing sexual intercourse?
Doctor :   Condom can prevent some
Doctor :   but not all
Doctor :   Ok
User :   then how can i be sure?
Doctor :   condoms can tear
User :   hmm
Doctor :   or even the fluid can get contact with other body areas
User :   oh
Doctor :   non penetrative sex is ome what safe
Doctor :   Solitary sexual activity,masturbation, is safe
Doctor :   ok
User :   okay...
User :   tell me how to improve the sex life
User :   i.e. how to have sex for long time
User :   ways to improve the erection
Doctor :   ok
Doctor :   To improve sex life
Doctor :   you have to win the heart of your partner
Doctor :   i mean understanding both of your sexual preferences
Doctor :   OK
User :   tell me some ways to improve the erection to have sex for long time
Doctor :   OK
Doctor :   First you need to understand whethet you have any problem with your erection
Doctor :   i mean the time
Doctor :   is it like that you cant maintain an erection
User :   wen i do masturbation once the sperm are ejected it goes 3-5 mins
User :   in 3-5 mins once the masturbation is done
Doctor :   That is normal
User :   erection goes off
User :   oh....
Doctor :   Yes after the emission of semen it goes off
Doctor :   the problem is when
Doctor :   Inability to achieve an erection.
Inability to maintain an erection for more than a few minutes.
The erections are not hard enough for penetration.
Doctor :   Most common cause for it is stress and anxiety
User :   because of this heat the skin gets itichy n torn.... on my pennis.....
User :   how can i avoid it
Doctor :   Then comes the interference to blood flow to penis
Doctor :   you can apply some moisturiser on the shaft
Doctor :   and is your skin dry?
User :   gets wet n thn it becomes like that
User :   i use to wear under dres all the time
Doctor :   ok
Doctor :   you need to try oil application alternate with some moisturizer too
Doctor :   OK
User :   can you tell me some moisturusers....or normal mosituriser soap is enough?
Doctor :   Vaseline is good
Doctor :   calamine lotion if you have itch
User :   white one or the yellow one doctor?
Doctor :   White on
Doctor :   XXX
Doctor :   I have given you a link of a specialist dermatoligist
User :   oh okay
User :   any contact number?
Doctor :   you can use the link
User :   ok thanks Dr.XXX
Doctor :   and get an appointment for email reply or phone call
User :   for clearing my years long doubts
Doctor :   Is there anything else you want to ask?
User :   I was searching for a reliable person for long time
Doctor :   Nice talking to you
User :   no
User :   thank you :)
User :   same here
User :   bubye
Doctor :   Thanks for consulting.Bye for now....

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