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Masturbation effects on sex life - Online Doctor Chats

Date : 13-Jan-2012
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Doctor :   Hi
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How can I help you?
User :   hi

Doctor :  
Ok, proceed with your query
User :   pls keep what ever i discuss with you very confidential.
Doctor :   Sure, we maintain it for all

User :   of late, when ever i use a mobile phone, my ears start a bit burning...not only a obile phone but even an ordinary phone
Doctor :   Ok

User :   it has been like this or the past 1.5 years.
User :   i dont get any fever or something of that sort after that.
Doctor :  
Ok
User :   also that burning heat or some kind of stuff that happens lasts only for a few mins...say 5 mins and then i am alright
Doctor :   Ok

User :   i dont take any medication...i mean like pills or some kind of stuff...
User :   do you think there is some problem with respect to this?
Doctor :  
It is a problem with the physical friction
Doctor :  
that is the presentation you are showing
Doctor :  
and is very commonly seen
Doctor :  
Ear is a sensitive organ
Doctor :  
with mild skin texture
User :   oh ok
Doctor :  
so in certain people phone does cause problems
User :   hmm ok
Doctor :  
Using a headphone is an alternative for the same
Doctor :  
but there is no problem to look beyond that I suppose
User :   i would also like to tell u that am an athelete....so have a good physique and stamina...
User :   ok i will do that
Doctor :   Yes, that is good about your stamina

Doctor :  
but Ear is the same for all I guess
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and hence even you are facing it
User :   ok nice to know that
User :   also i would like to tell you that i have been masturbating for the past 1.5 years almost on a weekly basis....say out of 540(1.5 yrs), i would have masturbated and ejaculated for 450 days....will this affect me ....i am about to get married?
Doctor :   No, it does not

Doctor :  
You can take it with full confidence
User :   recently one of my friends got married....in his honey moon he had some problem and doctors asked him whther you masturbate...he said yes....then doctors told him there was some extra skin that has to be removed?
User :   basically a very small minor surgery
User :   how do you think this problem occurs?
User :   he is also a good fit person like me...he was my class mate at school...
User :   you there doctor?
Doctor :   Ok

Doctor :  
What was his problem?
User :   he had some problem during sexual intercourse
User :   basically he had felt pain in his penis....
Doctor :   Ok

Doctor :  
It does happen in initial few days of intercourse
Doctor :  
but shall subside with time
User :   so he immediately called me and asked to check with a doc....i advised him to get into health care magic and gave a few numbers who were friends of min
Doctor :   Ok

User :   but was not there after that,,,
Doctor :  
What was the problem diagnosed?
User :   he basically was operated on ....some extra skin was removed i guess from his penis....and then he is ok now....
User :   i did not check with him after that but am curious to know this...
User :   what do u think would be his possible reason?
User :   you there doc?
Doctor :   Yes

Doctor :  
I wanted to tell you that there is a problem of Phimosis
Doctor :  
which can cause that pain
User :   oh ok
User :   what is that abt?
Doctor :   meaning difficulty in the retracting the foreskin
User :   why does it happen?
User :   is it due to excessive masturbation at young age?
Doctor :  
It is because of tight foreskin
Doctor :  
nothing related to masturbation, once more
Doctor :  
There is no fear about that at all
User :   hmm ok...nice to know that.
Doctor :  
tight foreskin is a finding and there is no particular cause for it
User :   but i have read that again...see there is nothing that always gives a 100% every time...wear and tear is always there....
Doctor :   Not true with masturbation

User :   so masturbation/ejaculation do u think its good to have it on a daily/weekly basis?
Doctor :  
if you do it agressively, then you can strain the organ
Doctor :  
Daily or weekly, there is no harm
User :   i have a company of my own....so we do a lot of research.....and stuf....i have even read that people are encouraged to ,masturbate?
Doctor :  
but one thing is that it is not recommended to get addicted to it
User :   what do you mean by 'aggressively' and are people really encouraged to do it?
Doctor :   Not an encouragement

Doctor :  
but there is no advice given to avoid it as well
User :   hmm ok.
User :   what do you mean by 'aggressively'
Doctor :  
It is a subjective term
Doctor :  
putting more strain on the organ
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and resulting in injuries
Doctor :  
do it mildly and should not injure the penis is the funda
User :   when you mean strain, do you mean rubbing it too much or something like that?
User :   got the point.
Doctor :  
Exactly
User :   In which domain are you a specialist doc?
User :   will having too much sex affect the heart also?
Doctor :  
I am a general practitioner with special interest in Psychiatry and Sexology
Doctor :  
Sex is also an exercise
Doctor :  
so there is no problem with the heart
User :   great doc...
User :   how much more time do we havehis package? in t
Doctor :  
but if the person already has a heart problem, then he has to take care
User :   how much more time do we have in this package?
Doctor :   12 minutes from now

User :   doc...you know something....I proposed to a girl in my college, she is suffering from cancer...but thats not probs with me and she also liked me....but her parents did not approve it....am still waiting for her.....my parents are no more....i live alone here.....
User :   sometimes i feel as if i regret my entire life.....
User :   i dont know why....
Doctor :   Ok
Doctor :  
that is to do with the emotional health
User :   i carry too much tension....lots of things are going on in mind...people are a bit slow doc....also at the same time i feel bloody hell am ignored....i dont know why
User :   i feel as if i am let down....though it is just a feeling.....
Doctor :   You should not feel as though
User :   i dont drink nor do i smoke....
Doctor :  
One thing is for, your concern is more for you only
Doctor :  
that is the mentality of the entire world
User :   i earn say upto 85k per month...
User :   am 24 years old....
User :   hmm ok...
Doctor :  
others concerns are not taken good care of
User :   can i have your phone number doc....?
User :   would it be ok if i call you and chat with you may be if i do have some emotional problem in my life?
Doctor :   Which is the mobile network you are having?
User :   airtel
User :   why do you ask that/
User :   do you give numbers based on networks....or?
User :   how old are you doc?
Doctor :   We do have a short code facility for aircel, Reliance

User :   ok fine
Doctor :   that is the reason I asked
User :   but would i be able to speak to you only then and there when ever needed?
Doctor :  
We have introduced a phone line for those who cannot chat. This is a paid service, online payment for a 24 hour package. Once you pay, we shall give you the number to call and the doctor can assist you.
User :   ok no problem
User :   whats you age doc?
User :   can i have your email id as well?
Doctor :   YYYY@YYYY
Doctor :  
I am 27 years
Doctor :  
old
User :   do you have a particular email id rather than acommon one?
Doctor :   That I am not supposed to disclose it as per the company rules

Doctor :  
Sorry for that
User :   ok fine...
User :   i accept that.
User :   rules are rules....
Doctor :  
but you can mail it to the same id, mentioning confidential to Dr.Bharath in the subject line
User :   may be if possible you can dop in a test mail to my YYYY@YYYY ...
User :   if possible
Doctor :  
and I shall only be able to access it
User :   drop*
Doctor :  
Sure
User :   ok doc....
User :   drop it from your personal email id....
User :   is there any way to reduce the pimples in my skin?
Doctor :   There are certain tips to do that

User :   i dont have pimples now....i had a few here and there when i was in class 11...now they are just a few marks....
User :   how to get rid of those marks....
Doctor :  
first of all you should stay away from moisturisers
User :   hmm ok
Doctor :  
for getting rid of those marks
Doctor :  
I shall suggest you a cream
User :   i use something called deepclean from johnson and johnson...
User :   yes pls
Doctor :  
which you can apply over the affected area
User :   so that my scars and stuff go out...
User :   yes pls
Doctor :  
The name is Acnil cream
User :   oh ok
Doctor :  
apply it 2 times per day
User :   you get it in medical shops?
Doctor :  
Yes you can get it at all leading pharmacies
Doctor :  
and is a OTC drug
User :   ok fine....
User :   so basically the marks created due to those pimples will go rite?
User :   is it ok to use deep clean neutrogen....from johnson and johnson?
Doctor :   It does take time to show improvement

Doctor :  
Yes, you can do that
Doctor :  
there is no problem with it
User :   ok fine
User :   you mean if i use acnil cream it takes some time is it?
Doctor :   Yes

User :   ok fine
User :   wat abt deep clean?
User :   is it good?
Doctor :   Yes you can but not to use too many cosmetics

Doctor :  
or even cleaners or soaps
Doctor :  
as there can be a reaction
User :   hmm ok...ok doc.....looks like the chat session is going to end...
User :   it will be great if you drop a mail to my email id from your personal email id....
User :   thanks
User :   e by
User :   bye
Doctor :   Thanks for consulting HealthcareMagic. Bye for now. Please refer your friends to our service.

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