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Male orgasmic disorder - Online Doctor Chats

Date : 13-Jan-2012
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Excellent Posted in: Men Sexual Problems
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Practicing since : 2004
Answered : 40 Questions
User :   i have had sex with girl but my penis does not discharge after a longs time and girl also come very tired
Doctor :   Hi
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How can I help you?
User :   i have had sex with girl but my penis does not discharge after a longs time and girl also come very tired
Doctor :  
Ok
User :   so plz tell me wt's behind this?
Doctor :   So what is the aveerage time taken by you to ejaculate or discharge

User :   what ?
User :   apprx. 30-40min i have take
Doctor :  
What is your age?
User :   18years!
Doctor :  
How many sexual encounters yet?
User :   2encounter i had but no discharges from the both
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Did you acheive the discharge when you masturbate
User :   yesssss
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Did you not ejaculate at all or did you not achieve the orgasm
User :   when i mastrubate every time i got discharge
Doctor :  
Did you not ejaculate at all or did you not achieve the orgasm during the actual sexual intercourse
User :   i did'nt get discharge sir
Doctor :  
Ok this is called male orgasmic disorder
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Is your partner satisfied with your performance and is she gaining the orgasm
User :   she is satisfied with me but i am satisfied coz. my pennis does not discharge
User :   i am not satisfied coz. of this
Doctor :  
Ok
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This is common in people of young age
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and during the initial days of penetrative intercourse
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Men who cannot come inside a woman
may have a combination of technique and attitude problems.
Doctor :   many men learn how to do sex by masturbating as in your case

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When they bring themselves to orgasm, they may agitate with their hands far more quickly than two people can ever have sex.
Doctor :   Hence when they start making love, the sensations seem under-stimulating.
Doctor :   Are you following?
User :   no sir i don't understand sorry
Doctor :  
Since you have started experience the sex emotions with masturbation
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the actual penetrative intercourse seems under stimulating for you
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hence you are not able to achieve the orgasm and hence not able to ejaculate
User :   okkk
User :   no what should i do doctor ?
Doctor :   The answer to this part of the problem is to increase the eroticism of foreplay

Doctor :  
wait until you are practically on the edge of climax before insert your penis.
User :   is this any fact in my body ????
Doctor :   Relaxing exercise help you a lot
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This is not a defect in the body
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Actually it is a psychological reason
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Anxiety, apprehension and lack of experience are believed to be the reasons
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Once you try to relax
User :   now doctor tell me mainly that wt should i do ??
Doctor :  
Look you should not worry about the problem
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It goes away on its own after few experiences
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If not, then you couple need a sexual counselling from a sexologist
User :   okkk
Doctor :   Show how you masturbate to achieve the orgasm to your partner

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let her do it for you
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and when you are at the peak try to penetrate her and do the regular intercourswe
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this will solve your fears
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of not ejaculationg
User :   okkk doctor
Doctor :  
I think you understood what can be done now
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however it is a minor issue and is not called a disease
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or a defect
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It reduces on its own
User :   okkk doctor
Doctor :  
Relax well
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Do not be anxious
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Ok
User :   okkk
User :   when i got this 2time i am worried that this is a big issue in me so wht ahead now
User :   now i am some relax after ur consultancy
Doctor :  
Yes but see that you are having a protected intercourse
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and do not change partners
User :   okkk yeah i had protected one wid condoms
Doctor :   Well good
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Please fill the feedback form say done.
Doctor :   Is there anything else I can help you with?

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Thanks for consulting me. Bye for now.
User :   byeeeeee take care
User :   bye
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