Lost interest in sex after childbirth. Any way to overcome it? - Online Doctor Chats
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I have a kid of 1 yr. I am now a mother.
After my son delivery , i am not interedted in sex life. but i dont know y that thought is.
if he toughes also i am gettgin angry and i am worried for that reason.
This could be because you are preoccupied with the child
so he also becoming angry with me and most probelms arises for that reason.
Taking care of a baby is quite exhausting.
OK I understand
but i my son is with my mother only and i am not taking care of him. i will go to my home town twice in a week to see him..
myself and my hub is here in chennai as we both goes to job.
Is she taking care of the baby?
Ok. So why do you think you are uninterested?
eventhough i dont get such thoughts very offen. but my hub is expecting atleast twice in a week.
Do you feel any discomfort during intercourse?
but as i am going to the job i am very tired and i could not able to make him to tough also.
i dont have any discomfort during the intercource.
but as i am going to the job i am very tired and i could not able to make him to touch also.
i have interest. but not so offen.
some times i have interest when i am feel free that is during holidays...
But as you know this is a part of marriage and it is not unreasonable for your husband to expect it.
What I would suggest is both of you discuss this as a couple.
You have identified the answer yourself
Talk it over and try to spend some time with each other at weekends
even if i say that i am tired , he is angry with me and next day he is not speaking with me as i dint accept him..
i explained him so many time as i am going to the job i dint get that much interest.
but he is not accepting it.
is there any other way to overcome it...plse help me out.
Don't put it that way. Don't say you are not interested. Try suggesting that maybe you can go out in the weekends for a dinner or movie.
Suggest that it would be more comfortable for you when you don't have to think of housework and going to work the next day.
ASk him gently to try this way for a week.
And you also try to be relaxed in the weekends and pleasant to him.
okay...i will tra it for a week and let me look out i am able to find a solution out of it..
Dress up well and when he sees that you are still interested, he will also realize that it is only tiredness
okay...i will ...
that was causing the problem.
Hope I have helped you
s..Madam...thanks a lot for your support....
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