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Lack of interest during sex - Online Doctor Chats

Date : 13-Jan-2012
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Very Good Posted in: Sexual Problems
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User :   hi thee
Doctor :   Hi
Doctor :   How can I help you
User :   i got married 4 yrs back
Doctor :   ok
User :   previously my sex life use to be damm gud
User :   dont know why all of a sudden there was a dramatic change
User :   slowly she has lost the interest...
Doctor :   Previously you mean Before marriage or
User :   i was with only gal before and after also

Doctor :   For Administrative and health purposes, Please provide these details of the patient-Age: Occupation: Location: Weight and Height: Dependents: Yes/ No.
Doctor :   ok
User :   she is 26
Doctor :   ok
User :   my job is such a thing that half of the time i use to go places
User :   not for long time ..... but for a few days
User :   after coming on the first day we use to enjoy and aftet that ......
User :   she looses her interest
Doctor :   Have you tried talking to her regarding this
User :   yeah

Doctor :   As to what has been the cause from her end
User :   she says what should i have to do if i dont get the feeling
Doctor :   ok
Doctor :   Have you tried different postures and other than normal locations
User :   yeah i have a problem that when ever i see her suddenly i gets overexcited and cum very soon

Doctor :   ok
User :   even we tried to do foreplay for longer time
Doctor :   then it might help taking a quick masturbation before having sex at least 30 min prior and
User :   she hates to do a BJ
Doctor :   this will help you delay in the Ejaculation and that would

Doctor :   If she is not interested then there is no way that your can force her to do it and it will need to be from within than by force
Doctor :   No you could get her to view few clips and then she might be interested

Doctor :   You will have to get her to do it and that will be the only way out
User :   one quick question: Doctor :   yes
User :   mines is not circumcised. b coz of that some times if my wants to do a bj she says it stinks even though i was it several times
User :   is there any thing that evades the stinkiness
Doctor :   get it cleaned before having Sex and also apply some artificial agents that could help
User :   agents like....
User :   can u tell me some of them...
Doctor :   mask the taste since it will naturally be Salty due to the bodys secretions
Doctor :   try with some foods that she would like
User :   ok
Doctor :   Chocolate and Honey are their favorite but then
Doctor :   again tastes will differ
Doctor :   Please fill the feedback form say done when done while I type the information you needed.
Doctor :   Have you filled the feedback form which I have sent?
User :   yep
Doctor :   Is there any thing else that I could help you with?
User :   one more: Doctor :   ok
User :   when i ask my wife doing doggy
User :   she says that it hurts
User :   is there any gel that evades her pain
Doctor :   Which place are you chatting from
User :   usa
Doctor :   Not sure about the
User :   i stay
Doctor :   Brand names but
Doctor :   PRILOX gel will help and then there are adverse effects of sensation loss
Doctor :   Apply it to the area and immediately remove it and this will help you
Doctor :   avoid the pain but then it will reduce the sensation or the excitement that she would feel
User :   thnks for spendong you valuable time
Doctor :   You are Welcome
User :   can i know that am i chatting with a doctor or to a CCE
Doctor :   Good Question Surprised you did not ask earlier
User :   THANKS
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