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Date : 13-Jan-2012
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Doctor :   Hi
User :   hi. i have a problem
Doctor :   Tell me..
User :   my friends always look down at me
User :   i feel upset
Doctor :   for what reason.
User :   sometimes i feel i am a useless person
User :   in study
User :   for instant i am not get a good result
Doctor :   For Administrative and health purposes, Please provide these details -Age: Gender: Occupation: Location: Marital Status: Dependants: Yes/No
User :   si m 14, female , in form 2
Doctor :   Ok..
User :   so, what can i do now
User :   i study hard
User :   but also cant get a high marks
Doctor :   You must concentrate in your studies a litle more..
User :   what can i do now?
User :   i m not as inttelligent as them
User :   i fell down in my class
Doctor :   Must try aslong as you do not get good grades..
Doctor :   Keep trying..
User :   may be some times fell salf-...
User :   self-...
User :   dont know what is the work already
Doctor :   I did not get that last line of yours..
User :   i feel sad
User :   in home , also no one look up me
Doctor :   Gain their confidence in time and t will be fine..
User :   they laugh me when i speak
Doctor :   Ignore that if you are disturbed by it..
User :   my parents dont like me
User :   they just like my intteligent sister
User :   they always talk to my sister
Doctor :   Ok..
User :   and seldom seeing me
Doctor :   But you should not get to bothered about that since they are your parents and would not do that..
User :   i feel stress in school, and when i come back i also feel sad
Doctor :   Ok..
Doctor :   Now that is the cause for your low grades or marks..
User :   they just care about my study
User :   they just ask for my marks
User :   if i get high marks, they will ask me keep maintance this
Doctor :   Yes most of the parents are worried about the grades and not the intelligence in the child..
User :   but when i get low mark they will scloded me
User :   in your country, is that this case happended oftenly
User :   they always compare my sister and me
User :   they say that , see your sister is very good , why you so bad
Doctor :   most parents allover the world want their wards or kids to get good marks or the highest inthe class..
Doctor :   thats common all over..
User :   they send me to many tuition centre
Doctor :   thats for your own good it will improve your grades..
User :   it make me no time to do my interesting work
User :   like watching movie or playing tennis
User :   sometimes i speak to them i want more freedom
User :   but, they say all just a excuses from me
Doctor :   Yes but you will have to manage your time within the constraints..
User :   i really want to get the air of outside
Doctor :   ok you can ask your parents to take you out side..
User :   my teacher also just care about the intelligent students w
User :   who get high marks or top 10
User :   why the world becoming so awffullu
User :   and horrible too
Doctor :   thts in your perception..only they care for the less intelligent once only..mostly..
User :   yes
User :   what is perception?
Doctor :   The way you feel it to be..
User :   okay, i find out it
User :   sometimes i will think
User :   is that my mother or father
User :   why they dont love
User :   me
User :   i m thinking to run away from homw\
Doctor :   All parents love their kids alike only..
User :   i have a boyfriend
Doctor :   that is the most wrong thing to do..
User :   why, many people got his partner already
User :   i think just my bf can understood me and willing to listen my unsactisfactory
Doctor :   Ok..
User :   he say he will married me when we become adult
Doctor :   ok..
User :   what you mean by "ok"?
Doctor :   You can take your decission..
User :   what? oh, my god!
Doctor :   Please fill this form I send, While I type the necessary information, and do inform me when done.
User :   thats mean you agree me to have boyfriend
User :   some parents are very crazy
User :   include my parents
Doctor :   No its absolutely fine to have one at your age
User :   they just push their children up and never let them breath
User :   i always thinking, why i was born in this family
User :   why i cant have a good family as my friends have
User :   they have a very greatful parents
Doctor :   Please fill that form and tell me when done..
User :   i have fill in , doctor.
User :   i have a terrible mother..
User :   i never seen her face since i m six years old
Doctor :   No you must not think that about her..
Doctor :   she is your mother..
User :   if i m suffer in this family, what can i do?
User :   i cant make them change\
Doctor :   You must be patient and you certainly willnot suffer..
User :   they always say that ;' it is for your own good''
User :   i am vey interesting in drawing
User :   when i got free time i will draw some picture
Doctor :   Pursiue that as a career..
User :   but they scolded me
User :   what is pursiue?
User :   they say it is nothing use in drawing
User :   people will just look at your certificate
User :   so , i feel , i m useless
User :   i like drawing,
User :   my ambition is working in a designer company
User :   but they want me to be a doctor
User :   when i m small they have plan everything for me
Doctor :   You can stillmake it there its not tough..
User :   they say a girl should learn piano
User :   so i follow thier word , i attended the piano classes
User :   but , when the time passing slowly,
User :   i think i dont like piano
User :   i like kung fu
Doctor :   Ok..
User :   but they say that girl should not be so tough
User :   so i dont have excuse than i continue the boring piano class
User :   i feel envy with my friend that who can learn what they want
Doctor :   We have a long queue of patients waiting to get medical advise. Please restrict your conversation to Medical queries only.
User :   i want protest
User :   but i still young
Doctor :   Ok..
User :   i hope i can grow up quickly and leave home earlt
User :   both of my parents is a businessman/woman
Doctor :   ok..
User :   they are very busying with thier work
User :   they just put us down in a person
User :   hand
User :   my aunty there
User :   my aunty also a terrible person
User :   she ask me to do the thinks that i m unexfortable to do
Doctor :   ok..
User :   like cooking, take care of child
User :   i have a lot of homework to do
Doctor :   We have a long queue of patients waiting to get medical advise.I might have to close your window..
User :   i m no time to work with her
Doctor :   Ok..
User :   okay, bye
Doctor :   Medical query only please. since we have a lot of patients lined up..
Doctor :   Byte for now..
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