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Date : 13-Jan-2012
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Doctor :   Hi
User :   Hello
Doctor :   How can I help you?

User :  
I need suggestion for sex
Doctor :  
Sure
User :  
I am newly married person
Doctor :  
Proceed with it
User :  
and i found i am not perfect in it
User :  
means penis not become very hard
Doctor :   Ok
User :  
and time duration is 1 min for intercourse
User :  
or less than 1 min
Doctor :   Meaning to say that you are ejaculating soon right?

Doctor :   are you there?

User :  
yes
User :  
yes
Doctor :   Ok

Doctor :  
Meaning to say that you are ejaculating soon right?
User :  
yes
Doctor :   Ok
Doctor :  
May I know your age, height, weight and marital status?
User :  
and penis not become hard
User :  
29
User :  
6 feet
User :  
married
User :  
72 kg
Doctor :   Ok

Doctor :  
Now are you getting good erection?
Doctor :  
while you are stimulated or while thinking about sex?
User :   during intercouse

User :  
not in thinking
Doctor :   Ok

Doctor :   So you are getting erection
User :  
yes
User :  
premature ejaculation
Doctor :   Fine
Doctor :  
I shall explain you
Doctor :   Premature ejaculation is a male sexual dysfunction characterized by ejaculation which always
or nearly always occurs prior to or within about one minute of vaginal penetration
Doctor :   It is the most common sexual dysfunction in men below 40 years of age
Doctor :  
75% of men have this
problem.
User :  
ok
Doctor :   It is more common in adolescents,
young adults and inexperienced men.

User :  
ok
Doctor :  
some of the most common causes are General anxiety, Anxiety related to performance, Stress
User :  
ok
Doctor :  
You will need to decrease the stress levels
Doctor :  
Sleep eight to ten hours dailyGo for morning and evening walk regularly
Doctor :   Avoid sexual intercourse, if you are tired, stressed or depressed

User :  
ok
Doctor :   Do you smoke?

User :  
ya
User :  
1 ciggratte in a day
Doctor :  
Ok, not a problem
Doctor :  
Do not increase the frquency
User :  
ya
Doctor :  
Fresh fruits, vegetables, butter, almonds and milk should be included in your daily
diet
User :   ok
User :  
what about the hardness of penies ?
Doctor :   Does it become hard in the mornings?
Doctor :   Have you noticed that?

User :  
yes
Doctor :   Usually there is no organic problem and following the above tips shall help in both ways

Doctor :   both to increase the hardness and hold it as well

Doctor :   Did you follow?

User :   yup

Doctor :   So you need not worry about it

Doctor :  
I shall also suggest you a technique which helps
User :  
any medicine for it ?
Doctor :   Not required for now

Doctor :  
If the tips do not help, then it would be thought of
Doctor :  
not initially at this stage
Doctor :   There is a Squeeze technique which helps in your case

User :  
i faced same issue 2 year back when i Had relation with my gf
User :  
wht is this ?
Doctor :   Ok

Doctor :  
I shall tell you
Doctor :  
During which the you and/or your partner squeeze the erect penile shaft before the
ejaculatory reflex is stimulated
Doctor :   With this technique the patient will learn to voluntarily delay ejaculation while
maintaining sexual excitation, thereby "cancelling" the orgasm
User :  
ok
Doctor :   Significant improvements are seen, takes some time and requires a partner willing to participate
Doctor :   How were you performing with your girlfriend?

Doctor :   Are you there?

User :  
yes
User :  
same case
User :  
not good
Doctor :   Ok

Doctor :  
Try the above method
Doctor :  
You will improve
Doctor :   Is there any thing else I can help you with?



User :   Can u mail me the technicqe

Doctor :   It is the same as I have mentioned in the chat
Doctor :  
This would be saved in your chat history
Doctor :  
and you can looking at it anytime
Doctor :  
Go through the entire chat once again
Doctor :  
during leisure
User :  
ok
Doctor :  
as it is possible that you would have forgotten certain things
Doctor :  
Do you have any other doubt?
User :  
no
Doctor :   Thanks for consulting HealthcareMagic. Bye for now. Please refer your friends to our service.

User :   i think can i take power buster tab for some time

User :  
?
Doctor :   No you should not try such things
Doctor :  
without prescritpion
User :  
i tried it
Doctor :  
If need arises do consult a qualified Sexologist/Urologist
User :  
ok
Doctor :   and then continue with the tablet

Doctor :  
No self medication and not required also
Doctor :  
Can be easily overcome naturally
User :   any suggest doc in bangalore city ?
Doctor :   Sure I shall tell you

Doctor :  
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User :  
thanks a lot
Doctor :   I would suggest Dr. XXXXXXXX Chebi

User :  
ok
Doctor :   Bye

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