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Date : 21-Feb-2012
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Practicing since : 2009
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User :   Hi, may I answer your health queries right now ? Please type your query h
User :   Hi
User :   Hi
User :   may i knw from where?
User :   ok...
User :   i am not sure if mine is a problem which can be helped by a doctor
User :   Let us discuss..
User :   i get sudden compulsive urges to expose myself to the opposite sex
User :   i have tried to control myself...but at those moments i just cannot
User :   What is your gender?
User :   i am male
User :   How old are you?
User :   25
User :   Have you ever attacked anybody?
User :   no
User :   i would never ever hurt a woman
User :   100% confidential
User :   i respect all woman...
User :   never hurt any woman
User :   Goog
User :   never violent
User :   *Good
User :   just a urge to expose myself
User :   What about your emotional control? anger, control?
User :   cant explain it at all
User :   I got it
User :   emotionally...just horny i guess
User :   but tryng to asses the other things
User :   really not sure
User :   Do you have brothgers and sisters?
User :   have a brother...elder
User :   How is ur relation with dad amd mom and bro?
User :   Do get angry on them?
User :   i do get angry at times
User :   Just trying to understand ur problem
User :   be open
User :   but it is good i wud say
User :   i hate my extendd family though
User :   *good
User :   like uncles, aunties
User :   cousins etc
User :   That is differet
User :   i do tht too
User :   ok :)
User :   Do you get good sleep ?
User :   good sleep...i wud say yes
User :   but i cant just sleep beyond 7 am
User :   where u from
User :   irrespective of hw much i have slept
User :   goa
User :   Do u stay alone or stay with family
User :   with family
User :   Do you have girl fr
User :   Are you sexually active?
User :   i fall in the" its complicated category"
User :   xExplain
User :   When did u had sex last time?
User :   as in..not sure if we are still on or not...headed towards break up
User :   ok
User :   i have not had sex...just oral
User :   Why not have regular sex
User :   not before marriage
User :   do u have hard time getting a fr
User :   nope...oppurtunities r there plenty
User :   * Ok u want to maitain tradition
User :   i stop myself from tht..
User :   I like u
User :   told u man...i respect women...wud never hurt them
User :   just this thing abt me drives me crazy
User :   It is Impulse control disorder
User :   there mny Impulse control problem
User :   as a child i saw this neighbor (female) expose herself to some males during a fight
User :   have a feelin this has its origins thr
User :   what the female did ?
User :   sorry if i am going off topic but i am trying to provide u all the info i can
User :   no
User :   it is relevant
User :   go ahead..
User :   she lifted her skirt and flashed her pussy
User :   and said sumthin nasty
User :   i was mayb in my early teens then
User :   So impulse control is can be sex drie, angryness, spending money etc.
User :   any quick relief methods for impulse control disorder?
User :   Ok
User :   Keep going
User :   u r doing goog
User :   express ...
User :   thanks
User :   i just wanna stop this from happening
User :   ur past emotional feelings may be related to sex drive
User :   Now if u need to stop u need regular counselling or medication
User :   another problem is i dont knw who to contact
User :   The medicatiinbs called anti manic medications like Vaparin 500mg daily works great for impulse control
User :   the only way i was goin to express myself is to an online doc
User :   I request u u consult Psychiatrist and get prescription
User :   OK
User :   i can never talk abt myself to males offline
User :   explian..
User :   as in
User :   i am a introvert
User :   i help a lot of ppl with their problems
User :   but can never explain my problems to others
User :   especially males i wud say
User :   dont knw why
User :   OK
User :   even in my life...most of my close friends are gals
User :   guys r there but they dont get to knw the inner stuff
User :   may that is the problem
User :   Try to make good friends
User :   Treat them as brothers
User :   gud friends r thr
User :   connect to them
User :   Ok
User :   but i cant just oopen up to them
User :   But u r not sharing
User :   anyway time is abt to run out
User :   hw do i continue chattin with u in the future
User :   and hw do i go abt tht medication
User :   U may have to hide some things brother
User :   If u tell every thing top fr , u will loose them
User :   telling negatives with fr is not good
User :   share with family
User :   yes exactly
User :   tell me hw to take the medication
User :   u have t pay again and continuue the chat
User :   Hope I have additional time
User :   Bye
User :   u thr
Doctor :   Sorry, it will be difficult to transfer the chat
Doctor :   as if i close the chat window, u may need to pay again
User :   this is bullshit
Doctor :   but if you dont mind u can continue the chat with me
Doctor :   may i know which place are located in ?
User :   can u access my chat
Doctor :   and your phone no
Doctor :   yes i can
Doctor :   i am going thru it right now
User :   can u pls go thru it?
User :   ok good
Doctor :   sure,
Doctor :   ok
Doctor :   the issue you are facing right is usually common in many males
Doctor :   and usually they try to control it by various means
User :   ok go on
Doctor :   and you need not be ashamed of it or get anxious due to that
Doctor :   may i know where you live ?
User :   goa
Doctor :   ok
Doctor :   have you had any girlfriends or any partners ?
Doctor :   Are you sexually active ?
User :   never had sex...just orals
Doctor :   ok
Doctor :   how many times have you ever exposed to females ?
User :   a lot of times
Doctor :   This condition is called voyeurism
User :   over the last many 3-4 yrs i guess
Doctor :   and have you ever got into trouble due to that ?
User :   impulse control disorder
User :   nope never got into trouble...but i dont like doing it
User :   Dr said sumthing abt vaparin 500mg...could you pls elaborate on tht
Doctor :   may i know have you been diagnosed with that condition
User :   Dr said my case is Impulse cpntrol disorder
User :   this u hve no clue of Jagdish chatted with me
User :   and i have to repeat the same stuff again to u
Doctor :   i do know that
Doctor :   but do you have any such issues like inability to control your other impulses
User :   nope only this impulse
User :   i hate it...and i hate myself for doing it
Doctor :   do u have any other such impulses other than this , that you need to expose yourself
Doctor :   ok
User :   nope
Doctor :   you need not worry, as this condition does not need any medications
Doctor :   I assure you that this condition can be controled by mental conditioning itslef
User :   so hw do i control it
User :   i have tried trying to control it myself over the last few yrs...but i cudnt
Doctor :   can you give me , any prior occasion that made you expose yourself ?
Doctor :   how many times have you done that in the last 1 month
Doctor :   or in the last 1 year
User :   i made a resolution to stop doing it this year
User :   entire jan i didnt
Doctor :   may i know your occupation
User :   but february already 2 times
Doctor :   that is good
User :   i am a share market analyst
Doctor :   may i know , that , what was the occasion, when u exposed yourself
Doctor :   'an with whom did you expose yourself ?
User :   i mainly expose to migrant workers or college students
User :   last case was ...migrant workers were construction a wall
Doctor :   and these were women ?
User :   yes
User :   and i exposed from my house in a way they cud see it
Doctor :   so did you expose your whole body or just your genitals ?
User :   genitals
User :   sumtimes whole body...but mainly i guess its genitals
Doctor :   ok, you need not consider yourself as abnormal
Doctor :   this is quite common in most males
Doctor :   and more common in unmarried males
User :   i need to control this..
User :   1) what kind of a doctor do i contact for this?
Doctor :   you might need counselling by a psychiatrist
Doctor :   but understan this, once you become sexually active, you will get out of this situation
Doctor :   try to get a girlfriend
User :   i know
Doctor :   or try to get married
User :   but sex is not wht i wanna do before marriage
User :   and marriage is still many years later
Doctor :   ok
User :   i knw the inherent problem is being horny...only thing tht helps me masturbation...
Doctor :   masturbation is ok, that is normal
User :   is it normal to stimulate the prostate while masturbating?
Doctor :   yes
Doctor :   i will give you more pleasure
User :   it says u r typing sumthin...
Doctor :   yes
Doctor :   i will give you a few tips
Doctor :   1. when ever u feel that way, count 1-100
User :   and...
Doctor :   2. avoid the temptation to expose by getting out of there fast
Doctor :   3. think about some one you hate , when u get to that situation
Doctor :   then that will displace the mind from the thing u want to do
Doctor :   talking to a psychiatrist
Doctor :   and putting it out in the open will help you control it
Doctor :   this is called behavior therapy
Doctor :   are u there ?
User :   yes
Doctor :   have u understood my advice ?
User :   yes thinking
Doctor :   also make a few more friends
Doctor :   when u feel like exposing, just make a call to your friends , and talk about something else
Doctor :   this will take off your mind and u can avoid doing that
User :   gud things to do
User :   :)
Doctor :   ok
Doctor :   this is the way, u need to approach this situation
Doctor :   Are u having any other doubts or questions ?
Doctor :   Are u there ?
User :   yes
Doctor :   I hope i have cleared all your doubts
Doctor :   and have helped u to get out of this habit
Doctor :   Are u there ?
Doctor :   Thanks for consulting me here
Doctor :   take care and bye for now
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