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Impotence, no hard erection - Online Doctor Chats

Date : 21-Feb-2012
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Very Good Posted in: Men Sexual Problems
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User :   hello doctor
Doctor :   hi
User :   this is amit 32 yrs male
User :   i got married around 4 months back
Doctor :   I am Dr. Jagdish. How can I help you?
User :   but till date i m not able to do intercourse with my wife
User :   i dont get full hard erection
User :   i dont have aby medical history
User :   neither i have any addictions
User :   whenever i try to do intercourse, my erection get loose
User :   earlier i used to masterbate quite frequently
User :   sometimes twice or thrice a day
Doctor :   ok
User :   am i ok
User :   hello
User :   you there
Doctor :   When you masturbated before, do you used to have good erections?
User :   sometimes good
User :   but sometimes loose one
Doctor :   I would like to ask very detailed Qs before I come to some conclusion
User :   yes
Doctor :   How long the erections lasted when you masturbated ?
User :   around 2-3mins
Doctor :   How many times do you used to masturbate in week before?
User :   everyday
Doctor :   How many times in a day?
User :   normally once a day
User :   but sometimes
User :   twice or thrice a day
Doctor :   Do you used to feel confident when you masturbate?
User :   i dont get it
Doctor :   I am talking when you masturbated before, do you used to feel confident?
User :   what do you mean by confident
Doctor :   I mean do you used to get good erections at least 3-4 times a week
User :   i dont rem exactly
Doctor :   All masturbation efforts may not be successful, but at least 3-4 times in week might be having good erections? It that true or no in your case?
User :   but yes 1-2 times a week
Doctor :   Good
User :   but even if i didnt get full erection i continued masterbating
Doctor :   Ok
Doctor :   Do you get early morning erections?
User :   sometimes yes
Doctor :   OK
User :   but not everyday
Doctor :   Do you have any psychiatric issues?
User :   no
Doctor :   OK
Doctor :   Do you have strong desire to have sex with your partner?
User :   yes
User :   before marraige
User :   but since i dnt get full erection
Doctor :   How many times a week. foe example, in last 2 weeks, you had intercourse?
User :   no
User :   i got married around 4 onths back
Doctor :   Did you masturbate in 2 week?
User :   my wife is also a bit scared about first time pain
User :   so i tried few times but wasnt successful to fully enter into my wife
User :   yes i masterbated three days back
Doctor :   Did you masturbate in 2 week?
Doctor :   OK'
Doctor :   Did you had good erections?
User :   when i was trying to have sex with my wife
User :   but since i didnt get full erection so i masterbated
Doctor :   That is fine
Doctor :  
Did you had good erections when you masturabte last week?
User :   no
Doctor :   Did you ejaculate after masturabation ot having intercourse?
User :   yeah ofcourse
Doctor :   OK
User :   i ejaculated
Doctor :   Ok
User :   that is the culmination
Doctor :   You are ejaculating and getting erections but they not lasting for long time, I am I right?
User :   yes
Doctor :   there is nothing wrong in your in your penis
Doctor :   It is healthy.
Doctor :   The problem might be you are over expecting from from intercourse?
User :   but sometimes i dont get erection
Doctor :   Your confidence is gone down because of your failures.
User :   what shall i do
Doctor :   What is your occupation?
Doctor :   Are you stressed out ?
User :   do i need to go some medical checkups
User :   some blood test etc
Doctor :   we will dicuss abt that?
User :   no not much streesed out
Doctor :   Are you stressed out ?
Doctor :   Ok'
Doctor :   What is your occupation?
User :   i m an engg with mba
User :   i m in mumbai
Doctor :   OK
User :   so travelling is an issue
Doctor :   I suggest you watch many porno DVDs
User :   around 3 hrs a day
Doctor :   Yes
Doctor :   No travelling is not an issue.
Doctor :   Before going to have intercours, relax
Doctor :   Talk more with your partner
Doctor :   Talk about romance.
Doctor :   Dont let down you will power.
Doctor :   Do not over expect now
Doctor :   Sleep mimimum 8 hrs day
Doctor :   Take protein food
User :   like
Doctor :   When you think you are stressed out and cant do avoid intercourse.
User :   protein foods like...
Doctor :   Food: fish, chicke, vegetable and fruits
Doctor :   I mean healthy diet
Doctor :   When you feel confident, have a good fore play with your partnes.
Doctor :   Let her stimulate your parts as much as possible.
Doctor :   Simultaneously you stimulate her. But the point is, you get good for fore play.
User :   ok
Doctor :   Satisfy her with lot of fore play "down"
User :   shall i use viagra
Doctor :   Have intercourse 3-4 times only for now.
Doctor :   Let the system recover for next intercourse.
Doctor :   U can use it
User :   what is the doses
Doctor :   It comes in 50 and 100 mg doses
User :   what shall i use
Doctor :   people take one tablet one hr before intercourse
Doctor :   However talk to your Doctor
Doctor :   Get the investigations done
Doctor :   CBC, BMP, Testosterrone levels

Doctor :   If the testosterone levels are low, you do not get erections
User :   so these are blood test
Doctor :   Yes
Doctor :   First I recommend you to consult sexologist and then get these investigations done
User :   where shall i get these tests done
Doctor :   Then he will review your labs and treat accordingly
Doctor :   Yes you can get them done and chat with me later too
User :   treatment is available for this?
User :   how can i chat with u again??
Doctor :   Same like you did not now
Doctor :   pay and chat
User :   but may be i get different doc
Doctor :   Any body can review the labs in our clinci
User :   is there any treatment for this
Doctor :   There are different causes involved in it
Doctor :   You need to increase your confidence
Doctor :   You consult your PD and get presctiption for viagra for few days
Doctor :   Do not completelt depend onviagra
Doctor :   and consult sexologist and go according to his treatemet
Doctor :   DId i answer your questions.
User :   yes
Doctor :   Dont get discourared there will be solition
User :   is there any gel that i can use
Doctor :   Than k for consulting
Doctor :   Byte for now
User :   can u suggext some gel
Doctor :   Yes
User :   which can be used
Doctor :   KY gelly is good
User :   when to use
User :   kindly suggest
Doctor :   Usually it is applied when there is roughness when you penetrate
Doctor :   if there is no roughness , jelly is not required
Doctor :   Dont let down ur spirit
User :   i m talking for erection
User :   is there any thing that can be applied on the thing
Doctor :   No
User :   ok
User :   thank you
User :   bye
Doctor :   Bye
Doctor :   Thank you for consulting
Doctor :   Please leave your feed back after the chat
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