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Date : 13-Jan-2012
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Very Good Posted in: Hypertension and Heart Disease
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Practicing since : 2004
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Doctor :   Hi
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How can I help you?
User :   hi i am ashish
Doctor :   Hello Ashish

Doctor :  
Continue with your query
User :   well my condition is that...i am diagonosed with hypertension
Doctor :  
Ok
User :   all test done it is a primary hypertension
Doctor :  
Ok
User :   i am very anxious and i am administered with ortanam5 and anxit .25
Doctor :  
Ok
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May I know your age, gender, height and weight?
User :   i became very anxious on minor issues especially health issues
Doctor :  
Yes, I can understand
User :   i am 33 male 5.5' and 56 kg
Doctor :  
Ok
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Good that your weight is within normal range
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Because overweight conditions will worsen hypertension
User :   i hope all the talks will be confidential..
Doctor :  
Sure, it is fully confidential
User :   yes doc...can i know your name
Doctor :  
Dr.Bharath here
User :   from?
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Bangalore
User :   i needed more of a conselling i hope so...
Doctor :  
Sure
User :   your degree?
Doctor :   I am a General Practitioner and have done MBBS
User :   well i have an affair outside marriage.
Doctor :  
Ok
User :   she a widow...
Doctor :  
Ok
User :   after three year of courteousing she gave me a chance
Doctor :   Ok

User :   i have done job on her...protected
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Ok
User :   do u understand
Doctor :  
Yes
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I do
Doctor :  
Go on with your history
User :   i was anxious of not getting chance with her and now...
User :   i am anxious of contracting any disease from her
User :   though condom.
Doctor :  
Ok, I can understand your situation
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May I ask her age and your relation with her?
User :   i am a married person and now i feel guilty for my wife.
Doctor :   Ok, that is true

User :   her age is something 35
User :   i have only once touched her 4 days back.
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How is she related to you?
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Like how do you know her?
User :   she is my neighbour
Doctor :  
Ok
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Is she healthy and how is her behaviour?
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Regarding Sexual issues, I mean to ask
User :   ya she is slightly overweight...
User :   she is very ready by the thought..
User :   i havent done much...like foreplay...
Doctor :  
Sexually, is she having any other relationships?
User :   i dont know...she seems not to be that type..
User :   she has 2 children
Doctor :   Ok
User :   one is 13 year old...
Doctor :  
Then you need not worry much
User :   she said she havent done for 5 years...
Doctor :   regarding the health risks I mean to say
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Truth and Honesty are immense Strenghts
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and if you deviate from it, such problems do occur
User :   i am a kind of person do not beleive any one
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Ok
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So now I suggest you not to worry much on the past event
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You would not have contracted any infection
User :   i am more worried about hiv infection?
User :   if she had any...
Doctor :   Thats what I am telling

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You need not worry about those things
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with a known person
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It is problematic only with people of unknown origin/sex workers
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With known cases, there is not much of problem
User :   well doc. i touched her vag with finger and when i felt wet ness i put on condom
Doctor :  
Ok
Doctor :  
It is not a problem
User :   but i touched innerside of condom by mistake..
User :   is there any chance...
Doctor :   No need to worry about that

User :   why u say that?
User :   how would u say that?
User :   she is not prostitude she is a pensioner.
Doctor :  
As it is a known person who is healthy
User :   i know that...
Doctor :  
So, such chances are rare
User :   ya doc. thats a point...but my anxiety level go high...what about that
Doctor :  
You get it only from an person who is already infected
User :   she is a healthy right...but i am getting anxious....
Doctor :  
Since you are on medications you can go on with it till you are advised
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Now tell yourself that you wont repeat it in future
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Go on with your normal life
User :   i swear not to repeat it in future...but she seems to be after me...
User :   she wont leave me..i am afraid of that...
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Get into some acitivities to engage yourself and forget about it
User :   ya doc...
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You can go for an excursion or something like that
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Try to do some spiritual activities, meditation
User :   i will certainly think about that....
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And tell her also about it
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I mean your neighbour
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if you feel she is good
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Discuss this with her
User :   i have already...
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Good
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If feasible you can Reveal that to your wife as well
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and ask her excuse
User :   not possible....
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That will relieve you a lot, if you do
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As she is the person concerned
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Think of the possibility
User :   she said she has no relation with anybody meanwhile time
Doctor :   Ok
User :   she had sex only after five years...
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Is she with you now?
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Ok
User :   i am talking about my neighbour
Doctor :  
No issues
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You need not worry regarding health
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Only thing is guilt feeling
User :   can i believe her..
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which you need to overcome over time
User :   ya you r right...
Doctor :  
Yes, certainly you can believe her
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But if she forces you again then you will need to think about
User :   no never i do it again...
User :   i am more concerned toward my child and wife
Doctor :  
Ok

Doctor :  
You need not worry about the children in this regard
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Manage it with your wife
Doctor :  
that will do
Doctor :  
Bye, take care
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