Having issue with erection, and early ejaculation. After taking vigora erection is stronger but early ejaculation. Advise? - Online Doctor Chats
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I m 34 yrs old
married with one kid,
recently i am facing issue with erection, and early ejaculation
but when i took vigora , erection bcom stronger, but i still faces early ejaculation
any medicine can u suggest
Since when you having this issue?
say around last 6 months or so
maybe before that also
Any medications that you are on/
And have you seen a doctor for this problem?
no medical problems
no diabetes, no bp
no i havent seen any doctor yet
Are you there?
hence the actions, effects and duration of effects are the same.
To make you understand this better, you need to know the following information.
Sexual functions - both erection dysfunction and premature ejaculation are caused by wide variety of factors.
Most often in men under 40 years of age in the absence of preexisting medications, drug and alcohol, the cause is most likely psychological.
but i dont drink
nor any pressure job
Psychological factors such as fear of failure, rejection, stress and so on are the usual culprit we find in many young patient such as yours.
if i say no such case with me
Saif, most often these psychological causes are very subtle and effects produced are not proportional to the stressors. May I know if you get early morning erections normally?
not sure thought but i think it is better than night
i get the erections but not hard though
Normal early morning erections indicate you are perfectly right - both hormonally, neurologically and vascularly.
These are the three non psychological / organic medical cause which causes lack of proper erections.
So let me suggest you a few tips/measures which you can try before starting on pills to improve sexual functions.
1. Understand your problem better. Find out exactly what the problem is - is it early ejaculation or reduced erection.
This is important because men lose erection very soon after ejaculation.
i will say early ejaculation
So if you are losing erection after ejaculation and have not much issues with starting erection / maintaining erection, then we just need to treat early ejaculation.
In such case viagra/vigora is not the treatment of choice.
then wht shd be
2. As you identified the problem is early ejaculation, then what you have is termed premature ejaculation. The next step is to know how soon are you ejaculating.
Average men ejaculate within 2 minutes of starting sexual intercourse.
So if you are able to last for around 2 minutes, then you are perfectly alright.
sometimes it is just 1 min
sometimes before intercourse
That is not very bad. The next few tips should help you improve this time.
3. It is important that you spend good time in foreplay.
but sometimes during foreplay ejaculatesthen
Foreplay helps in increasing the erogenous hormones essential for good sexual life in both the partners. So do spend lot of time during foreplay.
If you feel the urge to ejaculate during the foreplay, then stop the activity for a while and squeeze the base of the penis.
This will 99% of time stop the ejaculation.
You can restart the process.
3. There is a technique called start and stop method / squeeze technique advised by sexologist to patients who suffer with premature ejaculation.
base or tip
Base of the penis produces better results.
Start and stop method is stopping / pausing from sexual activity when you feel the urge to ejaculate and restarting the cycle.
you can repeat this process for as long as you wish.
Similarly squeeze technique involves asking your partner or you yourself can squeeze the base of penis before you feel like ejaculating.
Both the techniques reduces the urge to ejaculate and many people find the next cycle longer.
You can try one of the above method.
4. Fourth tip is desensitization of penis.
A condom, anaesthetic cream such as delay cream/spray are few products available in the market that reduces the sensation and
increases time of ejaculation.
You may use one of these products.
Have you followed what I suggested till now.
but which product
no medicine u suggest
You may use a regular condom or a cream called 'Delay Cream'.
5. The last tip to treat premature ejaculation is trying sexual intercourse after you ejaculate.
Delay cream is availabe in market?
i dont have depression issue
which are given to patients in whom none of the above measures improves premature ejaculation.
You can consult a doctor for its prescription if none of the earlier mentioned tips work.
yes, condom and delay cream are available at most chemist/pharmacy.
any specifice delay cream
'Dlay' is the name of the cream available.
You may check at your nearby chemist.
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do you have any other query?
no thanks will chek on this
someone suggested my staminaid
Staminaid are natural / herbal preparation.
There are no much scientifically proven data available about this product and hence they are not regularly prescribed by us.
Have you followed?
Do you have any other query?
Thanks for consulting me.
Bye for now.
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