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Guidance on sex education before marriage - Online Doctor Chats

Date : 13-Jan-2012
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Doctor :   hi
Doctor :   how can i help you?
User :   hello.
Doctor :   hello
User :   sir, i am going to marrry soon
Doctor :   ok
User :   within 15 days
Doctor :   ok
User :   so i am afraid abt the intercourse as i read there is lot of pain during this
Doctor :   ok
User :   infact i have heard abt that also
Doctor :   o
Doctor :   ok
Doctor :   For Administrative and health purposes, Please provide these details -Age: Gender: Occupation: Location: Marital Status: Dependents: Yes/ No.
User :   22, female, xxxxx, not married, no
Doctor :   ok
User :   xxxxx
Doctor :   ok
Doctor :   firstly there is to be
Doctor :   scared about intercourse
Doctor :   there will be slight pain
Doctor :   but it will subside gradually
User :   but one of my freind is saying there is lots of pain "jaan likal jati hai"
Doctor :   no thats not true
Doctor :   there will be some pain initially
User :   how much just like injection
Doctor :   your fear will cause your muscles to tighten up
Doctor :   and that leads to more pain
Doctor :   you can also use a jelly fem gel
User :   sir, i put my middle finger into my vagina. what does it mean.
User :   has my hym already broken
Doctor :   no
Doctor :   it wont
User :   i am doing this process from last 1 months as i know i am going to marry soon.
Doctor :   since u have monthly bleeding as well
Doctor :   it is unlikely
Doctor :   dont be anxious
Doctor :   u need to relax
Doctor :   only when u relax u can have intercourse
Doctor :   there is no such thing that there is pain n all
Doctor :   just stay calm
Doctor :   r u able to understand
Doctor :   when u have good foreplay
Doctor :   there wont be any pain
Doctor :   both of u need to relax
User :   sir, if hymn break and semon does not enter into vagina that means my monthly bleeding will come next month
Doctor :   i didnt get you
Doctor :   u mean to say u wont become pregnant isit
User :   if we do intercouse without condom first time then can i become pregnant
Doctor :   yes u can become pregnant if no precautions are taken
User :   ok
Doctor :   anything else u want to know about
User :   is the pain tolerable
Doctor :   dont be scared and listen to what other people have to say
Doctor :   yes it is tolerable
Doctor :   it wont last more than few seconds
User :   only few seconds
Doctor :   yes
Doctor :   u need to have foreplay
Doctor :   before the intercourse
User :   if we dont take foreplay then
User :   can we do that without forplay
Doctor :   u need to relax first, have foreplay and have intercourse
Doctor :   dont rush the things
Doctor :   take one step at the time
User :   ok
User :   after breaking the hymn when my husband do ups and down then there will be pain
Doctor :   no
Doctor :   there wont be any pain
User :   not at all na sir,
Doctor :   yes
User :   ok
User :   is this process for 5-10 minturs or more than that
Doctor :   it depends on individuals
Doctor :   how long they can sustain
User :   if he sustain only for 2 minutes, then is it ok
Doctor :   3mins is fine
User :   and if he sustains for 10 minutes, then is it ok
Doctor :   yes ok
User :   ok
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Doctor :   confirm ur details
User :   yes
Doctor :   if u wish we can arrange for premartial counselling
User :   yes
User :   please go ahead
Doctor :   when would u like to have appointment
Doctor :   where are u located
User :   xxxxx
Doctor :   if u are based in bangalore we can arrange
Doctor :   for counseling
User :   not in xxxxx
Doctor :   we are operational in bangalore only
Doctor :   and bangalore based
Doctor :   as of now
User :   ok
User :   sir
User :   is viagra ok for increase the sex life
Doctor :   no please dont take it
Doctor :   it has got lot of side effects
User :   ok
Doctor :   not advisable to take any medicines without physician advise
Doctor :   Is there any thing else that I could help you with?
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User :   tell me abt the sexual position
Doctor :   u can look for this information on web
User :   ok sir
Doctor :   bye for now
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