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Getting thoughts of being a female - Online Doctor Chats

Date : 21-Feb-2012
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Practicing since : 2004
Answered : 37 Questions
User :   I'm a 27 year old male.Sometimes i'm feeling about wearing women's clothes.I need help to stop thinking about that
Doctor :   Hi
User :   Hi
User :   I have a weird problem
Doctor :   How old are you?
User :   Since my 6th standard i thought of wearing women's clothes
User :   27 now
Doctor :   Are you sexually active?
User :   Yes
Doctor :   Are you mariied?
User :   Yet to be married
Doctor :   What is your sexual orientation?
User :   sexual orientation means?.I'm a male and i want to stop thinking about women's clothes
User :   I have tried 4 to 5 times in private
Doctor :   which gender do you preferfor intercourse?
User :   Sex with female
User :   Ok
Doctor :   Are you attracted to any guy?
User :   No
Doctor :   Do you have girl friends?
User :   I didn't have.I have some girls as friends
Doctor :   When was your last intercourse?
Doctor :   if you did not had , say Idid not had sex.
User :   I did not had sex
Doctor :   ok
User :   Can you refer a psychiatrist in
Doctor :   DO you masturbate
Doctor :   I will guide thru, plz answer Q
User :   Yes.Whenvere i can't control the thought of wearing women's clothes
Doctor :   thoughts are one problem
Doctor :   but I am trying ..different things
User :   Ok
Doctor :   do u get erections and ejaculations?
User :   erection yes.ejaculation means?
Doctor :   when masturbate, u get eretctions and at the end you eject semen out
User :   Yes
Doctor :   What is the motive begind the masturbation?
Doctor :   Fyn?
Doctor :   Are you imagining any beautiful girl
User :   Yes
Doctor :   Are you felling as if u r having sex with some some onr
Doctor :   : Are you felling as if u r having sex with some some girl
User :   If i see actors dressed as girl.I didn't think like having sex with some other
User :   Like a girl dominating me andmaking me dressing her clothes
Doctor :   plz repeat..
User :   I will imagine my best fiends(girls) dominate me and make me dress as a girl
Doctor :   Oh Ok
User :   I will imagine world has changed and i became a girl and my parents accept it
Doctor :   But the imaginary friends are not makings you a beautiful girl
Doctor :   So you wera femeal clothes
User :   Mostly in thoughts,I tried wearing 4 to 5 times in real when i'm 14
Doctor :   not when u r 14
User :   I wore pavada thavani at that tine
Doctor :   Now u r 27
Doctor :   did u try now
User :   Now i'm not wearing
Doctor :   be honest
User :   I'm getting that sense but i'm controlling it
Doctor :   but u have throught s
User :   Yes
User :   I have thoughts
User :   Whenever i'm unable to contaol i will masturbate
Doctor :   And even the thoughts are wearings kids girls dress , right
User :   Mostly saree
Doctor :   When u weea saree , do u feel satisfied
User :   I think Yes.Each and every day the sense is getting incearsed and i'm afraid
Doctor :   At some point of time , when people do not invilve in sex, they loose confidence
Doctor :   They prefer female gender
Doctor :   They mimic female dress
Doctor :   But infact they do not know their powers
Doctor :   Because they have testicles, testostosterone, and they can penetrate vagina
Doctor :   and they can make family
Doctor :   but because of some factors, inhibitions , their marrigaes get delayed and
Doctor :   Here
User :   Because of this fear i'm postponing my marriage
Doctor :   Exactly
Doctor :   You normal man
Doctor :   You have Penis, testicles and you can masturbate
Doctor :   And if you get a partner, byou can make friendship and have intercourse
Doctor :   Trust me
Doctor :   You are not a gay
Doctor :   What u r facingis a transitionla problems
User :   Thank You.I feared for the worst.
Doctor :   Mind is higly volatile gas like material
Doctor :   brain can not not control the throughts
Doctor :   So in inder to keep the MID which is invisible
Doctor :   u need some core GOALS
Doctor :   1.
Doctor :   Get a girl friend and have intercourse if she cooperates
Doctor :   Do not go for prostitutes
Doctor :   2. Get married immediately
Doctor :   3. Check your serum Testosterone levels
User :   Ok
Doctor :   4. You can consult Psychologisy, not Psychiatrist
Doctor :   Clear your doubts
User :   Psychlogisy means?
Doctor :   Psychologist
User :   Ok
Doctor :   Once you involve in active sexual intercourse, u will get rid of all these thoughts
Doctor :   Did I Clear your doubts?
User :   Ok
User :   Yes
Doctor :   Thank you for consulting me
Doctor :   Bye
User :   Thank You
User :   Bye
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