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Date : 26-Mar-2013
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Very Good Posted in: Erectile Dysfunction
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Doctor:please proceed with the query
User:i am XXXXXXX from bangalore.
User:male 28 and single
User:i am getting very late erection. Soon will get ejected.
User:worried for this.
Doctor:Are you married?
User:facing difficulty to share with any doctor
User:what should i do?
User:not married
Doctor:Did you take any treatment for this?
User:not yet
User:feeling hestitation to consult any doctor
Doctor:Performance anxiety could be due psychological factors mostly
Doctor:you can first visit a Psychiatrist,there is no need to feel hesitant in this matter.sometimes
Doctor:if matters are prolonged it can later affect your married life
User:why psychiatrist?
User:i am all right ma'm
Doctor:I understand
Doctor:many of the times these are now due to organic causes
User:suggest me any medcine or cream or anything
User:i will not consult psychiatrist
Doctor:erectile dysfunction is mainly due to fear of performance,anxiety,emotional attachment.If you are interested in medication you will need to consult a urologist, who can suggest medications
Doctor:we do not suggest medications in this forum
User:i am getting erection but late.
Doctor:you can take energy tablets like Revital, other than that medications will be given after complete analysis and examination.Do you have any other medical illness like dioabetes
Doctor:certain neurological causes and diabetes can cause erectile dysfunction
Doctor:that is why i told the need for complete assessment
User:recently, i have done through complete body check up
User:report is perfect
User:and i have done it in manipal
Doctor:ok, you can try the XXXXXXX and master technique for this kind of problems
User:what is that?
User: XXXXXXX and master technique?
Doctor:Your blood tests would have been done generally,since you have not informed about your problem they would not have done according to it.This technique is used for erectile dsyfunction
Doctor:you can check this web site
User:could you please tell me that technique here?
User:if your time permits
Doctor:Masters and Johnson's Squeeze Method | WWW.WWWW.WW Answers
Doctor:You can check it here
User:sometimes, fluid does not come while doing sex...Is it matter of concern? or is it ok?
Doctor:No it is not a matter of concern.
Doctor:I suggest you do a full check up once by a urologist
Doctor:we can suggest one near our area from our network
User:please suggest me
User:are you located in bangalore?
Doctor:which are are you in
Doctor:send me your mobile number, out team will forward you the address.
User:i stays in kr puram
User:where is you clinic?
User:may i know ur name?
Doctor:ok, we will get back to you in 24 hrs
User:and speciliazation
Doctor:Sorry we are not supposed to disclose that.
User: XXXXXXX are you general physician?
User:i already chatted with you seems...
User:actually, i am looking for specialist
Doctor:I'll be able to help you XXXXXXX
Doctor:If I think you need a specialist, I'll speak to one and get back to you
User:yes mam
User:so kind of you XXXXXXX
Doctor:Thank you
User:5 ton of thanks :)
Doctor:Tell me how can I help you?
User:are you doctor XXXXX?
Doctor:Thats why I am speaking with you here
User:you told to bring specialist
Doctor:We need to help
Doctor:I said if I cant solve your problem, I'll speak to a specialist and get back to you
Doctor:tell me how can I help you
User:feeling hestitation
Doctor:We're professionals
Doctor:If you want to speak with a male doctor, he'll be available 7-10
Doctor:Still dont want to discuss your problem?
User:it's related to sex
Doctor:Its fine
Doctor:Go ahead
User:every night, i use to get hard erection. and i have to woke up and do something to make it cool.
User:is it usual?
User:or matter of concern?
Doctor:It is a normal phenomenon
Doctor:Every guy above 14-16 years of age has it
User:but i am 27 yrs old
User:and not married
Doctor:Thats ok
Doctor:Its irrespective of your age, as long as you have attained puberty
User:fluid will come in lots...lots
Doctor:That is semen
Doctor:and that is normal too
User:morning, i got my pvt part hairs in bed situation
User:and itching too
Doctor:Do you have any rash as well?
User:no rash
User:ya but itching
User:i think it's due to lots of hairs
Doctor:Does it itch all through the day or only in the morning
User:only morning
User:as soon as i woke up
Doctor:I think its due to sweat and semen, XXXXXXX
Doctor:I would suggest you wash the area at night and then sleep
Doctor:Wash with mild soap and lukewarm water
User:feel weakness after that semens comes out
User:so u use to clean it by handkerchief
User:and sleep
Doctor:Clean it with a wet towel and then a dry towel and then sleep
User:what abt hairs?
User:is it ok to shave ??
Doctor:You can shave them as long as you use a fresh , sterile razor
Doctor:there is no harm
User:is it ok to use cream?
User:coz i have done till now
Doctor:You can use a light moisturizer, if you have normal skin
Doctor:Since the area tends to remain moist, it becomes important to keep it dry
Doctor:A cream is quite a heavy base
User:i am talking about hair removal cream
Doctor:No, dont use it
Doctor:It can cause a bad rash
Doctor:the skin in the private areas is quite sensitive
User:any branded one or good one
Doctor:They are all the same as they have the same chemicals
Doctor:The best way to remove pubic hair is to shave it
User:i feel scary to use razor for that place
Doctor:If you want to use a hair removal cream, use only after a patch test
Doctor:Thats important
User:one more concern
User:can i ask now?
User:yesterday night, one of my friend (female) came to my place
User:we have done sex
User:my sperm came out in 2 min approx
User:she was abusing me for that
User:2 min time duration is ok
Doctor:it generally lasts for 3-5 minutes
Doctor:Were you under some stress or something?
User:not at all
Doctor:like performance anxiety like you wanted to make her happy or something
User:actually, forcefully she sucked for 3-4 time before actual inserting
User:is it the cause?
Doctor:Its actually most commonly related to stress
Doctor:That is one
Doctor:The way out is to do Kegel exercise
Doctor:Here you squeeze the muscles which you squeeze when you dont want to pass urine or stools
User:how to do tht?
Doctor:Suppose you are in a meeting and you dont want to go to the bathroom
Doctor:So you hold it back, right?
Doctor:So while sitting you contract the same muscles that you use at that time
Doctor:yes, many times in a day
Doctor:We also have stuff like squeeze techniques and stop go techniques for couples
User:what is that?
User:how to do?
Doctor:Its like the woman helps the man masturbate
Doctor:Then as soon as he is about the ejaculate, she presses the head of the penis for 20-30 seconds
Doctor:This is done multiple times
Doctor:This helps people who ejaculate too fast
User:but that liquid will be blocked
Doctor:The whole system will be such that you wouldnt ejaculate
Doctor:All that nervous stimulation wears off
User:can be these excercise done by mouth?
User:she can do it by mouth
Doctor:Yes or wih her hand
User:or with?
Doctor:with her hand
User:so normal time to ejaculate is 3-5 min..and mine is 2 min
User:so mentioned technique can increase the timeing
User:m i right aparna?
User:the above mentioned technique was 'stop go'
Doctor:the squeeze technique
User:what abt 'stop go' technique?
Doctor:In the stop go technique, when you are about to ejaculate
User:how to do tht
Doctor:You hold it back
Doctor:She doesnt press the head of your penis
User:with my hand
Doctor:N you just hold it back
User:but how?
Doctor:You can hold it back
User:coz i am about to
Doctor:Its a voluntary thing
User:it's very difficult
Doctor:Thats where those muscles I told you to exercise come on
User:i will do it today only
User:try to do
User:Dr. XXXXXXX ..Do u have your own clinic?
Doctor:I work for healthcare magic
User:healthcare magic has own clinic
User:where i can consult you
Doctor:You can come back to chat and ask for me
Doctor:or you can email me
User:is it getting recorded?
Doctor:let me check if we have a planned physician visit in your organization
Doctor:Its confidential
Doctor:Only both of us know
Doctor:Thats it
Doctor:Nobody else known
User:i was worried
Doctor:Its the minimum we can do
Doctor:We understand privacy is a concern
Doctor:Will you give me a minute
Doctor:I'll find out if we have a planned physician viist in your organization
Doctor:I'm sorry we dont have any visits in your organization
Doctor:So you can get through to me on chat/phone /email
Doctor:My email is YYYY@YYYY
Doctor:Just write attention to Dr. XXXXXXX in the subject line
User:0000 is my personal cell no
Doctor:So you can request a call XXXXXXX
User:could you please give me a call later?
Doctor:What time
User:8 pm
Doctor:I am available till 7:30 Vivel
Doctor:Does 7 pm work for you?
User:your office hour is till 7:30
Doctor:Or 8 pm sunday
User:is it to call after your office hour?
Doctor:Actually, I have another call scheduled
Doctor:After 8 pm suits you?
User:coz i can't talk these issue publically
Doctor:I understand
User:when are you free?
User:no problem...after 8 pm
Doctor:Will call you as soon as I am free
User:so sweet
User:thanks XXXXXXX
Doctor:Thanks for consulting me
User:at what time should i except ur call?
Doctor:arnd 8-8:30 problem
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