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Frequent mood swings,depression and anxiety - Online Doctor Chats

Date : 13-Jan-2012
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User :   hello doctor
Doctor :   sorry for the inconvenience our internet was down
Doctor :   yopu can proceed with
User :   r u da same doc whom i talked?
Doctor :   yes
User :   r u a psychologist?
Doctor :  
I am a General Practitioner, I believe I can help you within my expertise and If required I shall recommend a specialist.
User :   oh k
Doctor :   let me explain you in detail
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as you expliained me
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are you there
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User :   ya doc
Doctor :  
ok
Doctor :  
let me explain i feel you are very depressed and confused
Doctor :  
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User :   ya doc
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User :   ya doc i m here only
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and after taking your history
User :   ya
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Doctor :   are you back
User :   ya doctor
User :   actually
Doctor :  
we will continue
User :   i m facing frequent mood swings
Doctor :   ok
User :   i m not able to trust da people
Doctor :  
ok
User :   i m not able to carry da relations wid people
User :   my relations don work
Doctor :  
ok
Doctor :  
as for i have noticed that you are very anxious, depressed
Doctor :  
you have been having problems with both personal and professional confronts
Doctor :   so it is quite common you to get depressed since you feel nothing is working out for you in anyway
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are you there
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are you there
User :   ya
User :   i m here only
User :   i hv started frequent lies to my close people
Doctor :  
you have been failing in all ways, this is the reason for your mood swings
Doctor :  
all these are symptoms of depression
Doctor :  
Let me explain you how to tackle these conditions
User :   ya
Doctor :   first thing about your professional front if you see you are not happy with the job given for you for the qualification you have
Doctor :  
this can be tackled in the way that you see a new job but stick this job till you get a new, good job
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because if you donot work your problem will increase
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and you will tend to bemore depressed
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so keep trying for new job which is not quite difficult
Doctor :  
if you are interesting to become lawyer
Doctor :  
you can join as a junior with private lawyers in the evenings
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this will bring some confidence in you
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this is about the professional part
Doctor :  
iam not seeing you typing
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hope you are online
User :   actually
User :vg
User :   for that also i m lil bit scared dat how wil i complete my course from here
Doctor :  
that is very good decision you have taken
User :   i hv to go every sat to attend da class
Doctor :  
is it a correspondence course
User :   ya by dat i can handle technical issues
User :   no its a regular course
Doctor :   ok
User :   n teacher said if u wil face probs
Doctor :  
there is nothing to worry about it
Doctor :  
i think you have the capacity to clear the subjects
User :   coz of not attending classes
User :   ya
Doctor :  
ok
Doctor :  
that is wrong you need to attend the classess regularly
User :   by this proff prob wil be solved i hope
Doctor :  
ya i think
Doctor :  
if you feel you cannot go to do MSC then you can discontinue it
User :   cant attend daily
Doctor :   ok
User :   dats y looking for a job
Doctor :   because if you do a course youshould concentrate fully
User :   and i am not living with my parents
Doctor :   that is good idea
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so that you can concentrate on studies also with the job
User :   yaa
Doctor :  
why you are not living with your parents

ok
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as far your history
Doctor :  
i feel you are feeling alone, low in your life
Doctor :  
this will happen some times
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you need to be strong and face the problem
User :   ya doc
Doctor :  
Donot worry things will settle in our a period of time
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if you are feeling very low, not able to do your daily routines
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and not having social relationships
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i suggest you to see a psychologist and counselling]
User :   hmm k
User :   even i think so
Doctor :   then coming to your personal part
User :   ya doc
Doctor :   first thing you and your boy should discuss in person whether to continue the relation or to break it
Doctor :   and ask your parents not to put pressure for marriage now itself
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and ask them to give some time to think
User :   k
Doctor :  
after discussing with the boy, you decide whether to marry this boy or the boy whom your parents have seen
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But take time
User :   k
Doctor :  
Do not take any decision in haste or hurry
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after all this is your life and you should take decision which wil lbe right for you
Doctor :   and also get some good job you also will feel happy
User :   k
Doctor :  
and you will have confidence built in you
User :   k doc
Doctor :  
give time for every thing
User :   k
Doctor :   take a break from all, visit any place, and think calmly
User :   k
Doctor :  
and regarding the quarrels this is very common in all those who are in the realtion
Doctor :  
there is no one in the earth who donot quarre; with their boyfriends
User :   k
Doctor :  
this is the advise i can give you
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and also you feel depressed
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are you getting enough of sleep in the night
User :   ya
User :   8 hrs
Doctor :   ok
Doctor :  
then no problem
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involve in some kind of sports or hobbies like listening to music, playing
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or some exercises like walking
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thi swill boost your energy
User :   i go to gym regularly
Doctor :   that is very good
Doctor :  
continue the same
User :   k
Doctor :   if still feels low you may need to see a doctor so that he can put you on some anti anxiety medications

Doctor :   this will help to elevate your mood, think more positively
Doctor :  
are you there
User :   k doc
Doctor :  
are you there
User :   ya
Doctor :  
Is there any thing else I can help you with?
User :   thx doc
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