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Date : 21-Feb-2012
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User :   i am a new married person age 28
Doctor :   Hi
User :   okey
Doctor :   Please proceed with your query
User :   i am XXXX
User :   i am newly married person age 28 and my problem is during my intercource i am gettimg loos of my errection
User :   quite faster
User :   and my errection is quite ok at my foreplay
User :   please adveice
Doctor :   since when are you having this problem?
User :   last 2 months
User :   i am married last 2 months back
Doctor :   Before 2 months it was ok?
Doctor :   Ok
Doctor :   So since you started having since then you are facing it.
User :   no i have not tried
User :   yes
User :   but my ejucaluation is okey i can eject the sperm
User :   no issues in that
User :   i have 2 3 sucussfull intercource with good erction
Doctor :   Is there any other problem like burning, pain in urination, itching etc.
User :   no
Doctor :   Do you go to bed stressed?
User :   i dont thing i have
Doctor :   There are many causes of not having sustained erection as anxiety, stress, performance tension
User :   and one more thing is my head is quite big and my wife vegine is so small and i am facing to penetrate my penis too
Doctor :   1)First of all you need to relax yourself.
User :   okey how to over come this
User :   okey
Doctor :   2)Do not take unnecessary tension.
User :   okey
Doctor :   3)Have a long foreplay.
User :   whay are the foreplay make me for a long erection
User :   and one more question is how long a erection will be for a man
User :   normal man
Doctor :   4)Apply PRILOX gel one hour before having intercourse on the penis and then cover with a towel. Before going for intercourse just wash it off.
User :   doctor are u there
User :   do there any side effect
Doctor :   Erection including the ejaculation takes about 4 to 5 minutes in a man.
User :   okey doctor
Doctor :   As long as you will have foreplay the erection will be good and sustained.
User :   do this get help in more errection
Doctor :   Yes it will
Doctor :   Just try to overcome performance anxiety and be normal to enjoy intercourse.
User :   okey and one more problem wile penetrating my penins my wife vegine hole is too small and she feels more pain while intercource
Doctor :   The vaginal entrance can increase in size.
User :   okey is it automaticaly or do we need to do any foreplay
Doctor :   You need to make her feel comfortable and relaxed as she may have fear of intercourse.
User :   okey doctor
Doctor :   Also woman takes time to get aroused so always a long foreplay is recommended. As much as you will make her aroused she will have less pain.
User :   okey
User :   how long we neew to penitrate for a pergenency
User :   my penis to quite small as a normal man
Doctor :   You can also make her aroused before by stimulating her before penetrating.
Doctor :   Do you mean for getting pregnant?
User :   yes
Doctor :   It does not depend on the penetration, it is only dependent on the unison of sperm and ova during the woman's fertile period.
Doctor :   Even a slight penetration can lead to pregnancy.
User :   okey doctor
Doctor :   A normal penis length of 2.5 to 3 '' is normal for satisfaction of intercourse.
User :   okey my length is aroung 13 duirng erection
User :   13 cm
Doctor :   It is quite good length for having a satisfying intercourse.
Doctor :   Is there anything else you would like to know?
User :   okey doctor
User :   how frequent we need a intercource to get pergenent
Doctor :   A womans fertile period is between 8 to 16 days of her cycle counting from day 1 of her period. Between these days intercourse can lead to pregnancy.
Doctor :   For pregnancy it depends can take a day or few days also.
User :   okey
User :   one week back we have sex daily at the end on 5 day i got some pain in my penis after the ejeculation
User :   is it normal
User :   and my sperm quantiy is quite low on the 5 day
Doctor :   After that are you experiencing any pain?
Doctor :   Or any other symptom?
User :   paing is for a hour and lt lost
User :   and after that no pain
Doctor :   Ok may be some nerve would have twisted suddenly.
User :   ohh is it normal
Doctor :   Yeah if you do not have it now.
User :   ye i dont have it now
User :   one more thing
User :   i have done masterbatting before marriage
User :   does it will affect my intercource
Doctor :   masturbation does not affect your sexual health in anyway
Doctor :   It would not effect.
User :   okey
User :   any advice for me to have a good and sucessfull intercource
Doctor :   have a long foreplay and be relaxed.
User :   okey
Doctor :   Just enjoy with your wife.
User :   okey
Doctor :   Do not take unnecessary stress.
User :   okey can i try this jel
Doctor :   Always have single partner
Doctor :   Yes
User :   u recommended
Doctor :   Yes you can
Doctor :   Thanks for consulting me, bye for now
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