Fear of penetration. What steps can be taken? - Online Doctor Chats
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i have qurrey about sex
i am newly married man
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my wife is not comfortable in sex
she is so scared about sex
she fill pain in her vegina
i tryed only one time this activity
when she fill pain she push me back
and after that day she scarred about that
and even not ready to try this
she is ok in oral sex
now what should i do
Ok. Let me guide you about this.
How long have you been married?
are u from india
This is the time when you both start to learn each other.
know hindi ?
its easy o expalain in hindi for
I would prefer english to be used for communication here.
I understand, but typing in Hindi -English is difficult.
Sorry for the trouble.
So, as I said, this is the time when you both have to learn each other better.
When it comes to sex, an open talk would be the best thing to do.
Talk to your wife when you both are in relaxed mood.
before marriage she is my gf frind from last 4 years
Oh. That is nice. Then it would be easier to explain.
i tryied many time
Firstly you both have to understand the details of sex.
You both need to be in the mood for it. You will have to create the mood sometimes.
Then you need to progress slowly.
If it is difficult for one partner to progress fast, the other has to slow down.
Make foreplay a bit enjoyable.
Let it be with more of fondlings, massages, kisses etc.
par wo mood me hone k baad bhi jab hume final stage k liye jaate hai mujhe push XXXXXXX deti hai
i tryed each and every thing
but she is not ready to do that
It is not that she is having any problem.
can u please suggest me
Probably she might be scared about the pain during the insertion.
ya ur right
She would just need a proper explanation from a professional who can advise about it.
I surely can help you in finding a psychologist for helping her.
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