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Fear about sexual act and dust allergy. - Online Doctor Chats

Date : 13-Jan-2012
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Doctor :   Hi
User :   Hello Sir
User :   Mam
Doctor :   How can I Help You
User :   I need some assistance from you of my health
Doctor :   Please go Ahead..
User :   I have some fears in my mind by the mistake i committed 2weeks before
Doctor :   Ok.. What are they..
User :   please let me know on what kind of health issues u can help me with
User :   so that i can share with you
User :   dont Mind sir
User :   And is this from??
Doctor :   It would depend on your Query but for that you need to tell me about them first..
Doctor :   .
User :   Ohh ok great
User :   I have some problem in mental that it always push me towards something which hurts me
User :   it had been developed since 4 5 years
Doctor :   Ok..
User :   its like i have two minds
User :   one mind always thinks to do the good things of life
User :   and the other always says u r doing something wrong and unnecessarily put me in trouble
Doctor :   For Administrative and health purposes, Please provide these details -Age: Gender: Occupation: Location: Marital Status: Dependants: Yes/No
User :   26
User :   Gender: Male
Doctor :   developed over 4-5 years you mean
User :   Yes sir
User :   Occupation: Software Analyst
User :  
User :   Married
User :   Dependants: Yes my Family
Doctor :   If you could elaborate with History or any Example it would be better for my understanding.
User :   Ok sure
User :   I will be fully frank
Doctor :   Please do..
Doctor :   You would not have to worry on the confidentiality part though..
Doctor :   are you there?
User :   Yes sir
User :   Thanks for that
User :   But one thing how best i can believe this chat
User :   Please dont mind as you know todays world
User :   Iam in very much of trouble
User :   I need someones help very badly
User :   So please advise me such that this is not just something
User :   One of the main reason to suffer this much is CHEAT only
Doctor :   Yes i Understand that but there are some things that you need to as this is a chat then you are on chat with a doctor and the Patients details are always confidential thats the first priority..
Doctor :   ok..
Doctor :   Cheat or being cheated that you are talking about..
Doctor :   Do you smoke or chew tobacco/drink alcohol/Any illicit drugs/ betel nut chewing? If yes how much/how often?
Doctor :   Are you there?
Doctor :   I have to close this window since there is no response from your side, please get back to us if you need further medical advice. We are available from 9AM to 9PM everyday.
User :   am
User :   hello Sir
User :   Am here please
Doctor :   Tell Me..
User :   Sir actually in my younger age i had committed mistake unknowingly
User :   say at the age of 15 16
Doctor :   What was that if you can tell?
User :   that is like sex activities
Doctor :   Ok..
Doctor :   Sex with a commercial sex worker is thatwhat you mean..
User :   Nope
User :   at home r outside
User :   without knowing that am seeing anyone with bad attitudes
User :   so after some years i dont know how but i got something in my mind that i am doing sin
User :   since then this problem started with me sir
User :   after that i always used to feel i did some sin and also if i see any female i would feel like i am seeing her in bad ways
Doctor :   With Sin you mean Looking at women with a sexual approach towards them..
User :   even today the same problem
User :   u r correct sir
User :   i was not knowing its a sin since i got to realize am doing some mistake
User :   it suddenly came to my mind
User :   i dont know how i cultivated taht habit in me
User :   but it happend
User :   but when i got to realize thats a big mistake am doing i went mad really
User :   i cried
User :   i suffered
User :   i punished myself
Doctor :   Perversions are common at your age and only requires you to change your approach and getting to know them better will help you over come this attitude..
Doctor :   What do you mean by Punish your Self..
User :   so on and on i became like a pshycic
User :   i was hitting myself... i used to cry a lot....
User :   always started thinking y i did that
User :   but it turned me to a pshycic
User :   whomever i see if its a female i would feel am seeing her in a wrong way
User :   i tried and tried a lot to change my mind
Doctor :   They are not going to help you since you are not addressing the problem.
User :   but it grew still more and more
User :   ok tell me
User :   adrressing in the sense how would i say
User :   what exactly i should say
Doctor :   You must and have a talk with them and then get to know them better only then this approach of yous towards them would change..Like talking to any other Guy just that way..
User :   I am telling how my problem started and now what i am suffering with
Doctor :   Ok..
User :   And now what happend is being with this problem i pushed me to have sex with some anonymous girl last 2 weeks before
User :   and now am in the real trouble
User :   please help me
Doctor :   Trouble with what is my question.
User :   ok
Doctor :   real trouble ?
User :   i had got the fear that am in infected from any STI
User :   I got HIV test last week and was negative
User :   but i read in some web that HIV test can be done only after 3 months r so
Doctor :   Oh.. then there nothing for you to be worried at all man just get the HIV tested and get your self examined by the Dermatologist for any ulcers on your Penis and that will take care 0of all your worries..
Doctor :   HIV what test for hiv did you get done previously
Doctor :   Was it ELISA for Hiv..
User :   i am not very sure
User :   But it was HIV test
User :   Nothing like ulcers or anything
Doctor :   Ok.. Any other symptoms that you have for now.. like general body tiredness.Or viral illness.
User :   But i had got body ache since a week
User :   and i am worried for that
Doctor :   Fever or sore throat..
Doctor :   Ok..
User :   nothing else apart from that
Doctor :   Was it the first time that you have had sex.
User :   Yes
Doctor :   Ok..
User :   Sometimes i feel like i dont have energy
User :   as my hands shakes
User :   i dont know why
User :   i am very much worried sir
User :   please help me
Doctor :   ]there is nothing to worry about mostly you will not have HIV but to be on the safe side and for your consolation you can get that tested some time in 3-4 months..
Doctor :   Please fill this form I send, While I type the necessary information, and do inform me when done.
Doctor :   Are you there?
User :   Yes sir
User :   Yes sir
Doctor :   Have you filled up the feedback form I sent?
User :   I didnt get any?????
Doctor :   did you get it now..
User :   It was like just feedback
User :   i didnt get any forms
User :   Sir but how would u suggest for my problem as of now
Doctor :   You should be just fine and there is nothing to be worried at all..ok.. if you have filled it..It would have poped up on your chat window..
User :   But i have allergy problem since 10 years or so
Doctor :   Repeat test some time in 3-4 months. will help solve your worries..
Doctor :   Allergy Like
User :   Is it something because of that?
User :   As Heridity i have some allergy problems
User :   like getting frequent cold and wheezing if it get exposed to dust, Or eating some oily foods
User :   i cant even take cold water bath
User :   i cant drink cold water too
User :   always used to take hot water
Doctor :   Ok.. That has nothing to do with this condition that you have mentioned..
User :   Ok
Doctor :   Allergist will help you with this but then avoidance is the best treatment for it..
User :   So then why am i getting this body ache? and hand shake suddeny
User :   that is my worry
User :   Body ache usually i had seen earlier also
Doctor :   Might be a Viral Illness that you have caught due to the Change in Climatic conditions..
Doctor :   If you wish, we can fix up your appointment with a doctor in your area.
User :   Ohh ok
User :   Is there any good specialist?
User :   I stay in
Doctor :   Please confirm your details and One of our doctors will get back to you soon with all the relevant details and you can take the healthiest decision
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User :   Ok
Doctor :   are they Correct.
User :   Yes that is correct
Doctor :   ok..One of our doctor will get in touch with you..
Doctor :   At the earliest..
User :   Thanks a lot
User :   Thanks being so freindly and helpfull
Doctor :   Bye for now..
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