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Erection problem after marriage - Online Doctor Chats

Date : 13-Jan-2012
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User :   hi my pennifs is not staying erected
                                                  
User :   Hi i am married 6 mnths old, my pennis is not staying erected.not able to have proper sex
Doctor :   hi
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ok
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i wil need to ask you few more questions. can I proceed
User :   plz goahed
Doctor :   please provide your age, location, occupation, height and current weight
User :   28, software engineer 83, 5.7
User :   hi doc r u thr
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Yes, as I am chatting with some patients simultaneously. Please bear with us for a reply
Doctor :   is there any problem in achieving erection?
User :   no i dont but its not staying straight, i am not able to to get into sex mood if i have, but i am completely perfect if i watch sex movies
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do you masturbate?
User :   earlier before marrige
Doctor :   ok
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after marriage have you stopped masturbating?
User :   yes doc
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is the erection proper when you watch sex videos?
User :   ya good
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are you able to maintain erection for sometime once the penis is erect?
Doctor :   is yes, then mention the approximate duration
User :   yes i do
User :   15 mts
Doctor :   ok
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average erection time of 6 and 1/2 minutes and above that is considered to be normal
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so you dont have to worry on the erection time part
User :   but i am not sure sure the erected quatity is proper
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now coming to the problem of a not geting a proper erection.i will suggest you few steps to be follwed
User :   ok doc
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the problem that you face with getting erection when watching sex videos and not getting erection when having intercourse is due to the
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masturabtion before marraige
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it happens with about 85% men
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and it can be treated with following these steps
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1) avoid masturbating in sitting position, if mastubating, try to do it in positions that you prefer to do intercourse
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2) avoid watching lot of sex videos, and if you do watch, watch it before having the intercourse
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3) indulge more in foreplay before going on to penetrative sex
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4) if stil the problem is not solved with these measures in two weeks time
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then you wil need to be examined and counseled to
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overcome the problem.
Doctor :   have you followed?

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Is there any thing else I can help you with?
User :   tnx doc, can i hav myself checked, bcoz i was pply able to hav sex before 1 mnth , 2 days once, but out of the blues i am not able to, will the above guide line will help me
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yes it should help
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since the problem does not seem to be organic
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so the chances of it getting resolved with time ans hese measures are more
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in case it does not happen
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then you should go in for a examination
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by a urologist or andrologist
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and also get a semen analysis done
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Is there any thing else I can help you with?
User :   ok doc i will try for 2 weeks and check , tnx
Doctor :   Please fill the feedback form say done when done.
User :   do u prefer any hospitals
Doctor :   in chennai you can go to any of the standard hospitals.
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visit this link to locate a urologist in chennai
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