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Erection not sustained, masturbate daily - Online Doctor Chats

Date : 21-Feb-2012
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User :   I am 32 yrs old got married recently. I used to masterbate daily since i was 13. sometimes i even jerked twice or thrice a day.
I am afraid does it affect my married life. will it create any fertility problem. I also have soft erection. I am worried what shall I do. I have stopped masterbating for last few days. i got married in july only. Please suggest. I am worried
Doctor :   Hi
User :   hello
Doctor :  
Doctor :   Let me read what you have typed
User :   this is amit
User :   ok
Doctor :   Masturbation is something very normal and does not affect your sex life at all so be relaxed.

User :   but why i get soft erection
Doctor :   Did you have intercourse with your wife?
User :   even when i do lot of foreplay
User :   no not yet
Doctor :   Do you have any health problem other than this?

User :   no
User :   i dont smoke
User :   i dont have any habits
Doctor :   The main underlying factor behind this is stress and anxiety.
User :   somtimes i hav gud erection but it doesnt last for long
Doctor :   You seem to have performance tension which is causing this.
User :   no no
User :   i dont hav tension
User :   coz my wife is afraid of pain
User :   so even she is quite scared
Doctor :   1)First of all never go to bed stressed about how would be the erection.

Doctor :   First time every female would be scared, you should try to relax her and make her calm.
Doctor :   Indulge in lot of foreplay.
Doctor :   Always have a long foreplay time.
User :   doctor i don hav any problem na....i dont want to use any medicine for this
Doctor :   2)Do exercise regularly.

Doctor :   No it is not a problem,just keep calm.
User :   when should i try for a baby
Doctor :   3)Practice Stop and Squeeze technique during intercourse.
Doctor :   4)For your wife apply some lubricating agent like KY jelly on her vagina 20 minutes before intercourse and then ask her to wash off and start the foreplay.
User :   should i go for sperm test
Doctor :   Why do you want to go for sperm test?
Doctor :   For the baby you have to decide when you want it.
User :   because i masterbated a lot during my teens
Doctor :   It does not effect the sperm count i already explained it to you.
User :   thanx
User :   i was quite worried
Doctor :   Every day millions of new sperms are being created.
User :   but i hav stopped doing ths for past few days
User :   say 15 - 20
Doctor :   5)You can also use Prilox Gel an hour before intercourse, cover your penis with cloth and wash after an hour then have the intercourse.
User :   y this
Doctor :   Ok now you enjoy intercourse.
Doctor :   It will help in increasing erection
User :   ok
User :   thanx
Doctor :   Thanks for consulting me, bye for now
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