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Erection issue and unsuccessful sex - Online Doctor Chats

Date : 21-Feb-2012
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Very Good Posted in: Erectile Dysfunction
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User :   Hi Doctor, i have sex related problem, i don't get proper erection during sex and is not able to insert. Can you please help me.
User :   Hi doctor
Doctor :   Hi Dr here
User :   hi Doctor
Doctor :   let me read your query
Doctor :   may i know your age?
User :   as i told earlier i have issue in full erection
User :   31
User :   marreid 6 month back
Doctor :   ok
Doctor :   has this problem started recently?
User :   not sure
User :   never had sex earlier
Doctor :   WERE you able to have sex with a full erection before ?
User :   yes
User :   it works at times
Doctor :   i mean in the last 6 months ?
Doctor :   ok
User :   but most of the time i dont get full erection
Doctor :   i feel that this issue is due to stress and not related to physical problem
User :   i feel the same
User :   but whats the solutin
Doctor :   probably you get stressed with work , and get tired, so you may not be able to be satisfied
User :   i am not able to get erection....and end up with unsuccessful sex
Doctor :   have you have had proper erections in the morning ?
Doctor :   I do understand your situation
Doctor :   This isa very common situation faced by young adults
User :   as i told it happens at times but not most of the time
Doctor :   are you able to have strong erections, during the night sleep like in early mornings?
User :   is there a solution for this? this permanentaly curable?
User :   not every time...
Doctor :   this is not a disease that you have
User :   and even if i get erection it dosent last for long
Doctor :   spend some quality time with your spouse, and
User :   i feel that i may lose the erection early
User :   and once lost dosent get it back
Doctor :   explain that you are tired
User :   she understand and co-operate
Doctor :   try to have sex in the early morning, when both of you are refreshed and it will be rewarding
User :   ok
Doctor :   also try oral sex, as a change, which will give you the stimulation, for ercection
User :   is this a comon issue
User :   she dosne like oral thats the concern
Doctor :   yes this is a very common issue, with most men,
User :   is there a medicene for this
Doctor :   both of you, in private can watch sexaul educative movies, and this will be a eye opener to new experiences
Doctor :   proper orientation & open communication b/w a couple is important for healthy sexual life
User :   thats not an issue
User :   she is open to talk abt things
Doctor :   medicines usually will not solve this simple problem and
Doctor :   taking medicines, will make you dependent on them, and it may not be curable by itself
User :   if i take any medicene will i become addicted to them
Doctor :   yes
User :   and later will not get erection without them?
Doctor :   addictions and psychological dependence will be an issue
Doctor :   yes , thats a problem with meds
User :   ok
Doctor :   try change is sex position
Doctor :   or place of having sex
User :   what medicene normally is taken for this type of issue
Doctor :   physical excercise will also help
User :   ok
Doctor :   good nutrition
Doctor :   high protein diet
User :   is there any natural food
Doctor :   physical excercise
User :   whihc will help gainaing sexual strenth
Doctor :   kegel excercises , to control ejaculation
User :   ok
User :   any food u suggest
Doctor :   yes, dry fruits, seafood, prawns, etc are good aphrodisiacs
User :   thats good for blood flow in penis
Doctor :   almonds, , etc
User :   ok
Doctor :   also try masturbation by your spouse, which will arouse you, and have good erections
Doctor :   sex is a game of the mind
Doctor :   chocolate, is also good
Doctor :   not of the body
User :   ok
User :   let me see
User :   what works best
Doctor :   when your mind is active, and looks for avenues, it will seek different ways of sexual pleasure
Doctor :   I will email you a few details on your email ID for your knowledge
User :   thanks a lot
Doctor :   that will help you
Doctor :   you are welcome
User :   anything u suggest
Doctor :   i will give all details in the email
User :   ok
User :   will wait fot it
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