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Date : 21-Feb-2012
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Very Good Posted in: Erectile Dysfunction
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User :   hi
Doctor :   Hi
User :   when tried to had sex
Doctor :   How can I help you?
Doctor :   Proceed with your query.
User :   my girlfriend gaveme a blow JOb
Doctor :   Ok
User :   and stoped before ejaculation
Doctor :   Ok
User :   at that moment it was hard
Doctor :   Ok
User :   but when i tried to have penetrate
User :   it became soft
Doctor :   Ok
User :   during the penetrational sex
Doctor :   Ok
User :   i tired the same exercie with 4 dffernent girls with condom on
User :   but everytme it beacem soft
Doctor :   Ok
User :   can u suggest something
User :   where its ging wrog
Doctor :   May I know your age?
User :   23
Doctor :   Is this the first time that you are trying penetrative sexual intercourse?
User :   all the 4 times i had
Doctor :   Do you have any other medical illness such as diabetes, heart problems?
User :   no
User :   but having some issues of depression and anexity
Doctor :   I mean, before the last 4 acts; were you involved in penetrative sexual intercourse?
User :   no
Doctor :   Ok
Doctor :   Are you on any pills?
User :   in all four acts i involved in penetrational sex
User :   no
User :   i rarely take medicine
Doctor :   Ok
Doctor :   Do you smoke or consume alcohol?
User :   no
User :   no tobacco
User :   no alcholo
User :   no drugs
Doctor :   Ok
Doctor :   Let me explain to you.
User :   ok
Doctor :   Since you are able to maintain erection in non penetrative sexual intercourse,
User :   yes for that i have to masturbate
User :   or blow job
Doctor :   there is no doubt that you body system is fine and that you do not have any organic medical problems/erectile dysfunction.
Doctor :   Let me put across in simple terms.
User :   ok
User :   ok
Doctor :   Erection functions are governed by various factors.
Doctor :   Among the various factors psychogenic ones are equally important as medical problems.
User :   ok
Doctor :   Based on reports following multiple research conducted on young individual who suffer from erectile dysfunctions, it s proved all the times
Doctor :   that it is these psychological factors - to be specific
Doctor :   fear of STDs, wanting to perform well in penetrative sexual intercourse,
Doctor :   to satisfy your partner and your self very well during penetrative sexual intercourse;
Doctor :   These factors are proved as the number one cause for the erection failure.
Doctor :   So, i guess the same is the problem with you.
User :   okso what can be done from my side to overcome such issue
Doctor :   These problems normalise as you get older with multiple sexual intercourse,
Doctor :   During this time,
Doctor :   doctors advice
User :   also if want to consult u with the same again how to connect to you on healthcaremagic
Doctor :   psychological modifications.
User :   dcotors advice ?
User :   like meditataion listning good music
User :   etc
Doctor :   The following are the measures that you need to follow.
Doctor :   1. Do not rush through the sexual intercourse.
Doctor :   Involve in good amount of fore play before you start the penetrative sexual intercourse.
Doctor :   You need to be mentally and emotionally connected with your partner.
Doctor :   If you are not, then it will not lead to successful sexual intercourse.
Doctor :   2. Deep breathing exercises and anxiety measures needs to be practiced regularly.
User :   how to coonet to you next time
Doctor :   you can recharge now,
User :   ok
Doctor :   or later and can get back to me on chat.
User :   what are the other steps I can take
Doctor :   3. There are some exercise that has been developed my Masters and Johnsons since a long time.
Doctor :   These exercises are names as Sensate focussing exercises.
Doctor :   You can learn about these exercises
Doctor :   over net or bookd
Doctor :   and practice the same.
Doctor :   4. Practice exercises to strengthen the pelvic floor muscles.
User :   next time i just need to mention Dr Parsad
Doctor :   I think we are running short of time,
Doctor :   I will be available online in the morning
Doctor :   every day except on mondays.
Doctor :   Please recharge to continue with this chat.
Doctor :   Are you there?
Doctor :   Are you there?
Doctor :   I have to close the window as you are not responding. Please chat with our doctors 24/7 for medical queries
Doctor :   Hi
Doctor :   Are you there?
User :   yes
User :   also apart from this any measures needs to be taken
Doctor :   I was talking about pelvic floor exercises.
User :   yes
Doctor :   Pelvic floor muscles contract when one is trying to hold the urine while urination.
Doctor :   So try to learn how/which muscle contract as you pass urine.
Doctor :   Repeat those during your free times.
User :   ok
Doctor :   They will strengthen the pelvic muscles helping in strengthening the erection
Doctor :   5. Healthy diet containing vitamin and zinc rich food.
Doctor :   6. Nutritional pills such as vitamin and zinc containing pills such as zincovit one pill a day for 15-30 days.
Doctor :   These measures should solve your problem,
Doctor :   if they don't
Doctor :   then you may use the help of erection enhancing measures such as
Doctor :   a. Penile ring, vacuum pumps during sexual intercourse
Doctor :   b. Medical drugs that help in supporting/enhancing erection.
Doctor :   The last 2 measures are going to be the last resort
User :   ok
Doctor :   and I do not think that you may need it.
User :   ohk
User :   :)
Doctor :   80 to 85% men, have found improvement with the above measures.
Doctor :   lastly, since psychological factors have an important role,
User :   so no worriies as of now
Doctor :   getting anxious and depressed
Doctor :   will only increase your problem.
Doctor :   So do not worry.
Doctor :   Follow the measures suggested.
User :   how to overcome anexity and drepession
Doctor :   If you do not find the symptoms improving, then consult an urologist who will suggest you alternative medications.
User :   ok
Doctor :   Anxiety and depression can be addressed by taking your mind of the current problem you face now.
Doctor :   If it needs with holding from sexual intercourse for a few weeks.
Doctor :   Regular diet, good, regular and ample sleep,
Doctor :   mediations, physical exercises, fresh thinking and so on
Doctor :   will help in overcoming depression and anxiety.
User :   ok
Doctor :   Watch your weight out,
User :   63
User :   5 3
Doctor :   maintaining proper weight is essential both for sexual functions and depression control.
User :   ok
Doctor :   Your body weight is just under the normal limits.
Doctor :   Your ideal body weight should be around 50 to 60 kgs.
Doctor :   Keep them monitored.
Doctor :   You should be able to have a healthy life with good sexual life soon.
Doctor :   Have you followed what I have suggested?
Doctor :   Do you have any other query?
User :   no
User :   if any will conect to u next time
User :   thanks a ton
Doctor :   You can log in at any time, if you have any other problems.
Doctor :   Thanks for consulting me.
Doctor :   Bye for now.
Doctor :   Hi
Doctor :   Are you there?
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