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Erectile dysfunction in newly married men - Online Doctor Chats

Date : 21-Feb-2012
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Very Good Posted in: Erectile Dysfunction
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User :   Hi Doctor. I have erection dysfunction problem. how can I get cure from this?
Doctor :   Hi
Doctor :   Dr
User :   Hi Sir
Doctor :   May i know your age and duration of married life ?
User :   I am just 25years and unmarried
Doctor :   ok
Doctor :   how long have u had this issue ?
User :   Who shud i contact to cure this
User :   just past one week
Doctor :   can you explain your problem
Doctor :   are u able to have a proper erection ?
User :   I mastubrate just 5 days back...before sperms comes penis didnt stand errect and even i tried yesterday night smae thing is not hard enough to withstand even
User :   no proper errection and it giving me some pain
Doctor :   ARE you stressed at your job ?
User :   no...
Doctor :   do u have erections early in the morning
Doctor :   Were u able to have proper erections before ?
User :   but the problem is for last 2 months i mastubrated for many times...Is it the problem? yes i had proper erections and bfore 10 days i use to get errections in the morning but not now
User :   I am not getting
User :   for last one week
Doctor :   this is due to stress
Doctor :   you will be completly fine
Doctor :   the more you think about it, the more you will be stressed
Doctor :   i will advice you to stay away fro trying masturabation for about 1 week
Doctor :   after one week, you will find better changes
User :   actually Doctor I am getting married coming April with my loved ones.. I don't have much stress.. which doctor shud i comsult got this..any urologist? pls help me..I have get cure before my marriage... If i find the change after a week I am happiest person..If it continued means what should I do?
Doctor :   you can consult a sexologist or a urologist , both can help in this matter
User :   ok.. can u suggest me any medicine or my food items which which will help for this problem
Doctor :   I assure you that after once week you can have benfiecial changes
User :   thank you doctor! thanks a lot.
User :   doing mastubrate will create this kind of problems?
Doctor :   in addition, you can consult a doctor, and he can prescribe you medications called sildenafil or tadalafil., WHICH cna help you get good erections
Doctor :   when you do it in excess, it can cause such issues
Doctor :   the penis erections depend on signals from the brain
User :   I am doing this for 2 years..more or less daily i did...but for 1 month i done it it becoz of this I am facing this problem now?
Doctor :   when the brain is stressed , the signals are reduced , so the erections may be weak or less
Doctor :   yes this is the cause of ur problem
Doctor :   over indulging in masturbation has caused such issues with you
User :   Doctor what is the solution? Doing mastubration is a problem? Pls help
User :   i dont that it will create such problem
Doctor :   no do it in moderation
Doctor :   and relax now
User :   means?
Doctor :   you are comepletely fine
Doctor :   and within a week u will get back to normal
Doctor :   hi are u back
User :   yes Sir
Doctor :   ok
Doctor :   as i was saying, rest for a week, and you will become normal
User :   ok Sir surely
User :   doing it with moderation? can u pls elobrate it
Doctor :   like over indulgence like doing it daily, or 2-3 times or more a day, can cause psychological weakness and less stronger erections
Doctor :   usually u used to do less, before one month
Doctor :   now you increased the frequency, so this probably has resulted in the penis response to decrease
Doctor :   give some time for the penis to get the responsivity to improve
User :   ok.. definitely i will be in control.. iwll not touch it for few days ... Can u assure me after marriage i will not get this problem again..becoz there is only 70 days to go for marriage.
Doctor :   THIS is a common occurance in men
User :   oh ok.... now i am relaxed
Doctor :   the key to having good sex, is having a clear mind
Doctor :   and sex starts in the mind
User :   ok ok
Doctor :   post marriage, the confidence that u can satisfy ur partner matters most
Doctor :   sex is about confidence
Doctor :   and with experiecne, you will become a good lover
Doctor :   once you get married, first get in tune with your wife, and learn each others requirements, sexual and psychological
Doctor :   spend some time cuddling together, without actual penetration, and getting to know how to excite each other without penetration
User :   ok sir surely now i understand... I will be with confidence.. actually i love her very very much than all on this world.. i got a fear whether i can satisfy or not... I thought if mastubrate for more times my stamina will increase and i thought i can have long sex session with her.. more number penetrations as well
Doctor :   once you get to know that, the confidence that you dont have insecurities about each others bodies will help u to have a good sex
Doctor :   feeling good about ones body , and feeling confident that your partner likes and wants you , without any issues with your body, etc will help you ahve good sex
User :   ok..
User :   Now i got my confidence level boosted up... for how much of time i shud do foreplay before penetration during oue sex session?
Doctor :   it depends on whether your partner is excited or not
Doctor :   if she gets excited and has adequate vaginal lubrication, you can proceed to intercourse
Doctor :   this may take 10-15 min
User :   oh ok... then when i shud penetrate? after completely excited...
User :   i mean 10-15 mins late/... right?
Doctor :   yes
Doctor :   that is right
Doctor :   Is there anything i can help u with ?
Doctor :   i hope you have understood my advice
User :   can u pls tell me sir? when a girl will actually reach the peat stage during the session... what shud i do for this? or it depends on girl
User :   peak*
Doctor :   cuddling, kissing her, stimulating her points where she can get excited, will all help
User :   ok...
Doctor :   in addition involving in oral sex will also help to stimulate her
User :   oh ok.... its great sir.
Doctor :   thanks for consulting me here
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