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Ejaculation problem after penetration into the vagina - Online Doctor Chats

Date : 21-Feb-2012
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User :   Hi, may I answer yo
Doctor :   Hi
User :   I am 30 yr old married 2 years back. We are having intercourse for last 5 months but not even a single time I could be able to ejaculate inside. There is no problem of erection as it happen easily during foreplay but whenever I tried to insert penis inside , I face problem to inset penis (I may have the phobia about the size of vagina ) & in turn erection lost . What should I do for ejaculation inside ? Please note whenever I tried masturbating ejaculation happens in 2-3 mins. Kindly suggest
User :   doc pls reply
Doctor :   Are you able to ejaculate if your wife masturbates you?
Doctor :   with her hand
User :   yes
Doctor :   How much time does it take
User :   5-10 min
User :   self 2-3 min
Doctor :   How long are you able to do a proper vaginal intercourse ?
User :   15min
User :   after that errection lost
User :   or i get tired
Doctor :   Ok, do you think the vagina is not tight enough to cause that friction
Doctor :   15 minute is a good time
Doctor :   and you are blessed with such a long time
Doctor :   But your problem is not able to ejaculate
User :   yes
User :   true
Doctor :   Ok, do you think the vagina is not tight enough to cause that friction
User :   may be
User :   i feel size of vagina is small to insert penis
User :   pls revert
Doctor :   I think penetration is a major problem than ejaculation for you
User :   i am loosing chat time
User :   yes
Doctor :   You were not able to penetrate and ejaculate
User :   yes
Doctor :   Is the vagina lubricated
Doctor :   first of all
User :   yes
Doctor :   Are you able to insert the entire penis into the vagina
User :   yes after some time & that time penis errection lost a bit and in turn ejaculation not happen
User :   waiting your revert
Doctor :   I think you are still apprehensive about sex
Doctor :   and panic is losing the interest in sex and there by the erection
User :   may be
User :   but what is the way out to overcome this
User :   m not getting any response from you doctor
Doctor :   The best way out is couple therapy
Doctor :   where both of you are to be counselled by
Doctor :   on how to improve the outcome of sex
Doctor :   professional counsellor
Doctor :   Sex is not a physical thing, it is more a mind thing
User :   ok
User :   ok
Doctor :   This is the best thing you guyz have to do
Doctor :   You should properly communicate amongst yourself
Doctor :   Share a common feeling
Doctor :   Seek help from one another
Doctor :   Address the problem and ask her to assist in recovery
Doctor :   The problem that you have is very common and easily treatable
User :   ok
User :   should i consult sexologist
Doctor :   But it would need some time
Doctor :   Yes you can seek a Psychologist / Sexologist
User :   how much time
User :   one week , one month or one year
User :   how much time would it take- one week , one month or one year
User :   i live in
User :   would you help me in the same regard
User :   i dont know any psychologist/sexologist near by
Doctor :   It should not take more than 1 month
Doctor :   In fact a week is the ideal tme
Doctor :   One of our Customer care team shall call you up
Doctor :   and give you the details
Doctor :   the appointment timings
Doctor :   Confirm you phone number
Doctor :   yes
Doctor :   You will get a call soon
Doctor :   Finally just do not be apprehensive
Doctor :   Try to move very friendly with your wife
Doctor :   Acknowledge the problems
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