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Date : 21-Feb-2012
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User :   hi, i am 28 and have had a problem with constantly getting erections since i was a teenager. i also have had a problem with premature ejaculation. is there a correlation between the two? when my wife and i have sex, i have typically had an erection long before intercourse. therefore, by the time we start, my penis is already ready to ejaculate and needs very little stimulation? is there anything i can do and is this normal?
Doctor :   Hi
User :   hi
Doctor :   So basically you have erections
Doctor :   and they last during fore play
Doctor :   but loose quickly during intercourse
Doctor :   Is that right?
User :   well basically i can walk up to my wife and get an erection....and no i do not loose them
User :   yes they do last through foreplay
Doctor :   Do thy lasy while intercourse?
Doctor :   *they last
User :   it seems that this problem causes premature ejaculation for me
User :   yes they last, very strong
Doctor :   let me come to the diagnosis
Doctor :   So there is no problem with erections
Doctor :   The penis will be stiff while it is Vagina
User :   no, i get erections to easily
Doctor :   it will not become soft
User :   yes
Doctor :   Good
Doctor :   So you have no ED
Doctor :   You have no Erectile Dysfunction
Doctor :   That is good thing
User :   no, i think i have the opposite of ED
Doctor :   So yo think that is the problem.
User :   i dont know, it seems to be
User :   could it be the problem and if so, is there a solution?
Doctor :   I do not think it is problem
Doctor :   You are young and naturally you are provoked by your wife
User :   i know that anxiety plays a role, but is there anything that can kinda temper the situation?
Doctor :   In fact I see many people cry for not having erections
Doctor :   No actually anxiety erases the thoughts of arousal
Doctor :   Anxiety affect the sexualperformace
Doctor :   it negatively affect the errrections
Doctor :   It will cause prmature ejaculations
Doctor :   It will also cause loss of erections
User :   my problem with premature ejaculation is ruining my sex life for me and my wife....i am trying my hardest to find a solution
Doctor :   ok
Doctor :   You are not coming to that point.
Doctor :   You were concetrating only on erections
Doctor :   Now tell me are you gettiong ejaculation very earlty
Doctor :   * getting
Doctor :   *early
User :   yes very early
Doctor :   Normal duration of intercourse vary from 5-20 min (real vaginal intercourse)
User :   i am to the point to where i will masturbate once or twice about 30 mins before we have sex just so we can have sex for a normal amount of time
User :   if i have even gone 3 or 4 hours since ejaculating, i will last less than a minute with my wife
Doctor :   If you are getting ejaculation very early then I will find the solution..
Doctor :   ok
Doctor :   Then most common cause is Anxiety
User :   what can i do to combat that
Doctor :   Lack of proper voluntary control on organs
Doctor :   it is will power issue
Doctor :   there are solutions s
Doctor :   they are exercises
User :   like what
Doctor :   There is only 1 min left
Doctor :   I will try to finish
Doctor :   first thing be very cool
Doctor :   do relaxation exercises before going to intercourse
User :   will antidepressants help?
Doctor :   You are jumping straight to meds
Doctor :   they do.
Doctor :   But there are things which elp
Doctor :   *help
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