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Early ejaculation, less satisfaction during intercourse - Online Doctor Chats

Date : 13-Jan-2012
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Doctor :   Hi
Doctor :   How can I help you?
User :   Hello
User :   GA
Doctor :   Good Afternoon
User :   My self
Doctor :   Hello
User :   It is related my sexual intercourse....as I am having quick ejacuation and not having good intercourse....can you please suggest me any solution
Doctor :   Please continue
User :   wih my wife
Doctor :   yes I can suggest you
Doctor :   I shall suggest you few things
User :   sure
Doctor :   before that please say these details
User :   sure
Doctor :   What is your Age, Occupation, Height and Weight
User :   My age is 27
User :   software engineer......5.4
User :   and 55 kg's
Doctor :   When were you married
User :   1 month back
Doctor :   Do you have prior sexual intercourse?
User :   no. this is the first time
Doctor :   Ok
Doctor :   Do you smoke or chew tobacco/drink alcohol/Any illicit drugs/ betel nut chewing? If yes how much/how often and how long you have?
User :   no I dont have any of the above habits
Doctor :   Ok
Doctor :   is your wife complaining about the problem?
User :   no...
Doctor :   Ok
Doctor :   How much time does it take before you ejaculate
User :   2 mins...or even before
Doctor :   Ok
Doctor :   Do not worry
Doctor :   I will help you with few things
User :   okies...
Doctor :   Before I tell you some techniques
Doctor :   let me educate you on this issue
User :   ok
Doctor :   This is called premature Ejaculation
User :   ok
Doctor :   where the man ejaculates within 1 min usually
Doctor :   or before the satisfaction of either of the partners
User :   ok
Doctor :   This issue is usually seen in Young, newly married males
User :   ok
Doctor :   90% of the newly married males have this issue
Doctor :   This is not a disease
Doctor :   as such
User :   oh..okay
Doctor :   It needs patience to understand the sexual urge of an individual
User :   ok
Doctor :   THis can happen with greater communication with the partners
Doctor :   you and your partner have to sit and speak about your sexual urges
Doctor :   and know about each other
User :   ok
Doctor :   what makes you people have a sexual completeness
User :   I am not sure
Doctor :   Do not worry about it
Doctor :   Both of you speak on the bed
Doctor :   what makes you happy
Doctor :   What positions you want and how you want
User :   ok
Doctor :   It is the apprehension, fear
Doctor :   guilty that causes eearly release of semen
User :   ok
Doctor :   Actualy both of you should speak how to proceed talk about it
User :   ok
Doctor :   and should be more of verbal foreplay and then the normal physical foreplay
Doctor :   which makes eachother know about other's sexual insticts
User :   ok
Doctor :   These are very important
Doctor :   initial days
Doctor :   after marriage
User :   ok
Doctor :   Leave the apprehenssion about the sex
Doctor :   about the pregnancy
Doctor :   do not be guilty
Doctor :   what you are doing
User :   ok
Doctor :   What you are doing is right
Doctor :   and play optimism
User :   ok
Doctor :   I shall send you a document on the techniques to be followed
Doctor :   to increase the time
User :   sure
Doctor :   before you ejaculate
Doctor :   Try these techniques
User :   okies
Doctor :   Remember things will not set in a night
User :   okay
Doctor :   Slowly try these and usual foreplays
Doctor :   and communication part
User :   okies....
Doctor :   You will slowly notice the difference
Doctor :   from now and after 1 month
Doctor :   Ok
Doctor :   Did you follow what I say?
Doctor :   Do not use any medicine right now
User :   yes..I contacted a doctor and reported him about this ....he gave me some medicine
Doctor :   A medicine is no cure for this issue
Doctor :   What is the medicine he gave you?
User :   Tantex.....arbogra.....
Doctor :   Ok
Doctor :   May I know the specialist who gave you this
User :   and I have urinate problem..I mean it is very frequent in me
Doctor :   Please confirm your details
User :   when I think of any sexual image or if I touch my wife I feel of ejaculating
Doctor :   YYYY@YYYY
Mobile : 91-0000
User :   yes
Doctor :   I shall send you more information on this issue to your email ID
Doctor :   as an Educational Brochure
User :   okay sure
Doctor :   I know what happens
Doctor :   to you
Doctor :   There are some techniques described
Doctor :   called Squeese techniques
Doctor :   you can practice that
User :   okay...May I know your name:-)
Doctor :   and make your wife involved
User :   okay
Doctor :   in following the technique
Doctor :   she has a great role to play
Doctor :   I am Dr.
Doctor :   Ok
Doctor :   Did you follow what I said
User :   okies..
User :   yes
Doctor :   you will chat with me after a month
Doctor :   as a follow up
User :   okay sure
Doctor :   I am sure there shall be some improvement
User :   no need of any medicine?
Doctor :   than the present state
Doctor :   Not now
User :   okay
Doctor :   If the techniques fail even after 2 to 3 months
Doctor :   then we can look into it
User :   shall I drop the medicines what I am taking now
Doctor :   But remember the advices
Doctor :   that I have given
Doctor :   1. Communication
User :   yeah sure
Doctor :   2. Fore play
Doctor :   Is there any thing else I can help you with?
Doctor :   Please fill the feedback form say done when done.
User :   nope...thanks sir...will get back to you soon...when will you send the info to my ID
User :   ?
User :   sure I will
Doctor :   Have you filled the feedback form?
User :   no can you send it to me again
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Doctor :   I shall send you the document
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