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Date : 13-Jan-2012
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User :   Hi,
I have been masturbation since from last two years thrice in a week as a average.
Now i get married and not able to enjoy sex as well organsm. I am not able to ejacuate as well. After long masturbate i used to get semes as a two or three drops. A bit worried about with my married life.

I am suffering from pre-mature ejacuation as well..
Please help and give me some medicines.I would be grateful if you help me on this.

Please

Regard

User :   Hi
Doctor :   hi
Doctor :  
ok
Doctor :  
please give me sometime in reading your history
User :   Could you please read my problem?
User :   Sure Doctor..
Doctor :  
are you able to achieve and erection?
User :   after masturbate i used to get only two or three drops..
User :   but after very long duration with problem as well
Doctor :  
that is ejaculation
Doctor :  
do you have any problems in getting an erection?
Doctor :  
usually people who masturbate a lot tend to have this problem of erectile dysfunction and premature ejaculation
User :   yeah..doctor..you are right !
User :   its getting pain in my penis
User :   I lost my power when exactly i need...Please help !!
Doctor :  
ok
Doctor :  
i will need to ask you few more questions before arriving to a conclusion. shall i proceed?
User :   and suddenly it happened..one week before marriage it was okay..but just after marriage i realised everything gone...
User :   ok...please carry on
Doctor :  
do you have nigt time erections?
User :   No..Automatically it won't happen
User :   untill i masturbate
Doctor :  
do you have early morning erections?
Doctor :   when you wake up in morning, do you see your penis erect sometimes?
Doctor :  
if yes how often in a week?
User :   no doctor
Doctor :  
ok
Doctor :  
what was your age when you started masturbating?
User :   26
User :   now i am 28
User :   and three weeks back got married
User :   I feel this problem just after marriage
Doctor :  
how often in a week you used to masturbate?
User :   Thrice..sometimes daily at early days
Doctor :   ok
Doctor :  
what was the Current Frequency of masturbation before marriage?
User :   Almost daily when i used to talk with my wife in phone
Doctor :  
do you feel the sexual urge when you get close to your wife or do you feel hesitant due to the existing problem?
User :   but before one week nothing..
Doctor :   was it daily once or more than that?
User :   once
User :   at night when we used to talk
Doctor :  
if it exceeded more than 14 times a week, it could have resulted in the erection problem
Doctor :  
ok
Doctor :  
do you have foreplay or do you go for penetrative sex directly?
User :   i feel hesitant due to existing problem..
Doctor :   ok
User :   but to make my wife happy i used to do some normal sex
User :   no..not yet
Doctor :  
ok
Doctor :  
the problem lies in your thinking then..you need to get out of the feelings
Doctor :  
it is normal for mento face such problems in early married life
Doctor :  
do not be worried
User :   I am very strong with my mind doctor
Doctor :  
you wil be fine
User :   and i tried with my best..
User :   but not able to cure
Doctor :  
i suggest you to go for more of foreplay before indulging in penetrative sex, that will help you to satisfy your wife well.
Doctor :   also practice start and stop technique
Doctor :   that is once you have proper ercetionand do the penetrative sex, withold your control to ejaculate
Doctor :  
when you feel you are nearing the ejaculation, then stop for a while and go back to foreplay
Doctor :  
and then after few monemts or minutes, again go for penetrative sex
Doctor :  
it will increase your ejaculation time
User :   but...i used to judge with my older days is...
User :   its happening very fast...
User :   the ejacuation
User :   i cann't stop even i want
Doctor :  
if after practicing this, your ejaculation time is still less than 6 minutes of total intercourse time, starting from the time you get an erection
User :   please suggest
Doctor :   you need to meet a sexologist
Doctor :  
you have to have control, it comes with time and with practice
Doctor :  
i can sugest you a simple way of trying it again
Doctor :  
in simple terms..
User :   what is the average time of ejacuation
User :   Thx
Doctor :   it lies anywhere between 6 minutes to 30 minutes from the start of erection
Doctor :  
so going ahead with the tip
User :   and what are precaution i need to take while doing intercourse
Doctor :  
its like when you start having the erection time or measure it from 0-100%, with 100 being the time of ejaculation
User :   I am not aware with this...so please suggest
User :   sorry...if i am fast somewhere
Doctor :  
so when you reach the pleasure level of somewhere around 80%, stop the stimulation, be it manual or being inside the vagina
Doctor :   and go back to foreplay.
Doctor :  
also when you reach back to say 50-60% of pleasure
Doctor :  
go back to the penetrative sex again
Doctor :   this is time trusted and easy to follow
Doctor :  
and it has helped many men like you
Doctor :  
regarding precautions while having intercourse
User :   please
Doctor :  
if you are not planning for a child immediately, then go for contraceptive methods
User :   what is that ?
Doctor :  
like using condoms, or birth control pills more your wife which has to be taken daily without missing them
Doctor :  
have you followed what i have said uptil now?
Doctor :  
please get back to me in case you are having doubts
User :   yes..doctor..thx for that
Doctor :  
Is there any thing else I can help you with?
User :   yes doctor
User :   i am having so many things to ask cause of i am running with my married life
User :   my wife is suffered from thyroid
Doctor :   ok
Doctor :  
Please fill the feedback form, and comment box, say done when done while I answer your next query.
Doctor :  
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Doctor :  
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User :   sure..thx doctor
Doctor :  
when was that she suffered from thyroid? was it hypothyroid state or hyperthyroid state?
User :   i have given excellent for your ultimate response
Doctor :   is she on any medications now?
User :   yes..
Doctor :   thanks for your response Abhinav
User :   before two months of marriage
Doctor :  
ok
User :   what are the cause..she is very depressed that she won't get child..cause of one the doctor told her not to have intercourse atleast 3 months after marriage'
User :   we are in deep trouble doctore..please help
Doctor :  
it is nothing to do with that, she can enjoy normal sexual life
Doctor :  
regarding having a child
User :   ohh..Thx doctor
Doctor :  
her thyroid levels should be under control
Doctor :  
and also few other hormonnes needs to be tested'
Doctor :  
so see if the ovulation or egg relaese is happening fine
Doctor :  
if the test results come back normal then there will not be any problems with having child
User :   ok
User :   sounds good
User :   so can i have intercourse with condoms
User :   ?
Doctor :   so get these tests done before staring to plan pregnancy such that you can control the hormone levels
User :   sure doctor
Doctor :  
you can use condoms if you dont want a child now
Doctor :  
else get these tests done for her.
Doctor :   Blood tests including Hb, Tc, Dc, T3, T4, TSH, FSH, LH, Prolactin levels
User :   yes..i am aware with the previous details
Doctor :   and also get a ultrasound of abdomen and pelvis done

Doctor :   to see that the genital tract, uterus and ovaries are fine
User :   ok
User :   to penetrate what are the precautions i need to take..
Doctor :  
just make sure you d ample time for foreplay, such that our wife too enjoys having the intercourse before penetration
Doctor :  
penetration should be gentle and not to hurt or forceful
User :   sure..
User :   doctor one question which is taking my mind away
Doctor :  
also keep seeing the comfort level of your wife while having the intercourse in terms of force u you use to penetrate and have sex
Doctor :   please proceed with your query
User :   sure
User :   before marriage i used to masturbate while watching some movies..i can get easily..but now i cann't even after doing the same thing..
User :   so bit worried
User :   the semens quantity is not there at all now.
Doctor :  
it is just psychological
User :   but previously it was too much
Doctor :  
the semen amount can vary from 1 ml to 6.5 ml
User :   and now not getting organsm feeling as well which i used to get early days
Doctor :  
and it depends on the mental state and amount of pleasure yu get out of the sex
Doctor :   you will be fine

User :   haahhaah
User :   Thx for supporting me
Doctor :  
follow the suggestions
Doctor :  
and if not finding any difference
Doctor :  
in a months time
User :   how to improve doctor
User :   okay....
User :   do u have any medicine for that ?
Doctor :  
get your sugars, and blood pressure and cholesterol levels checked, sometimes, these too can affect
User :   okay
Doctor :   for your age just following what i have suggested is fine
Doctor :  
medications are given to those people who fail with these suggestions and have underlying diseases
Doctor :   also the medicines have their own side effects
Doctor :  
so it is better to avoid , that too at such young age.
User :   can u summarize the suggestion u said...if you don't mind...i will make a note of that
Doctor :  
have confidence in yourself, that you wil be able to perform well
Doctor :   you can get the chat history for yourself
Doctor :  
by going to the 'accounts and settings page'
Doctor :  
and cliking on 'chat history'
Doctor :  
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Doctor :  
and get all details of teh chat and discussions
Doctor :  
Is there any thing else I can help you with?
User :   okay
User :   one more query doctor
Doctor :   ok
Doctor :  
please proceed
User :   I am suffering from allergy too for last seven years
Doctor :  
ok
Doctor :  
what is it? has the allergen causing it confirmed?
User :   yes
Doctor :   could you describe your symptom in detail?
User :   i didn't check with doctor
Doctor :  
are you on any medications now?
User :   no
Doctor :  
was the allergen patch test done for you?
User :   nothing yet
Doctor :  
ok
Doctor :  
hen i suggest you to go for a allergen skin patch testing
User :   just getting citrizine tablet
Doctor :  
it will tell you what exactly you are allergic to
Doctor :  
and you can avoid it in future
User :   sure
Doctor :  
the test can be done in any skin clinic after consultation with the dermatologist
Doctor :  
is there any other query you want to ask?
User :   one min doctor
Doctor :  
sure
User :   i am getting patch mark in my whole body
Doctor :  
ok
User :   after getting allergic with something
Doctor :  
could you describe the patches? and the areas affected?
User :   in whole body doctor
Doctor :  
ok
User :   and its from last six years
Doctor :  
ok
User :   in between it was cured by homeopathy but again its disturbing me
Doctor :  
ok
User :   its like red patch in my whole body
Doctor :  
ok
User :   i used to get daily if i am not taking citrizine tablet
Doctor :  
ok
User :   hope i am not disturbing u a lot !
Doctor :  
could you describe the patch to me?
User :   small small pathc
Doctor :  
how does it look like?
User :   patch *
User :   red color
User :   and getting some different sense whenver it comes
Doctor :  
does it have papules or skin eruptions like rash? or is it uniformly red? is it raised from skin or at skin level?
Doctor :  
does it have dry scaly skin over it?
User :   its not uniformly red
User :   yes
Doctor :  
is it raised from skin or at skin level?
User :   didn't get
User :   sorry doctor
User :   what is that ?
Doctor :   does it involve the whole body or only some particular part of body?
User :   whole body
User :   but not uniformly
Doctor :  
is the patch at the skin level or it it raised a bit from the surrounding normal skin?
User :   in whole body....but at different place
User :   like in skin..leg,face..chest
User :   not in back side
Doctor :  
is the patch at the skin level or it it raised a bit from the surrounding normal skin?
Doctor :   have found the precipitating cause for it?
User :   i didn't get but realise that its coming whenver weather gets change
Doctor :   ok
Doctor :  
is it dry with scaly skin over it?
User :   yes
Doctor :  
or is it smooth?
User :   u r right
User :   dry with scaly skin
Doctor :  
i suggest you to go for a skin allergen patch testing first to see what is causing it such that you can avoid the causing factor in future.
Doctor :  
and also get a skin lesion test done
Doctor :  
where the part of it wil be tested to see what is happening
User :   any side effect of citrizine
Doctor :  
and get a 'wod's lamp' examonation done
User :   okay doctor i will do the test
Doctor :  
cetrizine will help you counteract it if it is allergic in nature
User :   this medicine is helping a lot
Doctor :  
ok
Doctor :  
then continue to take it, but it is recommended that you do the above mentioned tests
User :   whenever i am getting allergic , if i take this...the all pathces mark will go out in 20 mins
Doctor :  
so find the root cause and eliminate it
User :   sure
User :   sure doctor
Doctor :  
Is there any thing else I can help you with?
User :   i think , ur time is getting over
User :   thx for all your suggestion
User :   its reallly pleasure to chat with u
Doctor :   Please fill the feedback form once again, say done when done.
User :   doctor...can i have ur mobile no. please
User :   ?
User :   if you don
User :   t mind
Doctor :   we cannot give personal number to pateints
User :   given excellent again !1
Doctor :  
i am available online
Doctor :  
for live chat
User :   so whenver i will come for chat
User :   u will be there..
Doctor :  
thanks a lot Abhinav.
User :   or different doctor
Doctor :   yes you could ask for me
Doctor :  
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User :   your name please
Doctor :  
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User :   Abhinav Anand ...working in a software company TCS

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