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Duration for sexual satisfaction - Online Doctor Chats

Date : 21-Feb-2012
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User :   Hi, I got married 9 months back. ince then i had x with my wife regularly ( 3 to 4 times a week). I get satisfied with 1-2 mins, but my wife wants for more time. What should i do? My wife feels i am not liking her so i am not having sex with her properly. Can you please suggest what should i do?
Doctor :   HI
Doctor :   let me read
User :   Hi, I got married 9 months back. since then i had sex with my wife regularly ( 3 to 4 times a week). I get satisfied with 1-2 mins, but my wife wants for more time. What should i do? My wife feels i am not liking her so i am not having sex with her properly. Can you please suggest what should i do?
Doctor :   may i know the age of yours and your wife ?
User :   27 and my wifes age is 24
Doctor :   the average time of intraviganal sex is only 2.5 minutes in males and for the females it is for 13 minutes
Doctor :   so this difference is natural and normal
Doctor :   what i mean is men get satisfied in 2 to 3 minutes but women take 13 minutes
Doctor :   so only she is asking for more which normally cannot be provided by male
User :   ya, i understood that..
Doctor :   the solution is
Doctor :   indulge in the fore play for as long as possible and the act of sex when you notice that she is at the right time
Doctor :   for men sex is just intercourse but for female it is whole act of process and just not the intercourse itself
User :   can you please share some techniques of fore play
Doctor :   sorry this is not a medical question
User :   ok..
Doctor :   did you understood the real cause for the problem you are facing
User :   ya, i have to involve with her more time in satisfying her rather than having intercouse..
Doctor :   yes for female it is more of love affection and more indulgence emotionally will bring the satisfaction.
Doctor :   this is the sexual preference of females and for males it is only just the intercourse
User :   ya that is the reason why she complains that i dont love her, which i understood now..
User :   will make sure that u wil indulge emotionally more from next time..
Doctor :   that's right
User :   sorry my typo, i will indulge..
User :   thnx..
Doctor :   thanks for consulting health care magic
Doctor :   bye for now
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