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Difficulty in conception after repeated abortions - Online Doctor Chats

Date : 21-Feb-2012
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User :   Hello doctor,
I am 25 yeard old and married for 7 years now. I have had 3 abortions in these 7 years. First two were intentional since it was too early for us to have a baby. But the 3rd miscarriage was something which we dint want . When we actually planned for pregnancy last year, i concieved within two months. Every thing seemed very normal in my first few scans. But when i went for my 12th month scan, doctor told me that the development of my baby had stopped in the 9th month itself.Therefore we had to abort it .The mental trauma I underwent was horrible doctor. After that we gave a gap of about 9 months . Now since january 2011 we have started planning again and are trying to concieve. BUt, in vain . I dont know what to do doctor. Why am I not concieveing. Will suggest anything so that I could concieve faster? I am on folic acid tablets. Also on Fertyl tablet from 3rd to 7th day after periods. On some progesterone tablet too from 16th till 26th day after period. I dont remember the name of it. Both me and my husband are desperate for a baby . Please help us with some advise on how to go about it.I feel very depressed about it always.
User :   please let me know
Doctor :   You need to be patient
Doctor :   and be regular on intercourse
Doctor :   while on Fertyl, Folic acid and Progesterone pills
Doctor :   Continue from Day 9 to Day 20
User :   we have intercourse ..alternate days from 10th day till 16th day
User :   is that enuf
User :   alternate day is enuf?
Doctor :   Everyday is good
User :   or every other day
User :   ?
Doctor :   yes
User :   doctor one more thing.....
Doctor :   Ok continue it
User :   actually.... we lose interest in intercourse have everyday..... alternate days is still fine...
Doctor :   with alternate days
User :   I mean..shudnt we give some gap....
Doctor :   Remember if you lose interest intercourse that is not good for your relationship
Doctor :   Babies are born out of love and not out of planned activity
Doctor :   Do not try anything that can cause disharmoney in your relationship
Doctor :   Do not get stressed out
Doctor :   It is the last thing you should have when you are trying for a baby
User :   hmm...i understand that.... But, not that we dont love each other....
User :   but .... having injtercourse everyuday also does not give us pleasure..
Doctor :   You should know that your earlier abortions may not have anything to do with your current trials
Doctor :   So keep trying and do not lose hope
Doctor :   We have women having children at age 40
Doctor :   successfully
Doctor :   So you are too youngg
User :   yes doctor..thank you so much for your wordas
User :   bye doctor... thanks a ton for eveything
User :   sure doctor
User :   thank you
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