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Date : 13-Jan-2012
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Very Good Posted in: Depression
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Doctor :   Hi
Doctor :   Yes
Doctor :   Didnt you sleep?
User :   no i couldnt
User :   i wasnt sure you would be on
Doctor :   Ok
Doctor :   This is my last day in the evening shift
User :   oh ok
Doctor :   Ok
Doctor :   So tell me
User :   i wouldnt work for AAAAAAA many reasons why, im not the type
User :   thats all i could think because my head is pounding
Doctor :   Ok
Doctor :   Thats Ok
Doctor :   There is no need.
Doctor :   Why dont you take something for the headache?
User :   i have
Doctor :   Ok
Doctor :   Have you eaten anything?
User :   when ever i lay down it pounds what ever i do apart from sitting up
User :   my has been taken off the road :(
Doctor :   Ok
Doctor :   Ok
Doctor :   Thats probably because of the accident.
User :   yeah
Doctor :   Ok
Doctor :   So tell me, what do you generally feel strongly about?
User :   fashion
User :   thats all
User :   always have to have the lasest look
User :   ih and used to be singing as you know
Doctor :   Ok
Doctor :   And what else?
User :   i have a tatoo saying "never hate but always love" what a load of rubbish! i was drunk when i had it done!
Doctor :   Ok
User :   nothing else
Doctor :   Ok
Doctor :   Did you think about singing again?
User :   i couldnt think about it i stopped myself
Doctor :   Ok
Doctor :   Ok
Doctor :   Why so?
User :   did you have a nice few days off?
Doctor :   Yes.
User :   good
Doctor :   Was back since tuesday
User :   i would have come on but i was stuck in hospital
User :   should be today but discharged myself
Doctor :   Yes, I was wondering
User :   wondering what?
Doctor :   Why you didnt come online
User :   i shouldnt be on now should still be in hospital
User :   got fed up with the questions
Doctor :   Ok
Doctor :   I hope you are taking care of yourself
User :   im still alive so i guess im doing somthing wrong
Doctor :   No
User :   i've been told to rest
User :   but its boring
Doctor :   Ok
Doctor :   Try and sing
Doctor :   Since You have a lot of free time.
User :   your very persuaive!
Doctor :   Thanks
Doctor :   I take that as a compliment.
User :   yeah it was
Doctor :   So tell me, will you be going to Turkey after you are healed.
User :   no i dont think so
User :   i lost my money now so no point
Doctor :   Ok
Doctor :   Thats bad.
Doctor :   So which bone was fractured.
User :   lower left arm
Doctor :   Ok
Doctor :   And the head injury? Was that serious?
Doctor :   was there a fracture?
User :   no just got knocked out for a bit
Doctor :   ok
Doctor :   You will heal quickly nothing to worry then
Doctor :   May be once you are healed, you can think of something to do.
User :   i hope so dont want this headache for much longer
Doctor :   Ok
Doctor :   I want you to seriously think about starting singing.
Doctor :   From now on.
User :   singing was in the past though
Doctor :   You need to think about starting to build up your life once again.
Doctor :   As you are interested in Fashion and you have the money, why dont you join a Fashion designing course?
Doctor :   That is a very interesting profession.
User :   what fashion?
User :   what do you mean by building my life back up
User :   i just cant think like that
Doctor :   Ok
Doctor :   You feel that your life does not have a direction, you told me that yourself. What I am trying to say is, have you thought about finding a direction?
User :   i've thought about it i've tried i just go back to square 1 all the time
Doctor :   Ok
Doctor :   I now want you to seriously think about
User :   my sarm is starting to hurt now, if i rest much longer im going to die
User :   so boring
Doctor :   Ok
User :   i've tried directions telling myself im not goin g to do that im going to do that and i always go with the bad chioce
User :   i dont know what tyo do half the time, i know my life is a mess
Doctor :   Ok
Doctor :   Thats why think about the Fashion course
User :   i cant go to college and do a cose, i would feel like im back to school!
Doctor :   I feel that ypu should seriously try to make the first step to get out of your current situation
Doctor :   Whats wrong in going to a college? College is nothing like school
User :   well i cant drink for days im on pain killers not like there working though
Doctor :   Yes
Doctor :   I suggest that you look online for some good courses
User :   the nearest college to me in 0 miles away with no car i cant go
Doctor :   Believe me, the first step is difficult but if you try, the rest wont be so hard
Doctor :   Ok
Doctor :   Take a bus. If you really want to study and do this distance shouldnt be a problem.
User :   i just read what i wrote its 10 miles away
Doctor :   yES
Doctor :   I understood
User :   public transport i havent been on a bus for 3 years
Doctor :   There is always a first time.
User :   tyou always have an answer!
Doctor :   I never traveled in a bus all my life till I had to work
Doctor :   Then it was pathetic the first time.
Doctor :   But I had to do it so I just stuck on.
Doctor :   I get confused even now.
Doctor :   But I still manage at least to reach my destination.
Doctor :   If I can travel in a bus, anyone can.
User :   buses cost money, i have money but i aint wasting it on buses
Doctor :   So does the gas for a car.
User :   i just cant remeber that friday night, i must have been so drunk
Doctor :   Have they taken your license away?
User :   its cheaper though
Doctor :   Ok
User :   yeah for 6 months
User :   and 600 pound fine
User :   im broke for the next couple weeks
Doctor :   Ok
Doctor :   Thats bad.
Doctor :   May be you can start driving after 6 months and till then try to manage on the buses
User :   college aint my thing, working from home is more me
Doctor :   Ok
User :   you must think im fussy!
Doctor :   No
User :   with all my problems, you deserve a medal for your job
Doctor :   It is just individual preference
Doctor :   Not at all
Doctor :   This is my job. There are several people with worse problems
Doctor :   You are very lucky.
User :   am i
Doctor :   Yes
User :   i dont feel lucky
Doctor :   You are a normal person just going through a bad phase
User :   i guess, getting drunk hoping to end my life
User :   im going to go for a bit sort my head out be back on in a bit if its ok
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