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Depression due to death of family member - Online Doctor Chats

Date : 13-Jan-2012
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Doctor :   Hi
Doctor :   How are you feeling today?
User :   not to good got a letter from a brother, mum died 2 weeks ago
Doctor :   Ok.
Doctor :   Whose Mum?
User :   mine
Doctor :   Ok
Doctor :   I am sorry
Doctor :   Are you all right?
User :   not really i gather family aint really bother bout me any more
User :   2 weeks ago she died didnt even go to funeral
Doctor :   Ok.
User :   im sober by the way just for the moment any way
Doctor :   Good
Doctor :   I am glad you took my advice.
Doctor :   Tell me more about yourself
User :   like what?
User :   i havent seen my mum for about 4 years
Doctor :   Ok
User :   i am gasping for a vodka and orange
Doctor :   No. I mean more about you. Your schooling, family
User :   well as you no family aint nothing to do with me anymore
Doctor :   Ok
Doctor :   Tell me about the old times
Doctor :   about school
User :   i dont want to go there
User :   not today of all days
Doctor :   Ok
Doctor :   Then tell me anything you wish to talk about. Absolutely anything
User :   i thought you wanted me to be sober so you no i wasnt joking about taking pills im not not now
Doctor :   Ok
Doctor :   Why do you want to take the pills?
User :   i havent got anything to live for really
Doctor :   Ok
Doctor :   Tell me about your uncle.
User :   i cant go there to upset
Doctor :   You should talk about that one day or the other.
Doctor :   Tell me about the good times
User :   im sober i cant
Doctor :   Just give it a try.
Doctor :   Tell me what work was he in?
User :   he was a singer
User :   not very popular
Doctor :   Ok.
Doctor :   Did he write his own songs?
User :   some yeah
Doctor :   Ok
Doctor :   What did he write about?
User :   his life i gather and his wife
Doctor :   Ok.
Doctor :   What were your subjects in college?
User :   i did catering but failed
User :   had to much on my mind
Doctor :   Ok.
Doctor :   So, do you like cooking?
User :   not now i dont cook hardly eat anyway
Doctor :   Ok
Doctor :   But you liked it once
User :   i guess
Doctor :   tell me what did you like best about cooking?
User :   dont no my brain has stoped working
Doctor :   Think about it.
Doctor :   So were you cooking previously?
Doctor :   before all this has started?
User :   i really dont know
Doctor :   Remember
Doctor :   Try to remember
Doctor :   what did you usually cook?
User :   i dont really want to talk about food
Doctor :   Ok
Doctor :   So tell me have you ever thought of going back to catering and cooking?
User :   no
Doctor :   It is a very interesting and challenging profession
User :   very boring now
Doctor :   Ok
User :   paid hardly anything
Doctor :   Ok
User :   i really need to cleare my head
Doctor :   Have you ever tried taking cooking classes, the exotic type?
User :   i did work in a exotic restraunt
Doctor :   Ok
Doctor :   How was it like?
User :   it was alrite
User :   i need a drink im dieing!
Doctor :   No you wont die
Doctor :   you said yourself that you are not addicted.
User :   i said i dont know
Doctor :   Tell me, if it was alright, why did you quit?
User :   uncle died
User :   couldnt cope
Doctor :   Ok
Doctor :   Have you considered going back to it?
Doctor :   You did like the job didnt you?
User :   no i cant
Doctor :   Ok
Doctor :   Why not?
Doctor :   Ok
Doctor :   Did you sing too?
User :   failed nvq failed life failier
User :   i did a bit
Doctor :   Ok
Doctor :   Do you think everyone wins?
Doctor :   Why do you think you are alone in failing?
User :   no im one of them
Doctor :   So?
Doctor :   Why should that matter?
User :   i have to clear my head im goning out be back in a bit
Doctor :   Everyone fails
Doctor :   what is the big deal?
Doctor :   Ok
User :   can i have a drink or do you still want me sober
Doctor :   I guess you can have a drink now
Doctor :   Thanks for coming to me sober.
User :   r u sure?
User :   ok in a bit talk soon
Doctor :   Yes
Doctor :   Take a beer
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