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Cures for negative thinking - Online Doctor Chats

Date : 13-Jan-2012
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User :   hi
Doctor :   hi
Doctor :  
how can i help you
User :   i have a query but this is not disease problem
Doctor :  
ok
Doctor :  
Kindly proceed with your query
User :   this is basically psychological problem
User :   can i ask
Doctor :   ok
User :   i havenegitive thinking about myself
Doctor :  
ok
User :   i feel that every one is beautiful except me
Doctor :  
provide your age, gender, occupation
User :   23
User :   female
Doctor :  
ok
User :   service
Doctor :  
ok
User :   so what is to be done
Doctor :  
why do you have this complexity?
User :   i gets nervous very early
Doctor :  
See the beauty lies in the eye of the beholder
User :   no ieveryone says me tht i look gud but i dont believe anyone
Doctor :  
And also apart from the physical beauty the qualities in your self is what it matters for a long time
Doctor :  
how you feel if you look in the mirror
User :   dont know
Doctor :   i mean do you have good personality, good skin any thing like that

User :   i also have the lack of confidence problem
Doctor :  
like
User :   people says this
Doctor :   like
User :   as i told u earlier i gets nervous very early i dont have guts boss you are wrong
Doctor :  
can you give some example
User :   like i have pimples on my face
Doctor :   ok

User :   and my weight is 60
Doctor :  
It is quite common to have pimples on your face at this age
Doctor :  
which will disappear on its own
User :   actually i wanted to have that kind of personality tht everyone notice
Doctor :  
it is with in you which you are not recognizing it
Doctor :  
The personality should be made by you
User :   means
User :   how
Doctor :  
every one will not have this frombirth
Doctor :  
i tis the personality that we make our a period of time
User :   so what is to be done
Doctor :   what is your qualification
User :   i am MBA
Doctor :  
ok
Doctor :  
that is good
User :   so
Doctor :  
what about your way of speaking to others?
User :   dont know
User :   there i lack of confidence in my voice
Doctor :  
The personality of an individual depends on the way you speak, the way you present yourself in front of others
User :   i know
Doctor :   what can i suggest you that there are various classes for the personality development
User :   please tell
Doctor :  
some times the training willl be given by the companies itself
User :   ok
User :   but i want to improve myself through my efforts
Doctor :  
you can join these classes so that they will train you
User :   except that
Doctor :  
you can also buy some books to study and follow this
User :   ok
Doctor :  
you also can buy book son communication skills
User :   i m trying to improve my skill\
Doctor :  
ok
User :   what my problem is i am having negitive thinking about me
Doctor :   ya

Doctor :  
you need to convert it in to positive attitudes
Doctor :   you can go to these training modules

Doctor :  
so that they will help you to develop the positive direction
Doctor :   are you there
Doctor :  
are you there
Doctor :  
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