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Counselling for adjustment problem and aggressive behavior - Online Doctor Chats

Date : 13-Jan-2012
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Doctor :   hi
Doctor :   how can i help you
User :   hiiiiiiii
Doctor :   good morning
Doctor :   please go ahead with ur medical query
User :   i ahave a problem related to Psychiatric
Doctor :   ok
User :   that is with my sister
Doctor :   For Administrative and health purposes, Please provide these details of the patient-Age: Gender: Occupation: Location: Marital Status: Weight and Height: Dependents: Yes/ No
User :   ok
Doctor :   ok
Doctor :   could u specify the medical problem ur sister has
Doctor :   ok
User :   she is soding pharmacy 4th yr
User :   she feel evreything in a negative way
Doctor :   studying pharmacy isit
Doctor :   ok
Doctor :   since how long she is having this problem?
User :   once my mom scolded her....... and now she stops talking with her from 2 years
Doctor :   how long u have noticing this change
Doctor :   ok
User :   from 2 years
User :   if anyone scolds her she stops talking with them.
Doctor :   ok
Doctor :   how is she in the studies?
User :   she feels that my mom doesnt like her
User :   she is gud at studies
User :   she gets 74% in her acads
Doctor :   ok
Doctor :   how old is she
User :   she is now 21
Doctor :   does she gets angry very soon and suspicious of what people talk?
User :   yes
Doctor :   anytime have u consult for this problem
User :   no
Doctor :   this is more of adjustment problem
Doctor :   it can be resolved
Doctor :   talk to her
Doctor :   ask her if she is not feeling comfortable any way
User :   daily il talk to her..........
Doctor :   or anything bothers her
Doctor :   communication is key
User :   no
Doctor :   dont leave her alone
Doctor :   does she talk well to you
User :   my mom requests and talks to her......but she doesnt talk
Doctor :   teens and young adult have rebellious attitude
Doctor :   need to handle them with care
User :   she talks with evreyone happliy
Doctor :   ok
User :   coimg to my mom she doesnt talk
Doctor :   is she like this from the childhood days or something
Doctor :   u noticed this recently
User :   no from last 2 years.....
User :   from childhood she is very gud........all used to admire her
Doctor :   this is more of adjustment problem with family members
Doctor :   when children feel threathened
Doctor :   they react to the situation
Doctor :   r u able to follow
User :   yes
Doctor :   it is upto to u guys to handle them with care
Doctor :   are you there
User :   how can we
Doctor :   listen
Doctor :   to what she says
Doctor :   try to make her understand what she is doing is not right
Doctor :   dont straight away take her to counsellor
Doctor :   she might get hurt
Doctor :   tell ur mother to be little bit more considerate when she talks to you sister
Doctor :   if the problem persists
Doctor :   u can talk to counselor
Doctor :   at this tender age childrens mind is delicate
User :   she is....she takes care of her.........but what ever she does my sis takes in negative way
Doctor :   where are u located
Doctor :   u can take her to counsellor
User :   warangal
Doctor :   please dont give it a name a s psychiatric problem
Doctor :   it will hurt
User :   okkkk
Doctor :   we are based in bangalore as of now
Doctor :   we will coming to hyd shortly
User :   ok
Doctor :   i would suggest u to consult a counselor
Doctor :   if the problem persists
User :   ok
Doctor :   ok
User :   is that only solution
Doctor :   problem is not that worse
Doctor :   it needs to be handle very tactitfully
User :   but i and dad gets hurted everyday
Doctor :   i can understand
User :   how should i handle this
Doctor :   try to stay calm
Doctor :   defuse the situation
Doctor :   dont tell anything which aggravate
Doctor :   dont try to challenge her any where
Doctor :   she will be ok in few days time
Doctor :   r u able to follow
Doctor :   let her cool down if she is upset
User :   should hope
Doctor :   in these situation
Doctor :   best possible thing to do is to listen to what she has to say
Doctor :   let her speak
User :   she is not speaking
Doctor :   not to make her agitated anyway
Doctor :   let be herself, if she is upset
Doctor :   she will talk to you people when she feels like
Doctor :   ok
Doctor :   anything else i can help you with
Doctor :   Thanks for consulting Health care magic. Bye for now. Please refer your friends to our service.
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