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Date : 21-Feb-2012
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Very Good Posted in: Men Sexual Problems
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User :   hi
i,m staying in XXXX and recently got married.
i cant find pleasure in sex and love with my wife. kindly recommend me a sexologist in XXXXr XXXX
Doctor :   Hi
User :   hi sir
Doctor :   Dr XXXXhere
Doctor :   give me a few minutes to find a doctor for u
Doctor :   in the meanwhile can i Get more info about your issues ?
User :   yes sir sure
User :   sir i do not find pleasure and suffers from ED frequently
Doctor :   do u have any issues like performance anxiety ?
User :   i used to get errection earlier but once i failed to do sex now i do not get even the slighest errection
User :   not very much but only a little
Doctor :   are u able to get good erections via masturbation ?
User :   no
Doctor :   u mean, that u cant get good erections via masturbation ?
User :   thats right.
Doctor :   may i know ur age ?
User :   30 yrs sir
Doctor :   and how long have u been married ?
User :   1 month
Doctor :   do u have issues like premature ejaculation ?
User :   yes sir, whatsoever errection i get i usually suffer from premature ejaculation
Doctor :   ok
User :   can i tell you my story in detail sir?
Doctor :   yes definitely
Doctor :   Dr XXXX
User :   sir, i was in a habbit of masturbation since childhood
User :   i used to get satisfactory errection but my method of masturbating was somewhat different
User :   i used to lay down and with only minor errection i used to ejaculate.
Doctor :   ok
User :   but since marriage i used to get good errection sometimes or the other
User :   immediately after marriage i had some sensations and a bit of anxiety about sex
Doctor :   ok
User :   but once i failed i had sevre pain in my testis and after that i got no errection at all.
User :   when i used to talk to my fiancee on phone i used to get complete and stiff errection
User :   but when she came closer i never got such errection
User :   i used to wake up with complete erection before marriage but now i do not find errection after waking up
User :   thats all sir
Doctor :   see here, what u have is very common and could be due to performance anziety
User :   sir
Doctor :   what u need is stimuation from your wife
Doctor :   sexually and emotionally
User :   sir
Doctor :   this is a good sexologist in XXXX
Doctor :   Dr XXXX
User :   sir
Doctor :   a session of counselling and education will be helpful
User :   sir
Doctor :   also a physical examination will get us info on whether, u have any injury of the scrotom or penis as well
User :   sir
Doctor :   Do u have any other query ?
User :   you said it is very common.
Doctor :   for your help i will send you a email with added info as well
User :   thank you sir
Doctor :   yes post marriage, many men, have issues regarding sex, and premature ejaculation, as well as low penile erections
Doctor :   70 % men have this issue
User :   right sir
Doctor :   But relaxed approach to sex, a good amount of foreplay, as well as proper stimulation by the partner
User :   sir
Doctor :   educate your wife using sexually educative movies , how to stimulate you, so that u can connect to each other
User :   sir
Doctor :   as well , try to get physically and emotionally connected to her e
Doctor :   talk to her and know what are her like and dislikes
User :   sir
Doctor :   also oral stimulation will help you gain more confidence and have a good sex life
Doctor :   you can see the sexologist that i have given info about
User :   right sir
Doctor :   and he will definitely help you out
User :   thankyou sir
Doctor :   Do u have any other query ?
Doctor :   u r welcome
User :   thank you very much sir
Doctor :   please leave ur feedback as u log out,
User :   bye sir
Doctor :   take care
Doctor :   bye for now
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