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Date : 21-Feb-2012
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Very Good Posted in: Erectile Dysfunction
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User :   ED Problems
User :   Hi
Doctor :   Hi
Doctor :   I am Dr.
User :   Hi Dr.
Doctor :   How old are you? Are you married? How lng do you have this problem?
User :   I am a newly married person.. just 5 months and am facing ED?
User :   just about las one month
User :   the problem is a little different
User :   I am able to mastrubate... but not able to do with wife
User :   any help
User :   ?
Doctor :   Wait plz
User :   please what
Doctor :   So when masturabte you get erections
User :   yes I do
Doctor :   Is that right?
Doctor :   ARe you not getting erections et all ot getting erections but it is not stiff enough to penetrate in vagina
User :   I get errections.. but like in a minutes time it just becomes back
Doctor :   u mean stiffness goes
User :   yes
Doctor :   So ever since u married u have the problem?
User :   no... we started with a very good sex life
Doctor :   ok
User :   but my wife is a little temporamental
Doctor :   ok
User :   she does not like having sex much
Doctor :   ok
User :   in fact this is last in her mind
Doctor :   so what is effecting ur erections from her side
User :   she does not like light also neither any other time other than before going to sleep
Doctor :   U r not getting enough cocoperation
Doctor :   OK
User :   yes.. also we kind of fight a lot... I guessed that it could be emotional
User :   but do not have a solution
User :   is there any medication that can help us
Doctor :   solutions for fight?
User :   no
Doctor :   Solution for ED?
User :   at least when she does want to have sex, that time I could perform
Doctor :   Dear
Doctor :   I will tell u philosophy behind happy sex
Doctor :   It is not as need basis
Doctor :   it is not when ever she need
Doctor :   I want to be liitle broder
Doctor :   first u had wonderful sex
Doctor :   now u r not able to do
Doctor :   DO u know why?
User :   may be being repetetive.. I am really not sure
Doctor :   She is not interested in sex
Doctor :   she might be not cooprataive
Doctor :   You might not doing enough fore play
Doctor :   She might not getting arousAL
User :   she does not let me
Doctor :   You might not getting arousal
Doctor :   She does not let u do foire play
User :   she directly comes on to having sex
Doctor :   That does not work
User :   other than that she does not like me touching
Doctor :   U and ur penis is not ready made
Doctor :   You need mentalstimulation
Doctor :   Sex is powerful stimulation
User :   I know this lacks
Doctor :   You need lot of physical stimulation
User :   that is why I wanted to talk to doctor
Doctor :   Visual stimulation
Doctor :   See in light and dark
User :   if there is something more medical that can help
Doctor :   Tactile stimulation
Doctor :   stimulate the clitoris with hand
Doctor :   Perform Oral Sex
Doctor :   She has to stimularte ur genitalia
Doctor :   and u have to stimulate u her gentalia
Doctor :   then only both get arousal which leads to erections
Doctor :   The problem lies here
Doctor :   So sit down and discuss with her
Doctor :   Why she is not interested in sex
Doctor :   ?
Doctor :   Does she love u ?
User :   it is her way of being brought up
User :   yes, very much, in fact it is a love marriage
Doctor :   What is ur age and her age?
User :   but you would not believe that before marriage she used to believe that kissing can get pregnancy
User :   we are both 30 now
Doctor :   ok
Doctor :   She has very less less knowledge abt sex
User :   she still feels sex is only to get pregnant
Doctor :   Then teach her
Doctor :   Tell her it is sharing the life
User :   she feels oral sex is a very dirty thing and fought with me when I tried explaining
Doctor :   tell her it is the ultimate thing a man can enjoy
Doctor :   Rquest her at least do for u
Doctor :   Neatly shave some girls do not like hair when they do oral sex
User :   ok, I just want to know one thing. I understand what you are telling, but just wanted to know if that is something that you can prescribe that can lead to some immediate errection
Doctor :   There are different medicines
Doctor :   Tab Confide one tab 1 hr before intercourse
Doctor :   This is very good product (herbal) and works great
User :   available in
Doctor :   Yes
User :   Thank you so much
Doctor :   I want to teach some tips
User :   sure
Doctor :   to make her more interesting
Doctor :   Show the films /DVDs
User :   I got some from friends, she broke them all
Doctor :   Take her out and romance out side and then express the desire to have sex
Doctor :   the she will feel why sex is required
Doctor :   Take her to the Sexologist
Doctor :   You get counselling
User :   I understand
Doctor :   With out cooperation it is difficulty to have perfect sex
Doctor :   You can get the Blood testosterone test
Doctor :   if it is low consult MD
Doctor :   He will give u testosterone patch /oral
Doctor :   some times low testosterone also leads toED
User :   ok
Doctor :   But u had good erections
Doctor :   So this may not be the possibility
Doctor :   but if u want to get it doen u can
User :   sure... will try the understanding thing first
User :   Thanks for the time
Doctor :   No problem
Doctor :   Thank you for consutling
Doctor :   I wish you have wonderful sexual life
User :   Thanks
Doctor :   Bye
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