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Date : 21-Feb-2012
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User :   Hello Docotor
I'm a 38Yr old XXX. I'm getting married to a 36yr old girl in October. My query is, I used to mastrubate and ejaculate twice a week or so. i'm very very sex lover. Watch porn movies a lot. My question is, I feel my penni size when excited has reduced over a period and I get tired after mastrubation. It may be just 4 to 5 inch when excited. I'm worried that with this small penni can I satisfy my partner, can I have a good sex(which I like a lot) and have kids?. My confidence is going low. Please suggest some tips so that at least in another 3 months to marriage I can gain confidence and have good sex. Thanks a lot in advance.
Doctor :   Hi
Doctor :   I am Dr. XXX
User :   Hello Doctor
Doctor :   Let me read the query
User :   sure
Doctor :   Give me a couple of minutes
Doctor :   Hi
Doctor :   I have gone through it
User :   ok
Doctor :   Let me assure you, masturbation does not reduce one's sex power nor reduce the size of the penis
Doctor :   4 to 5 inches of erection is a good size to satisfy any partner
Doctor :   The degree of satisfaction during sex does not come with the size of penis, it more emotional
Doctor :   How intensely you love your wife and connect to her emotions, her desires, able to know what she wants and doing it
Doctor :   So communication is important
Doctor :   Not the length
Doctor :   Women's physical stimulation centre is superficially placed 'G Spot' and even a 3 inch penis can reach it and stimulate the area
Doctor :   Please stop watching the porn movies, as the people who participate in there are from different
Doctor :   chosen
User :   oh ok!. your last line was what I was interested in...meaning I was concerned if i can reach G spot. Your answer gives me great confidence...
Doctor :   Do not assume that every one size should be that large
Doctor :   I hope these answers the questions
User :   watching porn has become my daliy habit sir, what will happen if I watch? how it impacts?
Doctor :   You presume that the size and the experience would be the same in real time
Doctor :   which is not possible
User :   oh ok it....that i can probably understand the reality..
Doctor :   and you lose confidence in your sexual
Doctor :   So porn is not real, it is virtual
User :   In fact I was thinking(may too bad thinking) watching porn while having sex with my partner will help....will it be a bad thing to do?
Doctor :   Remember your sexual life is for togetherness, there is no motive, no profits in your marital journey
Doctor :   In porn movies, there is a motive, it is money and entertainment
Doctor :   It is definitely not advised
User :   ok. I alos ejaculate cna i stop this?
Doctor :   That is by experience\
Doctor :   There is no medicine to delay it in reality
User :   oh ok. FInally, do you suggest some best diet so that I can become bit fit in another 3 months?. like dry fruits, milk or meat etc?
Doctor :   So you know them already
Doctor :   You have the list
User :   oh ok :)
Doctor :   Green leafy vegetables, nuts, non fried meet
Doctor :   More fibre
Doctor :   Non yolk egg
User :   meaning white part of egg?
Doctor :   yes
User :   good
User :   Sir one more thing, by mastrubating, does my resistance power reduce?. I get cold, cough very frequently
Doctor :   No
Doctor :   It not related
User :   ok. I hope at this late age of marriage that is 38 me and 36 she, we cna still have baby?. or is it less chance?
Doctor :   Chances reduce after 35, but you can still have a baby if you start planning immediately
User :   oh
User :   I need to convince her then after marriage...
Doctor :   sure
User :   I usually dont mastrubate holding the penni in my hand, but just rubbing it from outside the cloth...hope it is ok?
Doctor :   yeah
User :   ok. Thanks a lot doctor. I pray god that I will have successfull married life with a baby. That is my whole worry.
User :   I feel very bad If i cant have baby
Doctor :   You will have a baby
Doctor :   Try to make the marriage relationship meaningful
Doctor :   Encourage each other for successful sexual life, your love shall
Doctor :   me the investment for a baby
User :   sure Doctor. I appreciate your help. Thanks a lot. So I no need to consult a doctor physically, right?
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