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Chaffed penis post excessive sexual intercourse - Online Doctor Chats

Date : 21-Feb-2012
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User :   My new husband and I have been having sex three to four times a day for the last two weeks and he now appears to have a chafed penis. It is red, the skin appears cracked and it hurts him. We have applied vaseline and neosporin to give him some relief. What else can we do and how long will it take to clear up? What other over the counter drugs will help?
Doctor :   Hi
Doctor :   Dr XXX here
User :   hello, nice to meet you
Doctor :   let me go through your query?
Doctor :   same here
User :   thank you
Doctor :   ok
Doctor :   this is very common in passionate newly married couples
Doctor :   lack of proper lubrication during sex is the most common reason for this
User :   my husband is very embarrased by this and willnot go to the doctor in person. Yes we are very passionate
Doctor :   i understand
Doctor :   the best thing, to do here is to avoid penetrative sex for a day or two,
User :   so even though I am very wet, do yousuggest that we use lubricants during our love making sessions?
Doctor :   or to do it with using good lubricants like KY Jelly
Doctor :   yes, even though, you may have enough lubrication, since he is ahving such issues, use KY jelly as long as he has the current issues
User :   How do I expalin to my passionate husband (who wants sex all the time -no complaints from me lol) to not engage in intercourse for a few days? He wants oral and that causes as many problems--
Doctor :   oral sex, can also damage the sensitive skin more, if its rough
Doctor :   But if he can tolerate it and its not bothering him to have sex, you dont have to worry
User :   will he/we build up a tolerance over time?
Doctor :   if he has pain or discomfort while sex, he will reduce it himself
Doctor :   yes, he will
Doctor :   if he does not feel pain and its just a red appearance and he does not have any pain, or discomfort , then you can go ahead and have sex as usual
User :   since I have you chatting with me--why do I not have orgasmisms the way I used to? is it just too much sex and not enough time for the body to rekindle itself?
Doctor :   yes
User :   My first husband never wanted sex but once a month--this husband wants it all the time and I am eager to catch up!
Doctor :   sex, all the time can lead to the body getting into a tired phase (spent up phase) , so usually men can not get orgasms repeatedly
Doctor :   over time , you will learn to have orgasms, a
Doctor :   and dont try to compare both of them
Doctor :   probably the technique or the position, of sex will matter to have an orgasm
User :   great advice! My husband is having multiple orgasms everytime we engage with each other. He is extremely sexual. Can any over the counter creams (A&D, desitin, neosporin) help? We are very clean about our bodies
Doctor :   dont use any neosporin, since he does not have any infections
Doctor :   just adequate lubrication will help
User :   that is really good to know. You said a few days of non-contact will help, can we expect this to reoccur even if we use lubricants.
Doctor :   probably yes, if the techniques are wrong and u engage in passionate sex, more often
Doctor :   but adequte lubrication, will help and not cause more issues
Doctor :   and the problem will go away by itself
Doctor :   But if your husband is not complaining, then u just dont worry and just enjoy being married
Doctor :   are u there ?
User :   one last question. My husband has a pimple just under the rim of his penis. It looks like a white head and has a small hard core to it. It looks as if it were a grain of sand that got trapped under the skin. He wont open it. Any thoughts? It just appeared while we were having our many sessions of sex.
User :   I will ertainly enjoy being married. Thanks!
Doctor :   has it been there since a long time ?
User :   no just a couple of days. Started with the irritation.
Doctor :   if so, no need to worry
Doctor :   its just hyperpigmentation, and will go away by itself
User :   good to know. he was getting worried about it. you can see who had to ask all the questions
Doctor :   post minor injury, there can be a bit of fibrosis, which will heal by itself
Doctor :   yes i do
Doctor :   men, are hesitant to ask for help in some dept
Doctor :   unless, its too severe and is affecting too much
User :   i guess once you have had a child and bore everything to the world, asking questions seems really easy...
Doctor :   yes
Doctor :   you get to know, that u need help sometime
Doctor :   and u need to ask when needed
User :   I do not have any other questions for you. you have been very gracious and helpful. I appreciate it greatly. this is a great service
Doctor :   thanks
Doctor :   you are welcome
User :   do I just sign off now
Doctor :   yes, if you dont have any other questions,. but please remember to leave your feedback as u log out
User :   I will. Have a great day and thanks again. I will be enjoying my new marriage to the fullest extent possible!!
Doctor :   good
Doctor :   take care and bye for now
Doctor :   have a good day
User :   bye
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