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Cause of pain in the vagina on oral sex - Online Doctor Chats

Date : 21-Feb-2012
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User :   hi,....my girlfriend n me do sex. however most of the time its restricted to foreplay. We do perform oral actions. she is very kind n helps with every possible way.....often i try to give her a great level of comfort....she wants orgasm n i do my best.....although i do not enter penis into her however i do finger her....also lick her deep. bt after some time she can t take it anymore as she start s to feel little pain n her vagina starts burning.....n thus she never reaches orgasm please suggest if she any disease
Doctor :   hi
Doctor :   Dr. XXXXXXXX here.
User :   HiXXX...
Doctor :   let me read what you have typed.
User :   sure...
Doctor :   she needs to be examined by a gynecologist to see if there is any infection associated
Doctor :   with fingering, if the vagina gets dry, then also she will have pain
Doctor :   lubrication is essential to avoid pain
User :   ok....she also complains that....at the time of her period she feels huge pain in her ab domain.....so do you think we must consult a doctor immediately...
Doctor :   orgasm in women sometimes can be difficult and can happen only with vaginal intercourse in few women (if there are no issues with infection)
Doctor :   the pain during periods if intolerable, it should eb investigated further
Doctor :   if the pain continues to be there during intercourse or fingering, it could signal serous problems.
User :   ok i will get her to a doctr immediately.....
Doctor :   she has to report to her gynecologist and get blood tests to check hormone levels and pelvic ultrasound done along with a detailed examination.
Doctor :   have you followed what I have said?
User :   yeah sure doc..i understand....doc can i ask u some further question...
Doctor :   yes, please proceed
Doctor :   are you there?
User :   thnks....u know doc i work in night shifts....and i remain very stressed and tensed due to my work..i always get the nightmares of loosing my job...this has causd my blood pressure increased...its now 95- 135...
Doctor :   stress is known to elevate BP
Doctor :   why are you afraid of loosing job?
User :   i have also put on some weights....i am 6kg overweight...i do smoke at times and drink very rare...
User :   due to recession....our company has been affected big times...
Doctor :   smoking, alcohol, stress, all are known to cause rise in blood pressure.
Doctor :   but recession is already over now, so why do you worry?
Doctor :   if you are not comfortable in present job, look for options
Doctor :   and move on.
User :   yeah..bt still they are laying off...
Doctor :   stress needs to be managed well, practice stress relieving techniques like spending time with friends, playing your favorite game, listening to music, going for walks.
Doctor :   if all these do not help, then take professional help, get counseling done,and if needed, you will be prescribed medications to be relaxed.
User :   doc i afraid...as i already got BP problem....so will i remain for ever..i m just 25years old..n i do not want to take pills...
Doctor :   your BP problem could be purely stress related.
Doctor :   get a thorough work up done and avoid stress
Doctor :   get a BP monitoring done with readings recorded over a time of 2 weeks daily
Doctor :   see for fluctuations in BP and correlate with stress or stressful situations
User :   ok...if i do so then will it back to normal without any pill
Doctor :   most importantly before the company lays you off, look for another job, and shift, it will give you relaxation and a change
Doctor :   if it is purely stress related, it should get back to normal aith avoiding stress
User :   yeah sure doc.....what is the normal BP?
Doctor :   if it is hereditary, then you cannot do much, one day it will come back to you even it gets back to normal
Doctor :   normal BP for your age should not be more than 120/85
User :   ok...doc i do not get to sleep at nights...so will that cause my BP high..
Doctor :   yes it wil cause a rise as it is a form of stress to your body. you should get 6-8 hours of good continuos sleep
Doctor :   and maintain a balanced diet
Doctor :   with no extra salt or sugar or oil
User :   ok..
Doctor :   is there anything else I can help you with?
User :   doc should i join a gym?? with a increased BP can i work out??
Doctor :   no. it is not advisable. it should be controlled first, and then slow exercises and workout should be started to avoid complications
User :   ok....sure....thanks so much doc....it was great talking with u..
Doctor :   ok. Thanks for consulting me. Bye for now.
User :   bye...
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