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Date : 21-Feb-2012
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User :   Ok soo i decided to wait until i had sex. Im now 20 and I lost my virginity not to long ago. I am happy with the guy im with now but the thing is he is very experienced and im obviously not which doesnt bother any of us. So, my first time was uhh pretty rough i guess, I got fingered, had oral (both ways) did the 69, had regular sex in many positions and I even had anal sex too. But thing I hated but he never mentioned was that I had actually bled alot. Well we had sex again a few weeks later as I went off on holiday and I bled again the second time, just a little bit but still I bled. Im too scared to actually have sex again incase I bleed again. Do you think Ive injured myself from my first time? or somethings wrong with me?? or should I just do it with him again and see if I do actually bleed again?
Please and Thank You
Doctor :   Hi
Doctor :   let me read
User :   k =)
Doctor :   did you had pain while having sex ?
User :   sometimes yeah
User :   not all of the time
User :   but id say half
Doctor :   for how long you bleed after the sex ?
User :   just during
User :   i didnt bleed after
Doctor :   was the lubrication sufficient ?
User :   yes
Doctor :   probably it is due to the tear in the hymen which is common in the first few sexual encounters
Doctor :   so need not worry much
Doctor :   it will settle down
User :   so will i continue to bleed for a little while
Doctor :   need not be always
Doctor :   may be in the next one or two sexual encounters and after that it may stop
User :   ok i can handle that
User :   i was just worried something may be wrong
Doctor :   this doe sent need any treatment
Doctor :   it is the natural way and the hymen tear do give bleed in every women
User :   thank you =) can i ask something else
Doctor :   yes
User :   i have PCOS....and im taking metformin 2000mg a day and well nothings changed with me
Doctor :   ok
User :   i dont have periods....yet i bleed in sex.....and i have too much hair for a girl which i shave off so my bf doesnt know
User :   but nothings changed
User :   i was wondering should i maybe ask my local doc to prescribe me something else
User :   or will it take longer on metformin
User :   to show
Doctor :   metformin will
only take care of the blood glucose levels that is caused as a result of the PCOS
Doctor :   the irregular periods and excessive hair do not get corrected with the metformin
Doctor :   waxing and shaving are the best methods to remove hair in the PCOS
Doctor :   yes for the irregular menstruation it requires different medication
User :   isnt there anything i can be prescribed that can reduce excess hair.....i really do hate it....i actually have hair all over my body which i shave off daily
User :   i want rid of all hair that is my biggest problem with my body and insecurity i have
Doctor :   no there is no such medicine to reduce the body hair
Doctor :   you can approach a dermatologist
Doctor :   who can remove the hair permanently from the body parts using lazer technique
User :   ok thank you
User :   i'll have to look into that
Doctor :   is there any thing else i can help you with ?
User :   umm......know what usually theres lots of medical things going on in my mind but now i can talk to someone i have nothing
User :   oohh.....spots
User :   i have spots on my upper thighs
User :   i cant seem to shift them and i dont know why their there
Doctor :   ok
User :   im clean before you ask, lol
Doctor :   it is the black or brown spot
User :   their red
User :   and sometimes purple
Doctor :   ok
Doctor :   its cutaneous blood vessel
Doctor :   this has come recently with ht hormonal changes in the body
Doctor :   normal
Doctor :   they keep appearing and disappear too
User :   yes
User :   i feel as though my body actually hates me right now
User :   with all my effects from PCOS and my weight is very yo yo....and spots....yeah
User :   not a body lover, lol
User :   but friends say im fine and my bf loves me the way i am.....i need a positive mental attitudde now
Doctor :   the changes like weight gain, spots on the body, excess hair all over the body are the result of the PCOS
Doctor :   all do not require treatment
Doctor :   even the acne can develop on the face
Doctor :   the symptoms which are troublesome only require treatment
User :   yeah
User :   thank you for your time
User :   and listening
Doctor :   thanks for consulting health care magic
User :   =)
Doctor :   bye for now
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