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Asthma, tips to overcome depression due to family issues - Online Doctor Chats

Date : 13-Jan-2012
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Doctor :   Hi
Doctor :   how can I help you
Doctor :   are yu there
User :   hi
User :   doctor
Doctor :   yes
User :   actually i am feeling down
User :   i am not satisfied with the life i am living
Doctor :   For Administrative and health purposes, Please provide these details of the patient-Age: Gender: Occupation: Location: Marital Status: Weight and Height: Dependents: Yes/ No
User :   23
User :   age 23
User :   working in IT industry
User :   not married
User :   weight 55
User :   height 4 11
User :   dependency : yes
Doctor :   What is yuor exact symptoms
Doctor :   so that I can help you in answering them specifically
User :   i am not happy with life
Doctor :   Why is it so?
Doctor :   What hinderances have you got?
Doctor :   WHich city are yu from?
User :   my healt is a matter of concern
Doctor :   and what is the gender?
User :   and the environment at mu home
User :   my parents r not well
Doctor :   are they not healthy?
User :   no
User :   female
Doctor :   What is the problem with you health
User :   if i do something againt my routine i fall sick
User :   n i take a bit long time to recover
Doctor :   gimme an example
User :   i have asthma (so i cant work in water /dust for long time or daily)
User :   if i wash my cloths daily then surely i will have cold cough high fever
Doctor :   Do you smoke or chew tobacco/drink alcohol/Any illicit drugs/ betel nut chewing? If yes how much/how often and how long?
User :   if i work in an hgectic sechudule for a period then i am gonna have fever
User :   hectic
User :   no doctor i dont drink or smoke
User :   i think i am depressed because there is fight between my parents everyday
Doctor :   ok
Doctor :   are you taking proper medicines
Doctor :   for the asthma
Doctor :   and how often do you have the problem in a week
Doctor :   Can you wait for a minute and logback
Doctor :   there seems to be a problem
User :   ok
Doctor :   come back for sure
Doctor :   ok bye
Doctor :   hi
Doctor :   how can i helo you
User :   hi
Doctor :   y7es
Doctor :   are you taking medicines for asthma
Doctor :   and how many episodes of attacks you get in a week or month?
User :   no i am not taking medicine . i do pop in some tablets wen i get an attack . tdepends on the activities i do the attack happens . if i am working in water /cold whether then it occurs 2 times or 3 times a month
Doctor :   Look you are more depressed with you health
Doctor :   if you are alright and have no attacks of this sort
Doctor :   then you would be happy ot handle the other pressure in you rhuouse
Doctor :   You would be able to handle
Doctor :   the pressure
Doctor :   i dont say happy
User :   more than health i think i am not able to love myself
User :   i want to be gud at things i do
User :   but i am not gud at thinks
User :   i dont wanna see failure
User :   actually i problem is i donnt have direction in life .i dnt know wt i want from life
Doctor :   Ok
Doctor :   I can understand your problem. However, since I am a general practitioner I may not be able to help you much with this.
Doctor :   I can help you direct to a specialist
Doctor :   who can counsel you
Doctor :   and show some directions that you have to go
Doctor :   for the best achievements
User :   yes sure plz show me way out to life
Doctor :   and how to take up the failure
User :   i want to njoy life and be satisfied with myself
User :   n love myself
Doctor :   yes
Doctor :   You have to seek the help from a counsellor who can teach you some methods of how to love thyself
User :   plz can u redirect me to some consellor or pschychologist or psychiatrist
Doctor :   Which city are you from?
User :   hyd
Doctor :   Ok your problem needs a personal cnsultation with a counsellor
Doctor :   and as we have database with bangalore
Doctor :   I cannot name one
Doctor :   in HYD
Doctor :   But surely you will be benefitted
Doctor :   by seeing a counsellor and get two sittings of sessions done
Doctor :   You can read some inspiring books
Doctor :   like YOU CAN WIN
User :   what u want me to do now
Doctor :   that boosts the confidence and you can have a direction
Doctor :   for your life
Doctor :   I wanted you to see a counsellor in HYD city
Doctor :   whoever it is
User :   i can read books but the problm comes wen i have to implement
Doctor :   plan yourself in three ways
Doctor :   column them in three
Doctor :   what are the new things to start
User :   i think everything is burden
Doctor :   What are the old things i have to leave
Doctor :   in my life
Doctor :   and What are the things that I have to continue as I was doing in the past?
Doctor :   direct the doings to a very small goal
Doctor :   first
Doctor :   if you fail start once again
Doctor :   dont fear from failures
Doctor :   and famous adage says Failures are stepping stones for success
Doctor :   and I feel unless you have failures and steps to climb
Doctor :   you have no success
Doctor :   Say start this way
User :   i know that . and my life itself is an example for the proverb how can i forget .
Doctor :   for your asthma problem
Doctor :   you have to see a doctor
Doctor :   and take regular medicine
Doctor :   which controls the asthma
Doctor :   attacks
Doctor :   and avoidance of cold contacts
Doctor :   acheiving this is a simple goal
Doctor :   this can be your first goal
Doctor :   so what should you stop, continue and start new for acheiveing this goal
Doctor :   this is how you should plan
Doctor :   and planning can be done in many ways which counsellor shall support
Doctor :   are you there
User :   yes
Doctor :   Did you get what I wanted to say?
User :   yes
Doctor :   Please fill the feedback form say done when done
User :   but somewhere deep i n my mind i am feeling that i am useless
Doctor :   The feeling shall start goning once you achieve anything small
Doctor :   and small things will be leading big
Doctor :   dont ltake life in a big way
Doctor :   start acheiving very small
User :   thing is i am not njoying doing this
Doctor :   what
User :   i am feeling like burden on me
Doctor :   That is why I asked you to take personal counselling
Doctor :   he/she can help yu recognise what you are
User :   can u suggest some hypnotist
Doctor :   and what you can do
Doctor :   and what is there to acheive
Doctor :   at thsi very young age
Doctor :   You can see any counsellore
Doctor :   as I told you we have no database for Hyderabad
User :   do tell me someone from banglore
Doctor :   If you can come over here and we can help you
Doctor :   you can just call us
Doctor :   before yu come
Doctor :   and we can help you finding a counsellor
Doctor :   in Bangalore
Doctor :   We have introduced a phoneline for those who cannot chat. The number is 91-80-0000 (Mon - Fri, 12PM to 6PM)
User :   but i think hospitals dont have hypnotist
Doctor :   Why do you need hynotist
Doctor :   when the counsellor is sufficient
Doctor :   he will do the rest
User :   i want to come out of all this feelings as soon as possible
Doctor :   Hypnotism is a part of counselling
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