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Date : 13-Jan-2012
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Doctor :   hi
Doctor :   how can i help you
User :   helo doctor, actulay i want an advice related to some mental problems
Doctor :   ok
User :   counselor/psychiatrist like that
Doctor :   For Administrative and health purposes, Please provide these details of the patient-Age: Gender: Occupation: Location: Marital Status: Weight and Height: Dependents: Yes/ No.
User :   can u help me
User :age 26 female
User :   working
Doctor :   ok
User :   married two years back
User :   no children
Doctor :   ok
User :   my problem is related with my husband
User :   we are leading a very hapy life
Doctor :   ok
User :   but last day i hapened to check my husbands laptop
User :   which he usualy keeps in his office
User :   and from the browsing history i came to know that
Doctor :   ok
User :   he is using webcam dating sites and all
User :   i was veryu very shcoked to know this
Doctor :   ok
User :   since he is a very loving person to me and my family
Doctor :   ok
Doctor :   did u talk to him regarding this
User :   i dont kno what lead him to this thing
User :   no
User :   because i checked the history without him knowing
Doctor :   ok
User :   i dont know what to do, since i understood he is cheating me
User :   i canot tel this to my parents since they are old and sick
Doctor :   ok
User :   i found many bad sites from his system
Doctor :   how old is he
Doctor :   this is normal most men do at this age
User :   30
Doctor :   u can have talk to him
User :   i canot face him
Doctor :   and tell him it is not good to do these
User :   i hate him now
Doctor :   try to make him understand ur not liking this
User :   he used to be angry always for smal smal things
User :   and if i ask him regarding this
User :   i canot imagine how hos respons ewil be
Doctor :   i can understand
User :   and today i created a new email id with another name
Doctor :   be cautions when u speak on this matters
User :   and simply mailed him
Doctor :   ok
User :   and he replied to that in a few seconds
User :   what is this?
User :   isnt he cheating me? my parents>???
User :   we are from an orthodox muslim family form kerala,india
Doctor :   yes
Doctor :   i could understand this problem
User :   how come all this can hapen even though we were leading a hapy life
User :   my heart is shivering doctor
User :   i need help
Doctor :   u need to talk to him and tell him it is not fair to do this
Doctor :   calm down
User :   he wil be angry if he know i checked the history -browsing
Doctor :   for time being
Doctor :   dont tell him
Doctor :   when it is right time to talk to you
Doctor :   u can say him indirectly that u dont like these things
User :   i also got lots andlots of letters and photos of his olc lover (sent before marigae) from his suitcase a few months before
Doctor :   he will take hint and understand u dont like these
Doctor :   ok
User :   oj
User :   ok doctor
Doctor :   talk to him and tell me to be faithfull to you
User :   s he doing such things because of my mistake????
User :   i loved him like god
Doctor :   i can understand
User :   i ,and my family treated him as god
Doctor :   only way u can get things right is making him realise
User :   and last....
User :   ok
Doctor :   that it is his mistake
Doctor :   now u cheer up
User :   is he mentally ill?
Doctor :   dont think of what happened
Doctor :   moved ahead
User :   he always tells me he loves me lot..
Doctor :   give him a chance to reform
User :   used to cry when i pain him
User :   like that
User :   is he acting?
User :   can we belive cryuing men??
Doctor :   if he truly loves u surely he will understand
Doctor :   nope
Doctor :   dont worry, cheer up now
Doctor :   just have a talk with him
User :   ok doctor
Doctor :   regarding this
Doctor :   but wont start thinking of it
Doctor :   all the time
User :   please do pray for me since i have no one else to share this problem
Doctor :   u will spoil ur healt
Doctor :   ur health is important as well
User :   yes
Doctor :   i want u guys to talk to each other rather than fighting
Doctor :   it will lead u to now where
User :   ok
Doctor :   and will hurt u and him
User :   yes i know
Doctor :   try to resolve the matter
User :   i too dont want to spoil my life
Doctor :   yes
User :   but this kind of cheating..
Doctor :   anything else u would like to know about
User :   nothing else doctor
User :   thaks a lot
Doctor :   i appreciate ur concern, only way to find solution
Doctor :   is to talk
Doctor :   ur welcome
User :   thanks u
Doctor :   ur welcome
Doctor :   keep smiling
Doctor :   have a nice weekend
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