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Anxiety neurosis and social phobia - Online Doctor Chats

Date : 13-Jan-2012
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Doctor :   Hi
Doctor :  
How can I help you?
User :   Hi Doctor
User :   i have unusual problem
Doctor :  
Hi, proceed with your query
User :   i am facing with aproblem of blushing
User :   im 25 years old
Doctor :   Ok
User :   and due to this i cannot talk to people easily
User :   i dont know what's wrong but my life has bcome like hell due to this
Doctor :  
Could you explain your symptoms?
User :   can u suugest some medications or some other therapy
User :   i cannot make eye-contacts while talking
Doctor :   Ok

User :   even with girls also, and i do blush
User :   usually in public occasions, where lot of people r there i lush more
Doctor :   blush in the sense, you mean it as psychologica feeling or a circulatory disturbance
User :   psychologica feeleing??
User :   what does that mean??
Doctor :   Like nervousness
User :   well, i dont have any psychotic symptoms
Doctor :  
anxiety
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Phobias
User :   i become nervous if i cant talk properly
User :   nd that can make me anxious
Doctor :  
OK
User :   but i regain my confidence if i satnd in front of people
Doctor :  
Since how many years have you been facing this problem?
User :   since 1 year

Doctor :   May I know your educational qualification?

User :   Hi
User :   I have done post graduation
Doctor :   Hi
Doctor :  
I have a call please bear for a minute
User :   Can you please help me in getting out of this condition?
Doctor :  
Sure, kindly bear for a minute
User :   Ok. I am waiting.
User :   Plz, if it can be done fast..
Doctor :   Sorry
User :   Ok No problem
Doctor :  
Too many emergency calls today
Doctor :  
Ok
User :   Yes, i was telling, i am currently in a job in areputed comapny
User :   *company
Doctor :  
What I feel from your explanation is that you are having a bit of anxiety neurosis problem
User :   Ok. Is that results in blushing?
Doctor :  
Thats good
Doctor :   Yes, it causes certain physiological changes
User :   So, what i can do overcome this??
Doctor :   May I know your height and weight?
User :   i am 5''1' and my weight is 49 kgs
Doctor :   Ok
User :   I am normal in other activities but people take me abnormal when i behave in blushing
Doctor :  
How is your work going?
User :   Work is ok.
Doctor :   Ok
Doctor :  
Thats nice
User :   But sometimes i wont be able to concentrate in my work
User :   due to this
Doctor :   Ok

Doctor :  
I understand
Doctor :  
May I know your marital status?
User :   i feel like people are watching me
Doctor :   Ok

User :   i am single
Doctor :   Fine
Doctor :  
How is you overall health?
User :   i am normal, and i have good physique
Doctor :   Like eating habits, sleep pattern
User :   I eat normally, and sometimes people feel i feel more hungary than other's even though i am small
Doctor :  
Yes you are having a good physique
User :   Everythig is fine
User :   I take normally 8 hours of sleep
Doctor :   So I can assume that sleep is also fine
Doctor :  
Do you feel intolerant to heat?
User :   Yes. Absolutely
Doctor :  
Like sweating a lot
User :   No, i dont have that problem
Doctor :  
Ok
User :   i saw girls sweating a lot but i dont have that
Doctor :   Thats good
User :   I usually drink lot of water too
Doctor :  
One more thing I want to ask you
User :   Yes
User :   Please ask anything to judge my condition
Doctor :  
Was there any incidence in which
Doctor :  
has had a serious impact on your life
User :   No. There's no such incidence.
Doctor :   Ok
Doctor :  
May I know your activity level?
Doctor :  
Like your exercise pattern if you?
User :   But i have to listen to many comments from my colleagues frm past 7-8 months due to my this problem
User :   which is affecting me daily to daily
Doctor :  
Ok
Doctor :  
What is it like?
User :   As i am lucky to get a job..
User :   ...as i am uneducated
User :   even though i have been topper through my garduation
User :   nd i have done my PG frm top 32 institutes of india
Doctor :   Ok
User :   I have to listen a lot...and cant say anything
Doctor :  
Firstly you need to ignore them
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because there is not truth in their comments
User :   But i have go through the comments and bullies everyday
Doctor :   Yes
Doctor :  
that has become a part of life nowadays
Doctor :  
whith the morality of people goind low
User :   So, what i can do now??
Doctor :  
May I know you religion and caste if you dont mind?
User :   My sister's wedding is there after 2 months and i am thinking how will i face people there
Doctor :  
Do you believe in spirituality or your religions or both?
User :   Yes.
User :   I am Hindu. I am Rajput
Doctor :   Does anyone comment on your looks and something like that
User :   People comment on my looks as i am not so beautiful..
Doctor :  
Ok
User :   nd then still i blush
User :   so sometimes they call AAAAAAA Rai to me
Doctor :   I asked it because you might be have developed a negative feeling
Doctor :  
because of such worthless comments
Doctor :  
who are nothing to you
User :   No. Not like that
User :   coz i know what i am
Doctor :  
You know that our loved ones do not comment anything
User :   Yes.
Doctor :  
but someone outside who has not done anything to us
Doctor :  
gives us such comments
Doctor :  
And do not accept their comments
Doctor :  
and take it on you
Doctor :  
First ignore those comments
User :   Ya surely. But cant close my ears
Doctor :  
and next you can boldly reply them back that
Doctor :  
they do not have any rights to do that on you
Doctor :  
Try to learn a martial art
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which boosts your confidence
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and you will learn how to handle such people in such situations
Doctor :  
Develop good confidence
Doctor :  
Express your feelings to your loved ones
Doctor :  
try to get thier help
User :   Okay. Thats make sense
Doctor :   Did you follow?
User :   Absolutely.
User :   There is one more problem..i dont like people watch me
Doctor :   Is it fine for you to learn martial art?
User :   i feel irritated if i came to know that they are watching me and seeing what am i doing??
Doctor :  
That is what is called as phobia
Doctor :  
socail phobia
User :   phobia of what??
Doctor :  
fear it means
User :   ok.
Doctor :  
phobia of society
User :   OK.
Doctor :  
to address or face people
Doctor :  
Also one more thing
User :   Yes. I think that i am going through that only
Doctor :  
You try to visit a psychiatrist and get help
Doctor :  
there is nothing wrong in visiting a Psychiatrist
User :   So, what the measures they will take??
Doctor :  
do not carry such stigma
Doctor :  
they will provide you with counselling
User :   If somebody see me, they will definitely think that i am psychic thats why iam visiting psychiatrist
Doctor :  
and if required you will be prescribed some medications to help you face these challenges
Doctor :  
No
Doctor :  
Just tell them that I am not getting proper sleep and have come to get remedial measure for that
Doctor :  
That will do I suppose
Doctor :  
Is there any thing else I can help you with?
User :   Ok.
Doctor :  
Please get back to me in case of doubts.
User :   If in this site i can connect and talk to a psychiatrist counseller
User :   it will be of great help
Doctor :   We can fix appointment for you with the psychiatrist
Doctor :  
May I know your location?
User :   I am in Bangalore
Doctor :  
Ok
Doctor :  
Which area you want to get an appointment?
User :   Cant i chat to a doctor here??
User :   Nearby my area.
Doctor :  
It will be helpful for you if you can meet the psychiatrist face to face
Doctor :   One of your executive will call you and will fix an appointment with the psychiatrist nearby
Doctor :  
Is that fine?
Doctor :  
'our
User :   So, if your clinics are in this area??
User :   i dont think so..
User :   can i get ur name and your specialization
Doctor :   No we will fix up with the concerned doctor for you

Doctor :  
I am a General practitioner
User :   OKay.
Doctor :  
Is there any thing else I can help you with?
User :   No. Not now.
Doctor :  
Please fill the feedback form say done when done.
Doctor :  
Have you filled the feedback form?
User :   i want everything to be confidential and none of my queries to be posted on your site.
Doctor :  
Sure
Doctor :  
it is absolutely confidential
Doctor :  
and you need not have a slightest doubt regarding that
User :   So, at later point of time if i want to chat witha doctor i can come again to this site
Doctor :   Yes
Doctor :  
you can login 24/7 and chat with our doctors
User :   I want to chat with a psychiatrist doctor and can fix an appointment then, plz connect me to that if u have that service available
User :   At any time later
Doctor :   We will assist you getting the appointment done
Doctor :  
that would be of better help
User :   Ok. thanks
Doctor :  
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