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Date : 21-Feb-2012
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Practicing since : 2004
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User :   I'm 25 yrs old and I'm having problems keep it up. It's like when I get tired all I think about how tired I am. I also haven't had sex in a real long while about 2yrs because I have been so busy and no time for anything. Now that I have a girlfriend it's like I forgot and I'm frustrated by it.
Doctor :   Hi
User :   hello
Doctor :   let me read your query
User :   ok
Doctor :   can you tell if if you have problems masturbating ?
User :   No not really I can masturbate just fine
User :   I use to do it like every day before I got with this girl
Doctor :   do u get stronger erections while masturbating ?
User :   yeah
User :   Even when I'm with her and I do get a good erection it won't last long like 5-10 minutes
Doctor :   in that case, there is nothing wrong with your penis
Doctor :   what you do have is performance anziety
User :   oh
User :   Is there anything I can do ?
Doctor :   you can take medications like viagra, just to build your confidence
User :   Do I need a prescription for that? Or is it over the counter?
Doctor :   it does need prescriptions
Doctor :   there are methods which can be helpful without medications too
Doctor :   but they need mental preparation and patience and building self confidence
Doctor :   Are you there ?
User :   yes
Doctor :   ok
User :   I'm reading
User :   what sort of methods?
Doctor :   since you are still young, and due to stress and tiredness post work, you may find difficulty in this field
Doctor :   kegel excercises are one of such methods
Doctor :   also sexual inactiveness for a long time, might be the main reason for lack of confidence
Doctor :   and this can cause anxiety while having sex
User :   oh it explains a lot
Doctor :   i can send you a literature, on your email id about these techniques
User :   thanks you
Doctor :   if you like it
User :   sure I would
Doctor :   please confirm your mail id
Doctor :   ok
Doctor :   i will send the mail within 20-30 mins
User :   ok thanks
Doctor :   you are most welcome
Doctor :   i will be covering all issues including erectile dysfunction and premature ejaculation as well
User :   Also do you think exercising will help
Doctor :   yes
Doctor :   physcical workouts will be very essential to build your confidence
Doctor :   physical fitness is very important for a great sexual life
User :   Also do you have anything on dieting for good fitness?
Doctor :   yes,
Doctor :   i can include that as well
User :   Thank you verrry much
Doctor :   may i know your weight , age and height ?
User :   I'm 5'7 and weight umm I think about 160-180
User :   it's been so long since I weight my self
Doctor :   ok no problem
User :   well lol do I stay on until I get the e-mail?
Doctor :   based on the info, it seems that you have a BMI of 28
User :   BMI?
Doctor :   the normal BMi (body mass index) is 18-25
Doctor :   so you will benefit by loss of 30 pounds of your weight
User :   oh ok
Doctor :   you can choose to log out instead of waiting
User :   so I have to start jogging and exercising
Doctor :   yes phycial workouts and cardio, weight traning will be very important
User :   well thank you I'll be waiting for your e-mail
Doctor :   you are most welcome
Doctor :   you will get the mail soon
User :   bye
User :   hold on
Doctor :   sure
User :   umm you can't happen to write prescription for viagara can you?
Doctor :   no
Doctor :   sorry that cannot be done online as that is illegal to prescribe without a physical examination
User :   ohh ok thanks anyway
User :   bye now
Doctor :   you are welcome
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