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Anal sex after a hemorrhoid surgery - Online Doctor Chats

Date : 21-Feb-2012
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User :   When can I do anal sex again, After a hemorroid surgery?
Doctor :   Hi
Doctor :   How can I help you ?
User :   I am active passive with my partner,but I am worried if getting anal intercourse could damage my operation surgery. I did the surgery with a very good hospital in and they used the method most modern with cramps.
Doctor :   Ok
User :   Hello DOctor, i wrote my questions above
Doctor :   You can be an active partner in 4 weeks, but to be a passive partner you have to wait for at least 8 weeks.
Doctor :   For the whole surgery to heal.
User :   And even in a time like that, it will not damage my surgery?
Doctor :   But hemorrhoids can recur because of Anal sexual intercoures.
User :   Sorry recur, is return?
Doctor :   Yes exactly.
User :   How can we avoid that, doing the sex in a special way?
Doctor :   I have not understood your question , could you explain it ?
User :   Softly,not strong etc, the main problem is when you introduce the penis, that the point can touch the cicatrize?
User :   My anterior question is a way to do anal sex wich cannot be so harmfull to get hemorroids back? Why they can return?
Doctor :   If you perform before that period you might totally damage the surgery and will surely put you in greater risk, So please try to understand the point and wait for 8 weeks.
Doctor :   Ok, For your previous question , The best thing would be to be an Active partner rather than a Passive partner and try to explore other methods for gratification to be on the safer side.
User :   Of course I will do that, I didnt tell my doctor that I am, HE is a very good doctor, but I was ashamed
Doctor :   Please dont worry about that , there is nothing wrong in being, but it is wrong not to discuss with your treating doctor.
Doctor :   Please dont take me wrong.
User :   I know that,but I was insecure.
Doctor :   He could have been your best advisory and all doctors are very confidential about their patients. It is according to Medical Ethics.
User :   The doctor seemed not to be open to that...or that was only my feeling, at least I found you here to explain.
Doctor :   And please be a bit more careful for next 8 weeks and I feel if your hemorrhoids were grade 2/3, then there can be a chance that you can perform anal sex , if at all it is performed slowly and carefully.
Doctor :   I still strongly feel A Proctologist/ Surgeon can give you the correct picture of the anal canal at its tenacity and the blood vessels.
Doctor :   Hope you are following.
Doctor :   So, I want you to be extremely confident about yourself and discuss with the doctor freely after 4 weeks of your surgery.
User :   I am following
Doctor :   Thank you for consulting me.
Doctor :   Do you have anything else to ask ?
User :   Thanks a lot,can you send me our conversation by email, to show my boyfriend?
Doctor :   Take care, Bye for now.
Doctor :   ok
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